Oi,

this kinda connects with the tonatiuh8's post.

This is a realization I made just tonight, after I got fucked up by this guy;

I DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK.

You might say "Ok, this is old stuff" and you're probably right. However, no one ever said what you should care about then. So my new belief is this:

"IMPORTANT IS MY SKILL. MY IMPROVEMENT OF SOCIAL SKILLS. IT AIN'T IMPORTANT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF ME AT THE MOMENT."

I mean, it is somewhat important (after all, we are doing this precisely so we could control what they think of us). But it ain't important what that one person standing over there thinks of me. I do care about what ppl think of me, but I judge it through their ACTIONS; do they let me stay in set? Do they play table-football with me? Do they flirt with me?

Don't trust words, trust actions.
After all, sex is not verbal nor mental; it is PHYSICAL.

And the only thing I want to do now is to IMPROVE AND PRACTICE my social skills.

If she lets me stay in set, or make out with her, my game doesn't have to be perfect; I have achieved the same thing as if it was perfect.

Try to think about it. Anyways, good night and
Carpe Diem.

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4 words: Fuck the social ladder.

People make excuses that popularity is what hinders them and to game a girl you must be popular.

Bullshit. Just go out and have fun and open and game it like any other person. Gaming a girl the right way will make her forget about that.

That's my realization in hs.

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"I came, I saw, I conquered"
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Words of Wisdom.

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Great posts Paeter

I'm sure your helping a lot of guys that are in High School

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Hi im a junior and have hot girls attracted to me and am popular etc. BUT how/where do you escalate physically past kissing? Does anyone have any solid end game for high school pick up? thanks.


And in addition to previous posts ive found that jealousy plot lines are essential and easy to implement: just bring one hot girl over to another, be interesting and then watch them struggle to the best of their lovely feminine ability to win you over. O and lean back (lock in anyone.) Triangles are your friends. --good luck

alcohol.

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tnx XFMAN, I hope I am.


Hey guys, now this tip is for everyone, regardless of age:

HOW TO DANCE IN CLUBS.

I danced the night away tonight so it is the first thing that comes into my mind.

And it is simple.
Give yourself up to the music.

Now, some of you may have trouble with that, I know I never had. Simply, as soon as I hear any song I just feel it, feel the waves passing through me.
And I express them in my moves.

So how to?

Easily. Listen to the music. Feel it. Close your eyes, relax and just think of the music, its melody and (important for dancing) beats. Rhythm. Listen to the lyrics, it may help - but instead of trying to make out meaning (which you would normally do when listening to the music) listen to its melody, feelings.
You'll know you are doing fine when you feel the music in your chest - as if it was beating along with your heart.

As soon as you do this, you'll notice your feet stamping (bumping, beating or whatever you call it) in rhythm of the music. Now you are golden - just get up (if you're sitting) and start dancing.

It may be awkward at first, or you may not know what to do. I recommend sometimes, when you are at home alone, put on your favorite music (anything with a rhythm, even blues will do) and just dance to it, feeling it and expressing your feelings though your moves. The pace of the rhythm doesn't matter - but you should be dancing along the beats, in rhythm of the song. You know, throw your hand with every beat or sth like that.

Oh and one more thing. Don't be critical; instead use dancing as your way to express your feelings for the music. Music comes from feelings; and as you listen to the music, you use your dance to express those feelings. And don't worry if you look silly to yourself or think you are doing too weird stuff. Just look at MTV and watch them dance weirdly and everyone thinks it's cool. Be cool with your dancing - and others will be too.

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Move your hands, feet, legs, torso, head - everything that could be labeled as parts of your body. Imagine that the music is a whip master and you are the whip - let the music guide you.


Finally, if you still think you are too stiff, take some dancing lessons (preferably latin-american dances). It will help you in engaging your body the ways you would never think is possible.

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Why am I telling you this? Because the easiest way to open a girl on a dance floor is to just start dancing with her/next to her. And your confident moves will make you stand out - in a positive way.


Hope this helps,

Carpe Diem.

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Answer to Cloud9 question:

Now there are many scenarios here. Now you have already have her attracted to you so if she kissed you already. So what i normaly do is just have fun and start building a deeper connection with her. Talk about more serious stuff but bored her to death, make it interesting. Then just start touching her leg, wishper in her ear, or play whit her hair. She while feel the sexual tension growing and will also follow buy touching you more. There is no wrong place or time to start escalating aslong as you attracted her to you. SO JUST DO IT.

