ok guys so i got a mini date with her set up at the end so it was sucessful, any suggestions as to what i should have done. Or since whats done is done, what should i do during the date to escalate things?
Thanks guys!!!!!! SORRY FOR THE LENGTH


Me: (6:31:21 PM): hey girl whats shakin
Her: (6:31:41 PM): hey who is this
Me: (6:31:45 PM):
Me: (6:31:51 PM): guess
Her: (6:32:05 PM): DANNY V. however u spell ur last name lol
Me: (6:32:09 PM): damnit...
Me: (6:32:11 PM): cheater
Me: (6:32:12 PM): lol
Her: (6:32:36 PM): nope im just smart
Me: (6:32:45 PM): haha
Me: (6:32:47 PM): really?
Me: (6:32:56 PM): wouldnt have guess
Me: (6:32:58 PM): d
Me: (6:33:49 PM): so how are things?
Her: (6:34:07 PM): haha yea pretty good im just sooo over school i want it to be summer already...what about you
Her: (6:34:09 PM): how was prom???
Me: (6:34:15 PM): amen to that
Me: (6:34:22 PM): prom was insane
Me: (6:34:23 PM):
Me: (6:34:31 PM): hella tight
Me: (6:34:42 PM): lots of good ppl... lots of good food... lots of good music
Her: (6:34:43 PM): reallly??? tell me about it
Me: (6:34:47 PM): hmm
Me: (6:34:49 PM): alright
Her: (6:34:52 PM): i bet u danced in teh middle lol
Me: (6:34:58 PM): ah you know me dontcha
Me: (6:34:59 PM): lol
Me: (6:35:09 PM): hell yeah its my senior prom
Her: (6:35:18 PM): funnn
Me: (6:35:20 PM): so we ate...
Her: (6:35:25 PM): did u hook up with ur date
Me: (6:35:34 PM): mmm...
Me: (6:35:40 PM): is this a trick question?
Her: (6:35:44 PM): nope
Me: (6:36:01 PM): i hold women to a high standard
Her: (6:36:21 PM): lol what is that supposed to mean
Me: (6:36:28 PM): well u said u were smart
Me: (6:36:33 PM): do what you do
Me: (6:36:34 PM): =)
Her: (6:36:42 PM): yes???
Me: (6:36:46 PM): maybe...
Her: (6:36:56 PM): haha o gosh fine dont tell me
Me: (6:37:00 PM): hahaha
Me: (6:37:10 PM): i love how frusterated ur getting
Me: (6:37:13 PM): its cute
Me: (6:37:15 PM):

