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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 9:00 pm 
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I was at a pub last weekend and saw an HB 8 i've talked to a few times. I knew her from before, but last time we talked, it was actually at the same bar. Last time, we talked for a bit and were flirting pretty hard. I forgot her name and she called me out on it. I must have fixed it somehow because later that night she was straddling me and her face was like, right in my face. I didn't try to k close her. At the end of the night I got her number, we hugged goodbye and she started kissing my neck, but like an idiot I still didn't go for the k close. I ended up calling her about two weeks later and after an awkward phone conversation I deleted it.

Last weekend it was kind of the same story. She has a boyfriend now though, is the only thing. I didn't use a BF dest because i just read the Game last week and am new to the community. But i used what I knew and managed to get good results. So anyway, we're talking at the bar and SHE isolates ME, takes me to a booth in the corner of the pub. We sit and start talking. Flirt for a little bit. She keeps asking me, "What's your DEAL?"

Anyway, we talk for a little bit and she starts telling me how she wanted to be with me, starts saying all these nice things about me. At this point she's turned towards me, her legs are on me and we're somehow having a conversation with her face buried in my neck and her cheek on my cheek. But, same as last time, I didn't make a move.

So, my first question, what should/could I have done to k-close?

So we sit and talk for a while, and then she said something that I didn't like. I don't remember what. I excused myself to the bathroom and she looked sad. I felt guilty but I knew it was in my best interests lol.

Went, came back, hung out with random ppl for a little and then she found me again. Invites me to her room, and I of course agree and we leave. She lives walking distance from the pub. We leave and start walking, but her friend calls her from behind and says something to the effect of, "Are you going to your room because I need to get something from there." I was kind of drunk so I don't remember exactly. Basically trying to CB.

The UG starts blabbing and the HB 8 walks off, leaving me with her. I called for her to come back, not wanting to follow and have the UG be annoying. She didn't come back so I went back to the pub and met my friends.

Second question, how could I have gotten rid of the UG?

Any other advice you guys can give would be great!


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PostPosted: Tue May 06, 2008 9:22 pm 
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So, my first question, what should/could I have done to k-close?

I can't believe you didn't bed this girl with all the IOI (as they call it) she was showing you...forget a weak k-close.

If she walked off, then something triggered her to do so. If I had to guess, it was the lack of motivation on your part. Based on what I read, you could have taken her to a closet in the pub and f*cked her, or gotten pretty damn close.

I'm wondering if there is any particular reason as to why you didn't take this scenario all the way.

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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 5:38 am 
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Well, i thought i'd get rejected because she had a boyfriend. Like maybe she was just being flirty with me but was going to keep herself from actually going through with anything.


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I see, those are valid points. A few of things you need to keep in mind...

#1)

Don't ever concern yourself with being rejected, get that fear out of your head. If a woman isn't feeling you, for whatever reason, it's not 'rejection', it's her loosing out on a good time, and it's not always because of something you did, or didn't do.

Some girls 'reject' guys because they CAN, they do it for an ego boost, others have deeper emotional issues going on not directly related to you. Don't automatically think it's because you didn't sarge correctly (or whatever they call it).

#2)

Girls love to flirt, it's fore play for them. I would take advantage of it next time and use it to increase her attraction. If her attraction is high enough, you will be surprised what a girl with do, regardless of her relationship status.

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PostPosted: Wed May 07, 2008 7:33 pm 
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Well you made her want it more by not kissing her and being put in the situation again. k-close sometime though.


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