Hey all,

Chris Nome here. I'm definitely a PUA. Have no problem meeting women anywhere, any time. In fact, this last saturday I was planning on going up to visit another young lady I had met the previous week when I stopped in a bar and met another girl who asked me to give her a ride, got a bj, and almost even had sex (I had just worked out so was missing a condom). Anyhow, I'm no expert but I've got potential. That's why I'm here, i'd like to give the world a skilled and refined PUA. Anyone feel free to hit me up.

Chris Nome

PS I don't know what these terms mean like IOI or kino escalate or the others. There should be a glossary or something cause I'm sure I do this stuff just don't have the words for it.

alright, so here's one reason why I'm rough around the edges.. After that little encounter i described, I found that I really liked that girl and she brought out all these repressed feelings left from a serious girlfriend she reminded me of. She gave me her number (twice) and straight up told me she wanted my dick in her and even repeated it. I jumped the gun though and got her her pants back the next day hoping to do the deed then (Sunday, such a sinner). She just gave me a hug and acted all caddy, and now she's not interested and even asked me not to call her. I've basically backed off. I know that she is attracted to me though and there's that common ground where we met that I go to every day to work out; chances are not bad that we'll run into each other again. I'd definitely like to have my dick in her, so I'm just hoping to regain my cool by being absent until that spontaneous moment we meet again, and then I fuck her. Any advice otherwise, or even if you think this is a good call, what exactly should I do when that moment comes that we bump into each other to insure that she's not on the defensive and allow us to fuck? The girl said told me she wants my dick in her many times, we both would love it. Thanks

I would say that it would be good if the next time you ran into her you had another girl hanging off your arm. Don't worry about her. Go to the next girl.

Apollyon,

I like that advice, I'll have to meet her though cause I don't have any that are primed to go right now

RussianStar,

Yeah, I was just going to introduce myself then I realized that I had a situation that I could use a little perspective on. It isn't what you think though. I met her in a bar downtown, then she asked me for a ride, as soon as the elevator going down emptied I kissed her and we made out, then she took my hand and drag me to my Jeep where I sucked her tits against it till some dude saw us and stared at us, then we went inside where she gave me a bj and we would have had sex if I had a condom. We almost did, then she said she couldn't do it without the condom. That's when she said she wanted my dick in her a few times. Lol

Don't get me wrong, she still was testing me in some way, just not in the context you're thinking of. Still need some help here, because that was fucking awesome and now its turning into a buzzkill and buzzkills are never good. What should I do?

RussianStar, just had another thought after the fact. I like what you said because I think it could work, regardless of having another girl on my arm or not (obviously better with the girl). She knows she can fuck whoever whenever and she chose me, so she obviously already has that interest. But also, it kind of makes sense that she might want more than just sex. Especially because she said she just wanted sex and specifically kept bringing up that she didn't want a boyfriend.. shows what was on her mind while she was with me. I also played into that and told her that was fine, we should just have sex then, after the fact.. lol

Right now I'm actually taking it a step farther than teasing her by being her friend. I haven't even gone into that bar since that night and I'm usually a regular. i walk by it every day and don't even look inside, and if by chance she's there, she'll see me walk on by without any interest, and she'll know that I'm not interested in having another let down. If I just go up to her now to be her friend, she'll think that I can be kept around by just building the tension up without a finish and think me a total tool for allowing her to do it. This girl knows all the bartender's there that know this. So, I'm not even trying to be her friend, I'm turning the avoidance back onto her when I'm coming from the gym, the way I was when we met while at the same time not calling her and absent after a unique first impression...

Damage control though, dude, I definitely need it. What should I do, especially from here? Details are key. I really like this girl and now I'm just acting like she's another peice of ass cause if I act like I really like her, I WILL just go to the friends zone and I'm too aggressive a guy to be there now and she knows it. So, the next move is crucial if there ever is one. I don't know how to do it besides to do my best to be in most relaxed and funniest character and not care what happens. Maybe that's the winning move, huh?