I got this girl in my class who makes slutty comments when she talks to me in school, like lets go the bathroom and i will get it out of you, etc.

she flirts with people but maybe not to that extreme so question is, is she shit testing me? and if so how do i play along with it and maybe get her to actually do something

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

If a girl makes a sexual comment, "Let's go to the bathrrom and I will get it out of you." simply say "Respect." That one word can make a woman rediculously attracted to a man. It is the best response you can use in response to a woman's sexual comments.

Women like to make extremely sexual comments as shit tests. If the guy becomes uncomfortable, he fails; if he gets too excited or says something sexual in response, he also fails. The great thing about this response is that it is neutral, alpha and shows that you are putting her in her place.

- Chris

2 steps forward, 1 step back.

She wants the cock

but then what do i say, cant just say "respect" I think. I need more stuff to keep it the convo going and display that im alpha and not desperate for her or uncomfortable and maybe get somehting going?!

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

I'm an AFC, but let how's this for a response: Jokingly pretend to have no idea what she's talking about like-
"Let's go to the bathrrom and I will get it out of you."
"Get what out of me?" with a fake puzzled expression

Saying "respect" is of the most powerful things you can do. It's a very alpha way of telling a woman to behave nicely and mind her manners and thoroughly conveys that you are alpha and you understand the games she plays on a level most guys can't. You will not look desperate because most guys will either become unconfortable or mistake her shit test for a sexual suggestion. After you say "respect" you can then bring the conversation to whatever you were talking about before as if it never happened. Many people including myself has used this tactic very successfully.

theklause also had an excellent idea for a reframe where you suggest that you didn't understand her meaning or you can also pretend to misinterpret it which is very powerful because you are taking control of the overall meaning, direction and frame of the conversation which is one of the most prominent alpha displays one can make.

- Chris

All depends on your personality. Some people get amazing results with "respect", some get great results with "later", some would say "I don't have to go right now, but I'll let you know when I do ", others would use "I'm not that kind of guy sweetheart, don't treat me like a piece of meat". The point is to say something congruent with your personality, while still conveying sexuality.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Very true, the first and most important rule is to be yourself and be as natural as possible; respect works well for most people but there are numerous other powerful alpha statements as well. You should NEVER convey anything that gives away your desire - always keep her on her toes, wondering and coming back for more.

- Chris

how about:

I don't think you can handle this girl.

What is it you hungry for something hard?

What, you getting wet thinking about it?

This is the pull then you can push if you want to turn her down begging for more.

Add a smile and make gestures with your index finger? Only if you think she is for real in the moment, if not just go with "respect". But this has worked for me before for f-close.

I don't know just my 2 cents I am new at this but has happend before.

Doesn't sound like he's in a position to be using things that overt yet. Those are things you say when you've already been making out and getting close to f-closing, if not already having f-closed her before.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

I dunno "respect" does feel like it would work for me, but I really like the idea of sorta of denying her or turning her down. or even using mystery's routine of "hey hey hands off the merchandise, this shit aint for free...." but i gotta get her to touch me tho.

any other advice especially specific lines would be great

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

I see your point. He is gonna have to calibrate that. But by the sound of it, the times Ive been in a similar spot I have gotten away with smoothly.
Fist of all you need to calibrate your situation to see witch way to go in order to come up with a line. Also decide weather you wanna go in for the speed seduction or if you want some teasing and build sexual tension before hand.

You gotta calibrate to see with strategy works best with this girl. What you want out of her?

Hope that helps...

~Smoosh

I want to tease her and then lead to her wanting me and getting together

problem is I just cant come up with my own lines of what to say in this situation or any other, not sure how to go about fixing that

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"Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"

So then you don't say "no", but you don't want to say "yes" either. You say playfully vague things, like, "I don't have to go right now, but maybe on the way to next class sweetheart "

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye