Can it be done?

I've had so much fun gmaing beautiful women. But I think I may have found the one I want to stick with, I'm afraid I'll cheat on her and I'm also scared of having to hang up my pimp hat.

Your thoughts.

Sounds like you have an emotional confict.

What do you really feel is going to be more valuble to your long-term happiness?

- Chris

If you found the right one then go for it. It is better and safer this way. Just be sure that she is ready to stop putting out to other guys though. Maybe do a little investigating to test her loyalty to you.

A good test would be to have another PUA you know try to pick her up.

I'm 17 by the way guys so the prospects of this relationship ending in a "happily married" scenario is low.

I've figured out my plan; I'm going to sarge her and other girls, only once I'm sure that she's the perfect fit, then I'll start cutting other girls out of the picture and putting in more committment.

I've recently been doing some thinking about this very topic. I guess that the answer lies in your own moral and ethical standards. IMHO, if you are in a long term, monogamous relationship, you can go out and flirt, open sets, and basically have fun. The catch is that you need to have a good head, on your shoulders, to be able to "draw the line" before things go too far.

I also believe that the term "cheating" is one that needs to be defined in each persons' own relationship. What one couple define cheating as, may be completely different than another couple. My suggestion is to NOT approach your girlfriend and off-the-cuff say "Hey, so I was wondering. What do you consider cheating?" Bad, bad, bad.

It is perfectly healthy for any human to have the need to feel attractive to the opposite sex. At first, you may be 100% content with your new partner and do not desire the attention of other members of the opposite sex, but as time goes on, you are, most likely, going to feel compelled to illicit IOIs from others. You may then feel guilty about it. Why is that so? I believe that this is the case because it is incongruent, if you've always done the "I only have eyes for you" routine every day of your life, then one day you decide to game another chick, it's going to be uncomfortable.

DAMNIT, I lost my train of thought, I hope I got my point across, if not, ask.

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Out of question, what's the longest you guys have been with a girl?

5 days. =P

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7.5 years

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At 17, you shouldn't be thinking about marriage, and you shouldn't even be thinking about relationships. In my opinion you should just be meeting, dating and shagging as many girls as possible so you can get a really good skillset, and sample all the different types of girls out there so you can see which type you eventually might want to settle down with.

Sure. game them, but don't escalate the sexual part.

Could the mods delete this thread, I figured it was 1-itis, and I'd rather not be reminded of it.