k heres a problem i guess alot of us face and i've looked around on here and can't find an answer.

its happend a few times now when chatting up a girl particully locally when i'm at a pub in the town i live. i see a set i want to open and i go and talk to them, i'm finding about a bit about them and out of the blue "i've herd your a bit of a slag" i try and play it down but its defo a stumbling block

what do you think lay low in my local area for a bit ?
or can you come back from that ?

thanks
scuba

Well, I try not to sarge where I live. Im fairly well known around my usual AFC hangouts where I go to meet my friends and got a good reputation as a nice guy. If I start sarging there, that will ruin my good rep, thus I do not do it.
When sarging you want to go to a place with lots of people, you can disappear in the mass of people and there are lots of targets.
Thats one of the points with having an avatar. Ezo does some stuff that I would never do!

Ezo

thanks man
good advice

In The Game there was a PUA(I can't remember his exact name right now) that used the Cocky Funny technique and one thing he said was "Women love a reputation, it doesn't matter what it is."

OOOO this is a good one here is the route I tend to go when this happens to me....

PUA: Hey....what's your sign??? (<---- just kidding)

HB: I have heard you are a player/pimp/manwhore/slag/whatever

PUA: Oh yeah? Who'd you hear that from? (<--not entirely needed but helpful if they will tell you who said it)

HB: (names girl)

PUA: Oh yeah she was stalking me for a while I told her I just wanted to be friends so she started telling everybody that I played her....It's kinda sad really I feel sorry for her

(or if you don't ask who said it)

PUA: Oh you heard that did you? Yeah I'll be featured on the cover of TIME magazine next month for the player of the year award....seriously though do I look like a player to you? (put on innocent face)

It's really easy to recover from this sort of thing and in fact you can actually completely change the subject most of the time act almost as if you didn't even hear them and they won't think about it again until LMR so no worries m8

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Exactly. I reputation means you at least know what your doing. There is a reason people keep getting played by a player, even when they know the repuation they have. Girls always think they can change the guys mind.

I dont think the reputation matters. Even by all the PUA teachings, girls are illogical, so just PLOW through it, and don't pay attention to it. Eventually they will be attracted to you (assuming your game is good). I'm sure your LMR will be more intense though.

Be careful if you try to discredit the source of your reputation. If it's a friend of hers and you make them sound like a complete asshole, you'll end up destroying yourself. Because whose she going to choose between (she has to because you just created that rift) her friend or some guy she didn't know an hour ago.

Besides talking down about people not present is a big DLV, IMHO. My rule is that if I wouldn't say it to their face, I'm sure as hell not going to say it to someone else behind their back.

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I in no way consider Tucker Max a pick up artist, but I've read about times he takes that as an IOI.
Sometimes it seems to me as a bitch shield.
Either way C&F would be a good way to get around that.

I used to just smile and say "why yes, yes I am. I see my reputeation proceeds me" in a funny voice, but I'll keep "Oh you heard that did you? Yeah I'll be featured on the cover of TIME magazine next month for the player of the year award....seriously though do I look like a player to you? (put on innocent face)". And if she says "yes you do" just keep it up with "note to self, they're onto you"!

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I would either
A) answer her wth a question
her "i hear you're a bit of a player"
you "aren't we all?"
or
you "is that a statement or a question?"


B) Ignore it...

If a girls as if your a player if you says yes, its like she carnt trust u, but if you say no i think it sounds like your a wuss kinda. So how about saying Yes, only when im single.

what do u recon.

As for if u get a rep, just change hair style or colour and or use middle name for a bit (if u got one) then u havent lied as some people use them all the time.

Some times it not bad to have a rep, you could just say, i carnt help it chick dig me!

see what works best

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Don't take NO for an answer, its just the bitch shield it can be broken!

yeah, i am kinda known as a man whore, it's a reputation you have to live with, but it should not be an issue finding ladies if you got the skill. Lay low, try sarging out of town or something.

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True that, besides being known for having a strong sexual prowess is a good thing to women. Just dont be taking home a bunch of swamp creatures. I mean that doesnt mean ur a player...

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