Her: (6:37:26 PM): haha im assuming you did
Her: (6:37:30 PM): since you wont flat out tell me
Me: (6:37:47 PM): ^^
Me: (6:37:54 PM): nah
Me: (6:38:12 PM): the girl i was with was cute
Me: (6:38:15 PM): but not really my style
Me: (6:38:23 PM): hence the "open relationship"
Me: (6:38:23 PM): lol
Her: (6:38:32 PM): ooo gotchya
Her: (6:38:38 PM): well whats ur type
Me: (6:38:45 PM): mmm
Me: (6:38:56 PM): hard to say
Me: (6:39:01 PM): you just kinda know when you see her...
Her: (6:39:12 PM): thats how i feel about it too
Me: (6:39:13 PM): shes gotta be a good dance tho
Me: (6:39:20 PM): *dancer
Me: (6:39:51 PM): i dunno its hard
Me: (6:39:55 PM): physically its ez
Me: (6:39:59 PM): emotionally...
Me: (6:40:04 PM): much more difficult
Me: (6:40:29 PM): but generally someone who has plans for the future and has good values
Her: (6:40:41 PM): so true. like they can be cute and everything but personality really makes a person
Me: (6:40:46 PM): aye
Me: (6:40:50 PM): cute doesnt hurt tho
Me: (6:40:51 PM): =)
Her: (6:41:08 PM): haha o for sure i mean for actually liking someone it cant jsu tbe about looks
Me: (6:41:28 PM): yup
Me: (6:41:45 PM): hence why LS girls = no no
Her: (6:41:51 PM): haha really?
Her: (6:41:52 PM): why
Me: (6:41:56 PM): haha
Me: (6:42:03 PM): the way they act
Me: (6:42:15 PM): lots are into pot and shit
Me: (6:42:25 PM): and act too easy if you know what i mean
Her: (6:42:54 PM): oo haha gotchya
Me: (6:43:18 PM): half the fun is gettin the girl
Me: (6:43:23 PM): a good challenge
Me: (6:43:51 PM): ne ways enough bout girls...
Me: (6:43:56 PM): u hear about them everyday lol
Her: (6:44:02 PM): hahahaha true
Me: (6:44:07 PM): how was ur last performance?
Her: (6:44:43 PM): it was ok i think my best night was friday
Her: (6:44:49 PM): why didnt u say hi to meee
Me: (6:44:55 PM): i was there sat
Me: (6:45:01 PM): i had to entertain my guest
Me: (6:45:02 PM):
Me: (6:45:13 PM): didnt really see ne 1
Me: (6:45:37 PM): well i did...
Me: (6:45:42 PM): but they had the fam around em and stuff
Me: (6:45:53 PM): and family is first... always
Her: (6:46:07 PM): aww thats cute u were on a date
Me: (6:46:13 PM): date?
Me: (6:46:14 PM): haha
Me: (6:46:19 PM): no
Her: (6:46:27 PM): well u said u had to entertain someone so i assumed u were on a date lol
Me: (6:46:28 PM): just with my friend
Me: (6:46:39 PM): you jump to conclusions quickly i notice
Me: (6:46:53 PM): its ok i do too
Me: (6:46:55 PM):

Her: (6:47:04 PM): haha u made it seem like it
Me: (6:47:10 PM): nah
Me: (6:47:16 PM): i got lots of friends
Me: (6:47:22 PM): but even so
Me: (6:47:35 PM): if im with someone i like to give them 100% of my attention
Her: (6:48:17 PM): awww thats cute
Her: (6:48:22 PM): u seem like a nice guy
Me: (6:48:39 PM): im not a nice guy
Me: (6:48:47 PM): im an AWSOME GUY
Me: (6:48:50 PM):
Me: (6:49:44 PM): so i heard that a few of the girls had showed some emotion on sunday
Her: (6:49:55 PM): dont get cocky now
Her: (6:49:56 PM): jkjk
Me: (6:50:01 PM): lawl
Me: (6:50:18 PM): did you?
Her: (6:50:25 PM): did i what
Me: (6:50:34 PM): show any emotion on sunday?
Her: (6:50:42 PM): on stage
Me: (6:50:47 PM): i mean after
Me: (6:50:54 PM): like did it affect you
Her: (6:50:58 PM): what?
Me: (6:51:02 PM): hit you that it was ur Last performance?
Her: (6:52:54 PM): ooo kind of ive done it since freshmen year but it didnt hit me as much as it hit other people
Her: (6:53:02 PM): have u decided where you want to go to college yet?
Me: (6:53:03 PM): dont lie
Me: (6:53:29 PM): and yes i finally decided on a college
Her: (6:53:31 PM): haha i dotn lie
Her: (6:53:37 PM): whats it going to be
Me: (6:54:16 PM): Los Angles school of gynecology
Her: (6:54:57 PM): congratsssss
Her: (6:55:02 PM): thats exciting
Me: (6:55:07 PM): i know isnt it?
Me: (6:55:16 PM): vERy exciting
Me: (6:56:29 PM): so are you familiar with the school?
Her: (6:56:49 PM): nope
Me: (6:56:51 PM): k
Me: (6:57:14 PM): go ask your principal tom.
Me: (6:57:15 PM): k?
Me: (6:58:46 PM): so where did you decide on going?
Me: (6:58:53 PM): has LMU responded yet?
Her: (7:00:15 PM): no i got waitlisted because they didnt get my transcripts
Her: (7:00:27 PM): no im deposting in sdsu and hopeudlly ill get into lmu
Me: (7:00:36 PM): oh i c
Me: (7:00:40 PM): sdsu is nice too tho
Her: (7:00:56 PM): i yea i know ill make the best out of any sitaution but i just think im better suited at lmu
Me: (7:01:02 PM): you wanna stay near home though right?
Her: (7:01:11 PM): yupp but not live at home
Her: (7:01:13 PM): you?
Me: (7:01:20 PM): yeah i figured you for the type
Me: (7:01:43 PM): same with me
Her: (7:02:00 PM): haha how did u know
Me: (7:02:31 PM): just things i have picked up in the way you say things
Her: (7:02:54 PM): what else have u picked up
Me: (7:03:35 PM): i notice everything
Me: (7:03:43 PM): but im not quick to make assumtions about people
Her: (7:04:02 PM): thats good...anything else u picked up about me that i should know
Her: (7:04:03 PM): im curious
Me: (7:04:25 PM): well i knew ud ask me what i meant
Me: (7:04:28 PM): cuse i know ur curious
Her: (7:04:37 PM): is it bad
Her: (7:04:39 PM): be honest
Her: (7:04:51 PM): i wont get offended like the splitend comment
Me: (7:04:55 PM): lol
Me: (7:04:59 PM): you hold grudges dont you
Me: (7:05:01 PM):

