so im basically retarded, we've been seeing each other for about a month we finally made it official, and we had our first fight today. it was over stupid shit but anyway

i think i showed way to much interest, i said something along the lines of i really like you a lot and i ive had relationships end over stupid shit before and i just cant tell what your thinking somtimes...

to which she responded " lol, cute." then "dont worry just be happy" "i like you to"

i didnt even realize how fucking retarded i must have sounded until a few hours later when i was thinking about it. but the rest of the night we had shitty conversation and i feel like ive lost control of the relationship.

how can i defuse this and get myself back in the power seat

well its been a few hours and no responses, so that leads me to believe im probably overreacting. its possible. idk relationships are confusing

Yeah, in a way.. you screwed up And no real way to fix it, whats done is done, but in the future, try to hold your big emotional talks back a bit

yah i know i dont think sometimes, idk im going to do my best to just relax and not get so invested so fast..

I agree, those emotional talks can kill any attraction you have built. And 'relaxing' is a big part of it.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

yeah bro dont say stuff like that.

is it ever okay to tell a girl you like her after you get to know her for a while and your pretty sure shes attracted to you?