hey what's up guys i was just thinking about college since it's soon to be over and one of the things that crossed my mind as i was thinking about rapport and was the fact i say "true" often as others have told me.

I never really thought about it for awhile...and some night about 2 weeks ago i was asked whilst in a big "deep" discussion among a few of my friends, "why do you always say true?" And i thought that it was just a word but then i began to realize that i was putting the world in a true or false perspective when it comes to "facts/stories/excuses/apologizes/etc" kind of way if you get me. By saying true i was accepting their "words" into my reality and "feeling" or believing it is indeed truthful. When i'd hear a story/opinion say "cool/right/ok" I was what i think is intuitively(sub-consciensly") thinking that they were full of shit. As i guess i say it often enough around friends, it had spread to friends into their vocabulary. Once you get to know someone so well it's cool how two individuals develop similar physiology/psychology to better understand one another.

Honestly it was just a story i told someone yesterday but idk if it's a good one, too long, not enough spikes(didn't try to) for attraction i'm thinking but maybe comfort? Any opinions?

Thanks!!

Yeah true...
I use true, a fair bit when speaking too, can you explain a little bit more why this would be a DHV? im struggling to see the link.

In a way of putting my interest of psychology into practice, has people close enough to understand high rapport, thinks it's cool that liking a person causes you to share what they share, can contribute to a deeper understanding of things? I'm just trying to pick shit out....that doesn't DHV in the sense of "yeah so after she grabbed my ass she..." kinda thing. Make sense or worthless?

ARGG! I see too many people assuming that EVERY story they tell to people has to DHV and make them out to be a God in one way or another.
NOT true.

This is simply a cool fact that you have picked up on about your life. Tell people it, it's interesting. Don't think about whether it'l make you sound smart/funny/outgoing/whatever. Just tell it.

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The best DHV stories are interesting stories from your own life that paint you in a positive light. we've all got interesting experiences from our lifes that we can share with others.

DON'T make up fake DHV stories, otherwise you'll just move further from being your most authentic self.