Her: (7:05:27 PM): haha nopee u can even ask ali im wayyy too nice that it screws me over sometimes
Me: (7:05:50 PM): mmhmm i know all about that
Me: (7:06:13 PM): ur lookin at the master of that
Me: (7:06:18 PM): <-------------------
Her: (7:06:30 PM): i guess we have a lot in common lol
Me: (7:06:35 PM): a few things
Me: (7:07:18 PM): so lets say you get into lmu...
Me: (7:07:27 PM): or rather when you get into lmu
Me: (7:07:38 PM): what are u planning on majoring in?
Her: (7:08:45 PM): law
Her: (7:08:59 PM): but im still somewhat considering pharmacy but mostly law
Me: (7:09:06 PM): no way really?
Her: (7:09:13 PM): yupp
Her: (7:09:14 PM): why
Me: (7:09:18 PM): im considering nutrition and criminology
Me: (7:09:20 PM):
Her: (7:09:58 PM): really?
Her: (7:10:01 PM): thats interesting
Me: (7:10:10 PM): haha
Me: (7:10:15 PM): u have no idea what that means do you?
Her: (7:10:44 PM): haha yes....nutrtion adn criminology
Her: (7:10:50 PM): is it under one major or two separate ones
Me: (7:10:57 PM):
Me: (7:11:02 PM): two separate
Me: (7:11:35 PM): so studying law
Me: (7:11:48 PM): ur not gonna become a lawyer right?
Her: (7:13:02 PM): haha are u kidding
Her: (7:13:09 PM): i wanna be a criminal attorney
Her: (7:13:30 PM): i was thinking about family law like with divroce and everything but a lot of people tell me not to go into that
Me: (7:13:37 PM): thats depressing
Me: (7:13:57 PM): but then again
Me: (7:13:58 PM): thats on you
Her: (7:14:02 PM): im rreally considering pharmacy though because my dads a pharmacist and loves it
Me: (7:14:07 PM): oh yeah?
Her: (7:14:10 PM): yup
Me: (7:14:12 PM): nice nice
Me: (7:14:16 PM): oh hey check this out
Her: (7:14:16 PM): why is it depressing
Me: (7:14:20 PM): i got a pharmacy joke
Me: (7:14:22 PM): wanna hear it?
Her: (7:14:29 PM): sure
Me: (7:14:30 PM): k
Me: (7:15:04 PM): so its prom night and this guy goes into a pharmacy...
Me: (7:15:25 PM): he knows hes probably gonna hook up with this girl that hes taking right?
Me: (7:15:50 PM): so he approaches the pharmicist and asks the guys opinion on condoms and stuff
Me: (7:15:54 PM): u following?
Her: (7:16:11 PM): yup
Me: (7:16:13 PM): k
Me: (7:16:21 PM): so the pharmicist is hella nice
Me: (7:16:32 PM): gives him really good advice
Me: (7:16:38 PM): how to please girls etc...
Me: (7:17:01 PM): the guy is hella happy and goes home that night to pick up his date
Her: (7:17:24 PM): kk
Me: (7:17:29 PM): he sits down for a bite to eat at her house with her and her parents
Me: (7:17:37 PM): orderves
Me: (7:17:42 PM): and starts praying
Me: (7:17:55 PM): after 10 minutes the guys head is still bowed
Me: (7:18:05 PM): and the girl says to him...
Me: (7:18:11 PM): I had no idea you were so religious..
Me: (7:18:23 PM): and he responds.... i had no idea your father was a pharmacist
