Sad as it is. I'm 16, and never had a kiss before, not one I care for.


See about a year ago when I was going for my first kiss, i fucked it up...Lets just say, teeth...lips, and tounge are involved.

My second kiss, she was on my lap and i fucked that one up too.

These are all months apart and different girls, they have tuarmsized me alot.


Basically, with this current girl im with, I need to kiss her, I need to do it, and its scary. I'll admit it, Im nervous and scared.

So im hoping one of you Good PUA can enlighten me. Anyway possible.

Please do.

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Just read some online articles about it. There's a lot of non-pua advice on the web about this.

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kis ... ssionately

This one for example

How can it be scary? I mean, how can you fuck up?

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Letting go of that need -> Scariness goes away

Thanks guys =D

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Just do it and don't think about it. Even if you get rejected, move in anyway! Just get it over with and you will realize it's not that bad. Like anything else, it becomes easier over time.

you're making it too big of a deal in your head. its not too complicated..just lean in, separate your lips abit and it will just happen..kinda do the 90/10 thing from hitch and you'll be fine..

i dont think you need to read about it or anything, its just about how big of a deal you make it in your head..or how big a deal your friends make it and then you get nervous..

heck i had my first proper kiss when i was 17..and my first lay when i ws 18..i wasnt bothered about rushing it..(although it wouldve been nicer if i had experienced it earlier ) but the point is, ITS NOT BIG A DEAL

hope that helps abit

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I didnt have my first kiss till i was 16. i didnt care. sure my friends made fun of me... but who really gives a fuck? its not the most important thing in the world. you just think its a big deal so your overthinking it. just chill and let it happen.

when your with a girl just go in for it. if you get rejected... so what? you were rejected, its not like your going to die. then youll hang out with another girl or you can continue to game the one girl that rejected you.

i would hangout and k-close another girl infront of the girl that rejected you. it would make her jealous and you more desireable.

or a manwhore. just kidding

but yeh, dont be affraid, just dont be too aggressive once the kiss has been initiated,

after your already kissing, judge how much she wants it, then u can go in more aggressively..

I'm 22 and never kissed a girl so, Gay, cheer the fuck up. I did try and k-close a girl. She said "I need a hug" so I did and then I said "Anything else?" She was like "Slyyy, no silly man" or some such thing, anyway, I acted totally cool afterwards and right before I left, I told her that it did not matter that she did not kiss me. That actually made her sort of uncomfortable because she was like "What do you mean?" which I basically dismissed. I got to admit, it felt really good to just go for it and push the frame. I mean, this girl has been giving me IOIs all semester and I have been gaming her for the same amount of time but by pushing the frame I am letting her know that I am in to something a little more than platonic. I don't care. This wednesday when finals are done I am going to try and k-close again and attempt a f-close. Even though my time in South Carolina has been less than what I hoped for, I will definitely be going back to Montana having learned a lot of stuff and gained more confidence; and, I know a guy (let's call him Daddy) who wants to learn the game. Gay, just go for it man, it will feel kind of weird whether it happens or not. But either way, you will definitely learn from it.

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And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

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