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PostPosted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:31 am 
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Yeah, lol, I've had chicks I've barely spoken to try to get a drink out of me and it's actually a little insulting because it's as if they think i'm chump right off the bat. Before I would just say "Girl, I don't even know you, why would I do that?" But now i've got a new one to suggest.

HB: Can u buy me a drink?
PUA: Ha, what makes you think I want to talk you for that long? Tell ya what, go grab me a beer and I'll consider it.

If your successful and she asks what kind of beer, just say "Any kind, impress me" and boom, the game is on.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 1:40 am 
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HB: Can u buy me a drink?
PUA: Ha, what makes you think I want to talk you for that long? Tell ya what, go grab me a beer and I'll consider it.

If your successful and she asks what kind of beer, just say "Any kind, impress me" and boom, the game is on.
I like that.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 6:28 pm 
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Got to say looks like there are alot of mixed felings about how to deal with this drink problem here is wat I do it seems a little afc but if you try it out and dont get furthere success I would be really surprised I do it all the time...

HB:Can you get me a drink sure?
PUA: Sure,with a smile (bring the drink) then before she can speak or get her hands on it hold it to her lips waiting for her to take a sip she will comply but just as she gets some in her mouth pull it back and finish it off make sure you can chug the drink down you want to finish it. Carry on wih your convo
HB: complains about not getting her drink (shows any signs like that)
PUA: Did you really think I was gonna let you have the whole thing HAHA I was thirsty thats the only reason I went in the beginning you have to earn it. sometimes when I know she wants it or im feeling lucky I go for a K-close

Feedback is welcome


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 7:21 pm 
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Got to say looks like there are alot of mixed felings about how to deal with this drink problem here is wat I do it seems a little afc but if you try it out and dont get furthere success I would be really surprised I do it all the time...

HB:Can you get me a drink sure?
PUA: Sure,with a smile (bring the drink) then before she can speak or get her hands on it hold it to her lips waiting for her to take a sip she will comply but just as she gets some in her mouth pull it back and finish it off make sure you can chug the drink down you want to finish it. Carry on wih your convo
HB: complains about not getting her drink (shows any signs like that)
PUA: Did you really think I was gonna let you have the whole thing HAHA I was thirsty thats the only reason I went in the beginning you have to earn it. sometimes when I know she wants it or im feeling lucky I go for a K-close

Feedback is welcome
It's not something I would personally use, but I could see how it would work.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 9:08 am 
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when a girl asks you to buy them a drink, consider it a shit-test.

HB: [asks you to buy her a drink]
you: *slight smile or smirk, no teeth; glance away from her for a moment and then look back* tell me, does that usually work on most guys?

if she says
HB: [some form of yes]
you: oh really? (or any question that instills slight doubt) thats interesting/funny. *smile again*
I like this one best.
yeah this one seems good, seems like the best way to handle it and not lose her interest. would have to move quickly onto another question though, where would you take that?


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:26 pm 
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Im new to the whole PUA thing but have been gaming for a while. This seems to work pretty well... but you have to have the right mindset. As with anything you do when it comes to picking up women, if you go into this without confidence or the right attitude.. game over

HB: Can you buy me a drink?

PUA: I have an even better idea, i'll buy a drink I think you like, and you buy me a drink you think id like.

If she has any taste or class what-so-ever, she will buy me a tanqueray and tonic with 2 lime wedges squeezed in

She goes to buy you your drink, and you buy her a shirley temple or an OJ. Give her the drink with the biggest smile on your face and say thank you. They usually bitch and moan for a few, just go cocky funny here... tease her, neg her... but do not insult. Go into routines here, tell stories... whatever you have to do. But you have made it this far... and god dammit you spent $2 on her drink, you owe it to yourself to not fuck up. Pay attention to her body language and mannerisms, use the to guide your stories from here or just talk about anything. The trick is to just keep her interested. When you have nothing left, # close and move onto the next one.


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when a girl asks you to buy them a drink, consider it a shit-test.

HB: [asks you to buy her a drink]
you: *slight smile or smirk, no teeth; glance away from her for a moment and then look back* tell me, does that usually work on most guys?

if she says
HB: [some form of yes]
you: oh really? (or any question that instills slight doubt) thats interesting/funny. *smile again*
This is an excellet response- thanks buddy! :)

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To start.. NEVER say no... makes you sound like a DICK.. Instant DLV guys.

Good response is...

HB: Can you buy me a drink?
PUA: Are you gonna make out with me ??

IF, HB: NO-

PUA: (Nod, agreeingly) That seems fair ! (Turn back, continue talking) She'll get flustered, field tested brilliant !

If she says YES.. BOOM, what you say is !

HB: Yeah maybe !

PUA: Wait, it's not that easy sweetie, are you a good kisser...??
HB: Yeah of course !
PUA: U seem confident on a scale from 1-10 so?
HB: 11
PUA: Jesus, it's simple maths, 1-10? (cocky-funny.. must have a BIG smile)
HB: Ok, 10.

PUA: lets see (move in kiss close)
PUA: Thats OK, not a 10 come on put some passion into it. (move in kiss)
PUA: Thats much better ( Didnt ever get her that drink... But you still can if u think she's worth it)

FIELD TESTED SWEET LADS !

Hansel..
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 20, 2008 6:38 pm 
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Look at her and say this with confidence

HB: Will you by me a drink
PUA: No

Then she will get mad and come right back to you. They always come back especially if you say no in front of allot of women. It makes her look cheap so she has to get your affections to earn back her value again.

This weekend my first set at the bar was a two set with one hb 9 and one hb 8. Anyways later in the convo I found out they came to the bar without any cash PERIOD! They planned on playing as many guys as they could for drinks. I realized it and as soon as they asked for a drink I said no and shut them down. End of convo you can leave!

The girls immediately across from them saw this and asked hey can you take our picture! I responded with sorry I charge people for my pictures. Turned away kept talking to my friend. Then bam those four girls are all over me and my buddy. We went to five bars that night together and had a blast. Later our targets invited me and my friend to their apartment and we both got laid! :lol:
sounds like what my friend does with her gf, lol
"If you love me, you will buy me dinner"
"no"


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 7:20 pm 
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This situation is simple,- HB asks me for a drink I always say- 'I don't buy girls drinks, but you can buy me one if you like.'

If she does that- IOI and that can be rewarded with one for her.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 7:00 pm 
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quick summary of the ones that stood out and a couple i made up, slight variations may be but here it goes in no particular order:

Hb asks for a drink.......

1. Yeah sure il get champagne wait here il be right back..... dont come back! they will come find u again.

2. No.. why carnt you afford a drink they arnt that expensive!

3. 5 question game

4. Yeah do u want ice and lemon with your water. (can add when she gets mad say well you need it your a mess!

5. for ever drink you buy ME il buy two, mines a beer go fetch

6. No...i know what your up to!

7. ok il have a vodka red bull...... what i want you to buy me a drink..why are u still here im waiting for my drink.

8. Thumb war her for it (practice so u win)

9. depends how long do you stick around for each drink i get is it like 5 mins or 10 i carnt remember. Then dont get her one your just busting her balls lol

10. sorry i dont buy drinks for strangers but see that guy over there (point to loser) he is buying every desperate girl a drink, quick i think that blondes just gone.

hopefully some of these should be good i ended up making some up on the spot not bad going. Post any feed back on them.

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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 2:40 pm 
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Ok, I'm new to this, and a self confessed AFC/RAFC at this point in time, but I've read a few posts on this thread and gave it alittle thought, and came up with this to run by you guys:

HB : Will you buy me a drink?
PUA : Hmmm, no, I don't buy girls drinks in bars. I mean I can tell you're a nice girl, but I have a reputation to maintain. Only chumps buy girls drinks in bars, EVERYONE knows that.
HB : Hmmm?
PUA : I mean, you see those guys, buying girls drinks, and the girls just move on to the next guy afterwards. You see it all the time, and those guys look like IDIOTS - and I don't want to look like one of those guys, do I?

Arguably, I think with those lines, that you're demonstrating value, as you're differentiating yourself from the AFCs and pointing out that you're not one of those mugs, while at the same time, you make sure you aren't saying she's "one of those girls" (even though she might well be, of course). I figured it might sound less hostile than just a straight "no," while still seeming reasonably alpha male.

What do you PUAs reckon, any good?


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PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 3:19 pm 
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Im suprised no ones mentioned this, but isnt it better to ask them to buy you a drink before they've had the chance to ask you.
This could look low value unless you did it really cocky funny.

Run a routine and then in the middle stop and say '...so wheres my drink..' and then carry on with the routine.

just an idea.


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when a girl asks you to buy them a drink, consider it a shit-test.

HB: [asks you to buy her a drink]
you: *slight smile or smirk, no teeth; glance away from her for a moment and then look back* tell me, does that usually work on most guys?

if she says
HB: [some form of yes]
you: oh really? (or any question that instills slight doubt) thats interesting/funny. *smile again*
I like this one best.
I used this one at a bar and the girl said i was not a gentlemen. so i played it off by saying " since i dont know you I tell you what, you buy this round and i ll buy the next.


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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 11:26 pm 
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Slight variation...

quote="piker"]when a girl asks you to buy them a drink, consider it a shit-test.

HB: [asks you to buy her a drink]
you: *slight smile or smirk, no teeth; glance away from her for a moment and then look back* tell me, does that usually work on most guys?

if she says
HB: [some form of yes]
you: Well...I hope you have them on fast-dial right now
i love this!!!


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