Me: (7:18:27 PM):
Her: (7:19:08 PM): hahaha
Her: (7:19:11 PM): thats pretty funny
Her: (7:19:18 PM): thats kinda awkward too
Me: (7:19:26 PM): yeah
Me: (7:19:33 PM): just imagine being in that situation
Her: (7:19:43 PM): seriouslyy
Me: (7:19:46 PM): haha
Me: (7:19:51 PM): i dunno
Me: (7:20:03 PM): just somethin random i thought of when u said ur dad was a pharmicist
Her: (7:20:27 PM): id tell my dad that joke but it might be kind of weird coming from me
Me: (7:20:42 PM): would you tell ur dad what ur planning to do in college?
Me: (7:20:49 PM): on ur *free time*
Her: (7:21:16 PM): do you mean like sex drink and stuff like that
Me: (7:21:52 PM): i meant study hard and make lasting friendships
Me: (7:21:58 PM): but if you wanna get dirty like that
Me: (7:22:00 PM): i guess its ok too
Her: (7:22:04 PM): haha shut up
Me: (7:22:10 PM): ^^
Her: (7:22:28 PM): your the only person i know who does ^^
Me: (7:22:36 PM): ^^
Me: (7:23:13 PM): well hey i need to go practice
Me: (7:23:20 PM): get rdy for this saturday
Her: (7:23:30 PM): kk ill talk to you later
Me: (7:23:33 PM): but its been great chattin witcha
Her: (7:23:37 PM): you too
Me: (7:23:43 PM): oh hey
Me: (7:23:46 PM): one more thing
Me: (7:23:51 PM): do you like icecream?
Her: (7:23:59 PM): yesssss i love it
Me: (7:24:05 PM): on a scale of 1-10
Her: (7:24:18 PM): m probably 7 or 8 depending on my mood
Her: (7:24:20 PM): why
Me: (7:24:23 PM): good
Me: (7:24:37 PM): cuse tom. is 31 flavor's 31 cent ice cream day
Her: (7:24:49 PM): hahaha thanks for that
Me: (7:24:50 PM): and ima go hit that shit up
Me: (7:25:10 PM): so if you wanna come on down
Me: (7:25:14 PM): it would be nice to see ya
Her: (7:25:19 PM): yea for sure
Me: (7:25:24 PM): ite cool
Me: (7:25:30 PM): you live in... glendale?
Her: (7:25:34 PM): yea
Me: (7:25:35 PM): k
Me: (7:25:37 PM): hmmm
Me: (7:25:41 PM): are there any out there?
Her: (7:25:47 PM): hah yes
Me: (7:25:50 PM): k
Me: (7:25:59 PM): ima be out there tom ne way
Me: (7:26:11 PM): cuse i need to check in with the dmv there
Her: (7:26:15 PM): kk for sure now go to practice lol
Me: (7:26:21 PM): haha alright alright
Me: (7:26:29 PM): my bud is commin in like 4
Me: (7:26:30 PM): mins
Me: (7:26:54 PM): so yeah txt me
Me: (7:26:56 PM): or something
Her: (7:27:02 PM): kk sounds good
Me: (7:27:09 PM): sec
Me: (7:27:23 PM): did i give you my digits?
Her: (7:27:48 PM): yea heres mine in case u dont have it *numba
Me: (7:28:13 PM): k cool
Me: (7:28:24 PM): *number
Me: (7:28:39 PM): either txt me when ya get out
Me: (7:28:42 PM): or call me
Me: (7:28:53 PM): my bud is here so i gotta run
Her: (7:29:20 PM): kk bye
Me: (7:29:34 PM): kk peace
Her: went idle at 7:39:21 PM.
Her: returned at 7:41:31 PM.
Her: signed off at 7:41:44 PM.
Her: is offline and will receive your IMs when signing back in.

