Im always trying to improve my life...PU has help me improve one aspect of it: Women.

But, all my adult life, I've been wanting, besides women; a better lifestyle...

In my early teens I felt left out of the party, like everyone was having fun except for me. Now...when Im not doing something socially cool I feel left out of the party.

My lifestyle is crap now. I go out in any social event or gathering...maybe once a month. My lifestyle is "nada" compared with some of my friends lifestyles.

A saturday studying kills me. Is not like I dont like to study (Im such a geek!!) but Its not cool to study when everybody is doing something cool. Maybe you are wondering "Does'nt RedMole gets invited to parties or such things"...the answer; "Yes, I do". But I dont want just to go partying, I want to go check out new restaurants with my buddies and stuff like that. I do those things...I just want to do them more often....at least twice as much.

I've decided that the main concerns are:

1) Party like a rockstar:

For at least a shor period just party my ass off. I've never been the "parties-guy", and never been to a lot of parties. I want to know how it feels.

2) Have good, long-term friends.

Is not like "I have no friends". But The friends I have are...in my opinion, just are just aquitances. I moved a lot while growing up..so I lose contact with my childhood friends, then my junior high friends, and finally my highschool ones. The continous process of making new friends, didnt make me more sociable. Ok, I'm exaggerating a bit, I keep a few ones....but they are not as close as I would want to. So currently, my only friends are the college ones. I wanna make some quality friends.

3) Always having something to do on the weekends, or at least having the possibility of doing something.

There are some weekends when...I have nothing to do. Ok, maybe a couple papers about the economics of Africa, but not a cool "night out with the gang" or something like that.

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Remember....going to a social gathering once a month...thats not much of a lifestyle.

I think taht improving these things, will improve my PU as well, because that lifestyle would attract girls.

Anyone knows how to build a cool lifestyle?

Strengthen the connections with the friends you already have. Go out with them more, meet their friends and be more social. If there is a party dont try and avoid it, maybe initiate a social gathering once in a while. The pick up arts will help you loads with this kind of stuff. So for now id say the best thing is to go out more with the friends you have, i know its hard sometimes but tell yourself that once you leave the house you will actually feel good about doing it! Get over that barrier, i had the same problem and everytime i actually DO go out i feel like such an idiot for missing out all those other times that i didnt. Spend more time with other people and you will feel more comfortable with everyone.

dude, just keep in mind, grades are more important than anything if you want to have a well paying job.

just try to balance it between the two activities.

I got good grades...I have that aspect of my life coverded. The way to get balance is to improve my social life. Probably I will have a good job, but thats a third of the whole pie. I need good health and a good social life in order to have balance.

I wont forget about my grades, dont worry about it.

this is an interesting topic, im and architecture student and just for those of you that dont know, architecture is arguably one of the most time demanding proffesions out there. most of my friends spend countless days without sleep or seeing the light of day. over the last few years ive realized that those who spend most of their time cooped up in their studio working, their projects seem to lack several key elements that would make their architecture great. to answer your question.... my experienced has thought me that architecture is a socio-cultural experience. I never had the problem of not having anything to do on weekends but when i would go out it would only be for the purpose of geting out, de-stressing and having fun, which really did nothing to improove my educational and career goals, it would also do nothing to my improve my social awareness. I've currently left the firm i was working at to start my own, now i go out alot less but feel alot more satisfied when i do because each time i go its not just for the sole purpose of geting out. Everytime go out im expanding my social network and interacting with people with a purpose to raise awareness about what i do and to expand my bussiness. It is also an educational experience because im observing human tendencies, or the way people respond to the different social, economical, and culturally diverse spaces that i visit. Anyways, dont go out just to pick up women or just to get out, go out with a purpose and apply what u learn to the areas of you life that are most important in your personal development. When you start doing this you will realize that you dont need to go out as much to feel good about yourself