I am sms3eb. I am from Illinois. I have had a vision where I become a great leader, a great writer, a great speaker, and most importantly a great pick up artist. Fame and money. Sex and Rock and Roll. These are all in great abundance in my not too distant future.

There is only one problem. I only see myself as a good writer at best and a less than average guitar player. Everything else: leadership, oratory skills, fame, money, and sex are all at an extremely low minimum. I guess what I am trying to say is I NEED HELP! And it takes a lot for me to admit that. If anyone would like to take me under there wing and convert me into the greatest pick up artist ever I would greatly appreciate it.

God i finally met u : )

p.s my 30th post oh yea i can post field reports.

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" You see her , you want her , GET HER "

ego ego ego ego ego

pshhhh

Ego? I don't know what you're talking about

welcome your in a good start. Remember to be yourself over the time of your pua course. Artist

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Hey bro, just wanted to wish you the best of luck. Everyone has a dream and you seem to know what your dream is pretty well. I think that the more you know about what you want, the better chance you have of achieving it. One thing that I've picked up on recently is, that success stems from belief. So believe you can and try just "being".

I work with kids all day. And there is this one (hate to say it) white kid. If you ask him, he'll tell without any hesitation, that is a rapper. This kid is in the 9th grade and does not have a record deal lol. But he just is! And no one can tell him different. While, at first, I thought this kid was funny and just being another young kid in a hip-hop world. Now, his belief in himself has caused me and anyone else who interacts with him to see him in a different light. And its all because he knows who he is. His frame is that strong. And if your frame doesn't match up to his frame then it is instantly rejected, without any thought or hesitation. I think that is the mindset that we all need to come from bro.

Good luck, you're not the only one on this path

omg 3 same posts.

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There's so much to learn. I keep getting distracted by more and more stuff. Right now I'm trying to learn the October Man. I'm also reading The Game (Neil Strauss), The Art of Sedution and 48 Laws of Power (Robert Greene), Introducing NLP (Seymour and O'connor), I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell (Tucker Max) as well as some stuff on Speed Seduction (Ross Jeffries). On top of all that I'm listening to a lot of David DeAngelo interviews (especially Steve P.)

Does anyone else have any other suggestions to help me reach my goals?

My only advice is practice what you learn, learning the theory is one thing. Going out and trying is another. Also throw on your list The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. But dont overload on info. Take time to do other hobbys or you could bore yourself with this one.

Yeah I definitely need to start practicing this stuff but a lot of it just seems so unbelievable that I'm finding it hard to really start getting into it. And I've been pretty limited with social situations to apply it in. Even though I guess I could start the negging process at work. Just have to get over this initial anxiety. Once I do that I know I will be unstoppable.

As for the hobbies they have always taken priority over learning pick-up. I'm not going to become a pick-up zombie.

I've made up my mind. Tomorrow I am going to spend all day just approaching women so I can finally get over this approach anxiety. It is the only thing holding me back. I know a lot of things I should be doing to get more women in my life and I can even give good advice to others. My problem is I am not practicing what I know.

Also since I've noticed that I am able to give good pick up advice, I am going to write down some of my sticking points and relationship problems and pretend they are someone else's. In this way I hope to give myself some good pick up advice.

My advice for setting goals I can tell you how to set your goals so you can achieve them and tell you about the things that may be stopping you from setting your goals "Procastination". But the best I can give you now for a new pua is really to learn and learn to get rejected (just saying if you havent) and persist on your failures so you can achieve.

Back in the day I would have gotten pissed off at anyone even slightly suggesting that I am a procrastinator. But now I realize that some of my biggest problems in life stem from procrastination. And I need to start doing things I set my mind too. Right away. Time to go neg some victims.

what exactly is the "october man" ???