Taking out the numbers or changing them slightly would be a good idea.

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nah man you did good..negged her in a couple of bits, kept C&F...its fine.

you did good

good lick with the ice cream

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haha cool thanks guys... gonna see how tonight goes down, unfortunatley its not hot... kinda cold and gloomy in LA right now so not exactly suitable for icecream. Bleh who cares...always an option to "get warm"

oh yes im writing those numbers down!

haha jk you did good tho, you acted a little 2 nice even for aim tho imo

damnit dude dint see that shit... hope no 1 fucked this shit up cuse shes ignoring me for some reason.... wow i dont think anyone on this forum would do that but still. Just realizing how big of an error that was...

*EDIT POST:

Just spoke with her again on AIM and here's how it went down yo.

Me: (9:32:49 PM): yo what happend tonight?
Her: went idle at 9:38:06 PM.
Her: returned at 9:39:08 PM.
Her: (9:39:23 PM): i cnat find my phoneeee
Me: (9:40:11 PM): mmhmmm
Her: (9:41:01 PM): im seriousss
Her: (9:41:03 PM): sorryyy
Me: (9:41:24 PM): i txted you this after noon
Me: (9:41:33 PM): then i called ya but ya didnt pick up so i left a message
Me: (9:42:05 PM): i gave up at 7 and just went with my friend
Her: (9:42:12 PM): aww im so sorry
Me: (9:42:36 PM): so you lost ur phone?
Her: (9:43:11 PM): i think its in my cousins car
Me: (9:44:01 PM): i c
Me: (9:44:23 PM): at first i was a lil pissed
Me: (9:44:33 PM): cuse i like havin my time wasted
Her: (9:44:58 PM): nah i dont blow people off like that
Me: (9:45:08 PM): i didnt figure you for the type
Me: (9:45:37 PM): yeah i was talkin to my friend sarah about it tonight
Me: (9:45:51 PM): she said that would have just been jacked up
Me: (9:45:57 PM): so i gave ya the benefit of the doubt
Her: (9:45:57 PM): sarah who
Me: (9:46:03 PM): wrasman
Her: (9:46:24 PM): well i am sorry but if i could have reached u i would have i dont have alis number memorized so i couldnt ask her
Me: (9:46:45 PM): im sure ill forgive you sometime
Her: (9:47:23 PM): are u serious
Me: (9:47:30 PM): about?
Her: (9:48:09 PM): being mad at me
Me: (9:48:18 PM): a tad
Me: (9:48:23 PM): it wasnt ur fault
Me: (9:48:34 PM): and i still went
Me: (9:48:39 PM): so nah
Me: (9:48:47 PM): jus mad a the sequencing of events
Me: (9:49:14 PM): should i be mad at you?
Her: (9:49:35 PM): i dont think so because i would have reached u but i couldnt
Her: (9:49:42 PM): it jsut seems that ur mad when u were liek ill forgive u soemtime
Me: (9:49:59 PM): i know
Me: (9:50:11 PM): so what should we do to make up for tonight?
Her: (9:50:52 PM): haha idk
Me: (9:51:04 PM): well?
Me: (9:51:11 PM): do ya wanna make it up to me?
Her: (9:51:44 PM): hah sure if ur hurt about it
Me: (9:52:08 PM): nnah
Me: (9:52:13 PM): do YOU want to?
Her: (9:53:29 PM): haha
Her: (9:53:35 PM): yea well get a group and ahng otu soemtime
Her: (9:53:37 PM): prom was fun
Me: (9:53:47 PM): nervous laughter i sense
Her: (9:53:56 PM): haha nooo
Me: (9:54:00 PM): mhmmm
Me: (9:54:53 PM): well my bros are gonna be at the SF prom on sat
Me: (9:54:55 PM): are you goin?
Her: (9:55:28 PM): yup
Me: (9:55:45 PM): k then...
Me: (9:55:49 PM): you busy friday
Her: (9:56:14 PM): fridays a mother daughter thing with my mom for school and then i might have to abbysit but if anything changes ill text u
Me: (9:56:28 PM): ive heard that before
Her: (9:58:01 PM): o gosh
Me: (10:07:34 PM): well...i give everyone second chances and im not one to hold a grudge. I'll be waiting for your text tommorrow
Me: (10:07:50 PM): good night.

