That kind of depends on the caliber of the HB you're dealing with. If she's some banging hot, over confident girl then you can take...almost literal stabs at her. This will show that you're not all wrapped up in her looks like..the 10 other guys hanging off her. The PUA is the exception to the rules.

Now if you're talking to like a HB7 then taking shots at her, isnt going to do much except turn her off to you. But a over confident 9 or 10 ya take some shots, do it with a smile. You can say ANYTHING with the right smile and you can get away with it.

This isn't a bad neg but it needs a bit of refining. Saying "what the fuck were u thinking ..." sounds hostile and a bit juvenile. Instead, compliment her dress, look at her shoes, shake your head, chuckle a bit if you can, and say "but I'm not sold on that dress".

The idea of a neg is to knock her out of her comfort zone so she's trying to prove herself to you. The most likely response to the above is mock indignation followed by "what's wrong with my shoes?". You've effectively knocked her out of her comfort zone while moving the conversation along. From here you have a lot of options ...

- Nothing really, if that's your style than that's your style.
-I guess I just like to see a girl in heels. It looks a bit classier IMO
- I happen to like to dance so I would say something to the extent of: Well, it's going to be real difficult for you to keep up with me on the dance floor. I'll go easy on you though."
- Run a cheesy line on her: Actually, my ex was a shoe model and I'm just sick of looking at girls and their shoes. I don't understand it but at least it got me a free trip to NY. A shoe model is still a model right?

This also provides you with a great way to leave the conversation. You didn't go out to spend your night talking to the girl with the funny shoes. You need to get back to your friends but you know a great place to grab a cup of coffee. Hopefully next time she can find a better pair of shoes in her closest ...

That's just my $.02 ...[/i]

I'd probably compliment on the dress, then look down at the shoes then wince or suck air over my teeth and start to turn back to your wing or slightly turn away. This will probably be closely followed by a "what?" from her, then when pushed describe her shoes as "fine"...that'll really bug her.

that sounds great but every girl is diff so u use those sparingly lol ,those are the ones that shatter confidence quik and lower her value,sometimes whenonline and open i use brutal stufff like "WHAT UP UGLY "if she gets madd tell her no means yes yes means no if i thought you were ugly i wouldn be hittin on you,brutal lines in diff areas work great if you use dem right memeber GIRLS LUV BAD BOYS ,and nice guys finish last ,use these wit caution "sounds great tho"

+1

Im new to the site but not to the game, this is a great neg don't let anyone tell you different. Yes the ideal of the comment is to give her a backhanded compliment but compliments come in all forms. I think its great just be careful how you say it, and give a small laugh after you say to ease the moment but still remain in control.

i dunno if i like it

ima say no

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That neg (from original post) sounds like a recipe for disaster. Never put her down, nor make her feel ugly. Come up with something else. Maybe:
I love the taste of makeup in the morning.

With that one, you can even check if she's film-literate.

I've found that within reason (ie provided you aren't outright insulting a girl!) the success of most negs/CF lines depends on your delivery.

I've got a friend I'm trying to bring into this because he desperately needs to get a clue, but even when I let him use lines I've come up with they just don't work. I think it's because he still has the air of a low-value male. You can follow the script to the last letter but if you're thinking about it too much, or you don't have the inner game, it isn't going to come out right.

example - the other night, I was chatting to this beautiful girl at a beach party. HB8, half-asian. she lives in a city which is reknowned in Britain for its gay scene, and she's saying "I kissed this guy, but he told me he was bi. I think he's probably gay."

I countered by looking her up and down and saying "Yeah, i can see how he might have got confused". now that sounds like an insult written down, but delivered with the right tone it worked a charm..I have no doubt that my friend would have been able to fuck that situation up and say it like he actually thought she looked like a man..

Yeah I think your getting alot of hate for this but i think before you put something up you should field test it a fair bit to make sure it gets results. I think that there SHOULD be a compliment in there SOMEWHERE.

~Frogga

LMFAO....epic!

Thats dangerous.

Negging her on her makeup is your own choice, do you want her to use less makeup or not? Negging on her actions should always be a question do you yourself want her to do something or not?

You don't always need to neg, you could just tease her about something.

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Instead of just insulting these guys, why don't u give some tips? No one are born experts, I guess that's why we're helping each other out. Please explain what a neg really is, cause I'm new and I want to learn it

Thanks bro.

Kind regards,
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Neg is something that shows the girl you don't give a shit about how good looking she might be. Neg should get a girl act self-conscious and sometimes defend herself (which actually is trying to qualify herself to fit your rules or just to show that shes not what your neg says).

If she haves a beer bottle:
"You drink way too much! " Thats a neg.
Now theres a slight chance girl might just agree with that but if you say:

"You drink way too much! You can't be my friend anymore"
Now this is a neg followed by some playful teasing which shows that you are the one who decides whether you will be friends or not.

Now theres less chance that she'll agree and more chance that she will become self-conscious and start defending herself with "No I don't! Really I don't!" and then you continue by teasing her:

"Oh, well whats that *point at the beer bottle*... Mineral water?"

HB: Its my first.

"No, you're joking me! Every girl I've known drinks alot... I bet thats at least your twentieth."

HB: (Disagrees)

"Okay, well do this *Run a somekind of test for drunk . It could aswell be yourself made. You could just make one up right there.*"

So long...

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wow that neg sounds pretty rough i can't imagine it would go down well but i guess that depends on the delievery