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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:44 am 
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Sup PUA's!? :D

Went out last saturday and had a great night! One #-close, one girl numberclosed me, one girl kissed closed me (first thing she said to me, or technically her friend was "I wanna makeout with him", even though she had a bf...), and the second girl I didn't kiss close (could see she wanted to but she had a... whats it called in english..? anyways, a bf she lives with), but she did bite my neck before she left :D

but, there was this one girl who even though the friend was into me, she just sat and sulked, tried to get her in conversation, and even put my hands on her shoulders and shook her (lightly) and said "come on girl, your at a party don't look so sad!" "But I'm completely SOBER!!!"

I just left, but really, what could I have done about this? She was in such a bad mood, didn't know how to change it around.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:24 pm 
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Tease her about her lackluster ability to have fun without alcohol. Pull her into a conversation, a dancefloor, outside to talk to her individually. Say "Come with me" and take her by the hand. Ignore her. Put your drink down and say you'll be sober together. Sit down next to her and mock her sulking.

Among dozens of others. Just get original with it, if she's still not biting, oh well.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 2:38 pm 
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Sometimes people are dealing with shit and they're not in the mood to be attracted. You never know what can be going on in some peoples' heads.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 4:23 pm 
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Leave her alone. If she had any kind of personality or anything going for her whatsoever then she wouldn't be standing around sulking like a douche bag just because she isn't wasted.


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 9:23 pm 
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I agree with Durus, by the sounds of things you really didn't need her anyway man. Seems like a cry for attention to me. If your determined to involve her go with I.Smith's advice. Good Luck


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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 11:47 pm 
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I generally laugh at that and ask them whether I look like I'm having fun. They always say yes, cause fuck yeah I'm having fun. Then I say, "Well I haven't had a single drink tonight and never do when I come out!"

Breaks their frame to pieces, then I start doing some silly stuff like high fives and hugs to get them having a bit of fun and once their energy level is up a bit, then you can return to a more normal frame so that you don't come off as a dancing monkey and nothing but entertainment.

I've found that it is very attractive to girls to see someone that can snap their friend out of a shitty mood.

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