I would hope no one would do that on this forum, but there are stupid people in this world. Better to be safe then sorry.

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Sounds like you did a lot of things rite... seems like she genuinely lost her phone (or left somewhere) so I don't think I would worry too much, unless she's a really good liar.. haha, as a lot of girls are! But you did well, I just hope you didn't come off too needy on the last convo, etc. because it could possibly have been perceived that way by her, though not sure how well you know this girl.

If she doesn't call/txt tomorrow, I would wait for her to contact you again, whether it be on phone/txt or even AIM.. you've left a good impression on her from the first convo, but I think if you try contacting her again moving forward it will show too much interest on your part.

P.S. Nice pharmacist joke... very funny! haha

Great 1st convo! I thought the 2nd was ok. It was good in that you told her to make it up to you. In my opinion, at the end when you told her you'd be waiting for her text that MAY have come off as somewhat needy. I personally wouldn't have said that, but hopefully things will go well! Let us know!

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Good work man... in the second post tho it seems like you were showing you were upset and disappointed... stay away from this sort of thing cause it shows her she has some power over you... But you recovered well by saying you just went with someone else... this shows you have options and shes not the only person in your life.

Keep it up!

Scott.

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yeah ima see how it goes... she didnt contact me today, but she has my number so maybe she will call sometime. You guys think that if i see her on AIM that i should just ignore her or say in a few days something to the affect of " I just wanted you to know im not mad at you, in case you were wondering". Cuse i really dont know her that well yet, and im not sure her level of confidence so i dont really wanna neg her and come off as a jerk. She might think that I'm mad at her and that if ima blow my top over something that small its not worth it... dunno ima give it a few days, what you guys think?

ps: just wanna comment to everyone, thank you for all the support and comments. Really learning at an accelerated pace thanks to you guys tellin me what i did well and not so well. Been doin pua style for about 2 years, but never really put it into practice and experimented with it. Thanks for giving me that opportunity guys

Hm... I personally would not do the I'm not mad at you thing. I think you should give her a bit to contact you and if she doesn't do it, I would either let her go or contact her for a reason (such as to tell an amazing story that happened to you that she would appreciate or to tell her u and ur buddies are going somewhere she should tag along.) If after that nothing comes of it, I say let it go.

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hmmm i really like the idea of tellin her a fun story... maybe a take off of something i used in the first convo... or i could pull the nick name trick. "hey i thought of the cutest nickname for ya yesterday..." they will do anything to find out lol! Dunno but it was since wed... its now sunday and no word.... is it ok to say someting like... oh by the way im not mad at you in case you were wondering as an opener? or nah?