All you high schoolers need to join this facebook group ASAP:
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=12424842511

Fuckin hilarious

any 1 who reads this may have seen other post i have done etc. all abut pretty much the same thing. i thought this was a great tip for people in high school who are being bullied and its only something really stupid i realized i was doing.

bullies are scum don't be nice i know this sounds stupid but be completely blunt with them, this works for me for ages i was wondering how the hell i wasent getting them to stop etc. i changed my body launguadge everything, still no avail. heres an example of how i changed:

what i was like before:
i made eye contact with him
he says my name
then trips me

he says hi
i say hi
he laughs and i say what the fuck?
and he says you idiot

these are some minor examples ok not really showing the worse stuff but u get it right

me now:
no eye contact he makes eye contact with me then i ask him what the fuck he wants

he calls me an idiot after laughing i say at least im not the one laughing at my own jokes u fucking fagot

after i say something to him i turn away immediately to start talking to my friends again i used to keep talking to him for too long.

now if he trys touching me then i grab his wrist and twist his arm round calling him a cunt then throwing him away


a few things its considered play fighting if you don't achelly hit them so go ahead if your bigger than them twist there arm trip them up but don't give them any attention unless there pissing you off then u give them attention that will embarrass them, im quite lucky because im so tall but because i used to joke around allot with people that bullied me i got no where

if your short / weak u can still do most of this stuff and you can get more muscle. if your just wanting a little more just do as many pressups as you can before u take a shower if you cant do pressups do lady pressups no one will watch you you can do them in the bathroom with the door locked if your that bothered . otherwise if your gonna spend money get weights etc.

and also if you have all the right body language your going to look more confident and people have naturall confidence due to fitness/social status (they usualy tie together) so your going to look stronger basicly so have the right body launguadge when doing this stuff otherwise you wont look too great and also say it loud and clear (not with a nasal voice or properly shouting) hes not gonna be as embarrassed if he gets lairy (which he shouldent be able to do if you say something as a response and leave his eye contact and turn away to engadge in a diffrent conversation) but if he does and says something like you think your hard dont you wana fight then ? say something along the lines of fuck off you lairy bitch ive got more important things to do. of course this aint gonna stop some people who think with there balls and not there head so they will come over and ask what u said or something and repeat it without backing off and showing weakness, chances are if your in school they would have backed down now laughing or something unless there really pissed. if your weak and cant beat them with your fist take it to the next level and use a stool to knock there legs out then beat there face in.

just some random tips for you guys out there that are in the same situation i used to be in. just use everything this website has to offer u in how to dress, voice tone and body launguadge etc. look like an alpha. then be completly blunt and turned off towords them.

his has been a discription of what has worked for me;

oh and high social staus is basicly making you immune to bullies (usualy there not the highest social status people) but its impossible to get high social status when someone so low on the ladder is picking on you, its almost like a barrier. thanks for reading my stuff if you did hope it helped

Chika chika yaa fake id (sorry for the superbad)
Having a fake id is awesome in highschool. I will get a bombardment of texts from people on friday wanting to hangout drink, smoke hookah ect. Another word of advice. Generally do not go for girls at your school. Or at least have a group of females you can see from other schools. Its just easier and when you bring girls from different schools its a huge dhv.

Guys, I appreciate your input. Have learned something already. It's nice to see a high-school-related tips and strategies.

Anyways, today I'm sharing my favorite technique, easy to use, but shamefully overlooked most of the time.

The LOOK.

I love it. It is great, it is fast, it is efficient, it is non-verbal so you don't have to think some witty lines, it is usable anywhere, anytime, as a reaction to anything.


If someone says something stupid to put you down if front of other people, you give him a second-and-half long "you-are-so-immature-and-stupid" or "are-you-done" look. He shuts up, and whole crowd knows that you don't acknowledge this guy, so he loses respect.

If a girl does something stupid, you bust her balls by doing the "look-what-a-mess-you-did" look with a sly smile.

If you want to spark a conversation, or build it up, give a person a look full of interest and curiosity. Like a child, asking his/hers mother why the sky is blue (btw, my explanation was that it's of all that water that evaporates ).

Nothing creates sexual tension - and thus attraction - better than "I-know-you-want-me-and-I-want-you-right-here-too" look. Or, earlier in a conversation, the "you-could-be-interesting-to-get-to-know-better" look.

Etcetcetc. You can say whatever you want, effectively bypassing her bitch-shield most of the times. Because the look is just between her and you.

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Oh and try to do it with minimal face expressions. Don't exaggerate, try to keep your expression low. However, don't go into the other extreme either - be sure she can understand what mean by that look. After all, eyes themselves don't change; it's your face that does.
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Plus; the look is most effective when done silently. However, you can talk and give the look at the same time, if you want to engage her critical consciousness and let the look "talk" to unconscious.

OK, so that's it.

Share your thoughts!

Carpe Diem.

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Another tip from what i have learned. This may help in phone game .
Calls HB
HB: Hey whats up
PUA: oh nothing much chillen. You
HB: well...
As soon as she starts to speak interupt her and say you this annoying girl xyz is calling put her on hold for a few minutes and as soon as you unhold her go into complaining about how this girl from another school is always calling wanting to hangout and how she is really pretty and has little personality and that it drives you nuts. It shows higher value, lowers her value, and can be very effective to girls who get jealous.

I disagree, if you come across as bragging, it may not have the same desired effect and we all know how much people brag these days. That does not come across as attractive does it...? IMO its better to tell the HB you have to talk to the other gal and would get back to her later.
And now i have got a question for Paetar. I think paetar is one year junior to me as far as age and both HS grades go...but he sure can help me in on this. How do you go about attracting a senior? Do you treat her on the same level or be very formal always...?

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