So Here's the situation:

I've met this girl through my brothers ex. She added me on facebook several days later. We talked on there for a bit, and then it moved to msn. Turns out she's had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. Total AFC. I've been doing what I can, since I am pretty much only limited to msn conversations. I have managed to speak with her on the phone a few times, but nothing long and serious. I know there is something. She tells me she enjoys talking to me, so I decided what the hell, and I told her we can't talk anymore. She called my brothers ex, and literally cried to her about it. So, there's got to be something there. BTW, i added her back a few days later, and we are still talking to this day. My brothers ex tells me she talks about me all the time. So basically this is what I'm doing, is there anything else I should do? I want to take things to the next level, but first.. get rid of that boyfriend.

Thanks guys,
Gee

Heres a start--meet her in person and act as if she had not boyfriend...who cares if she does or not? Proceed as normal--banter, kino escalate, build rapport and comfort, and attempt a number close.

What makes you think there is something there though? Do you actually flirt? Are you sure she doesn't just consider you a friend?

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Dude, I'm having the exactly problem with a HB8.... I think I've already crossed the LJBF zone...

The important thing I guess is show that you have interest on her. Try to go out with her, and stuff like that.

We do flirt, and I think it's been too short of a time span for her to consider me as a friend.

Plus, how can I make plans to go out with her, when she's got a boyfriend? I've thought to arrange something to my brothers ex, and "run" into her sometime.

You can arrange something with her as a non threat thing.

Like study togheter, or ask for some help with something at your house... You gotta make a whole story about something you know she'll be able to help ya. Like, let's pretend she likes basketball. Invite her to watch an NBA game, or something in a time you know she won't have her boyfriend close... Girls don't deny to go to a friend's home....

don't let her "boyfriend" got into your mind, with the way things go it would seem like she is getting bored with her boyfriend and looking for someone better

just game her beside the online communication and met her in person

_Saiko

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Who cares if she has a BF or not, she will go with whoever she is more attracted to. It's her choice and she's free to make it, so give her the option by starting something.

Don't bother with weak excuses and trying to "bump into her" or anything like that, just tell her that you guys should do something together and then when you hang out, act as if she doesn't have a BF. Don't make it a date, just hang out and see where things go, just like you would with any other girl you're gaming.

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