So i hit 30 post today! Thank you Thank you... I would like to start off with a question.

So I go to this party. I am having a great time drinking (i got wasted). I am talking to this HB7 she is really cool, I say something about her ankles and she says that she didn't shave from the mid shin and up because she wasn't planning on anything happening... then she says... I'm just kidding.

So, thats one girl that wants me. The next girl shows up like 2 hours later and is bangin hot, and she already told my friend in so many words that she liked me because I am independent and stuff. I do the cube on her and she has a huge ego, and the ladder is as high as her ego resting on the cube. I don't know who to go for... banging hottie, or the cool HB7

So I go for both... and end up with none. How do I know what girl to go for in a situation like that. There where 4 girls at that party that wanted me, but I didn't know how to pick one over the other... I just wanted sex maybe more... I don't even know what I want. I don't want any of them to be in a serious relationship with me, that's for sure.

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This depends on who you are more attracted to and what you're looking for, it's really up to you man. Remeber, your not asking anyone to marry you here, just go with your gut. If your game is good you can use them both in a jealousy plotline etc. A word of advice though, if your in a situation such as this don't drink to heavily, it can hinder your game.

Intuition my brother, intuition.

So, I finally went out to coffee tonight with one of the girls from the party a couple months back. I really liked her when I meet her, but I didn't want her because she was soooo into me. So now, a couple months later at coffee I fucked up like I always do. I say,
“I want to state my intentions”
She was like, “OK”
I say, “Do you consider this a date?”
She is like. “I don’t think about things like that”
I say “Well, do you?”
She is like “I don’t know. Do you??”
Then I say, “Yes”
She laughs a little and says, “Your different than last time when you where drunk.”

I’m like”how?”
Her: “Your more intimidating”
Me: “Oh, OK. Well honestly it is because I have a broken heart.”
Her: “How long has it been since you were with your ex?”
Me:” One and a half years”
Her “Wow you must have been with her for a long time”
Me: “Yes for 4 and a half years”
Her: “oh OK.”
Me: “The harder it is to love someone the more they need it.”
That’s when I started to clam up and stop talking…
So I think she texted her friends to help ease the pain of our date because some dudes show up a little later and joined us. We all smoked hookah. After hookah and bullshitin’ with two of her guy friends I was the shit again. Now she wants me again, but unfortunately one on one I was so uncomfortable. I didn't know what to say, and I was so tired. I think I have a fear of intimacy or something.

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Yeah I know your talking about, running one on one requires a lot of frame control. Best thing you can do is practice, practice, and some more practice.

Bringing up past relationships is a perfect way to bring up DHV stories from the past relationships and sex if you ask me. If you can hold a comfortable conversation with her about sex, her ex's, while qualifying yourself you can pretty much K-close at the end of the date.

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sounds like a little baggage, and coffee i wouldn't see as a date

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lol, role reversal time huh? The girl is easygoing but you give her the "what is this relationship" talk...lol you WERE more intimidating almost like you were giving HER the shit test.

I think the rest of us can learn from this. When women give us this kind of shit, do you think they do it conciously or just out of some unexplainable impulse alike Magnum here did?

Clearly both know what they want from each other but there is this useless awkwardness and friction that they cant get over...

Magnum since your intuition so strongly tells you she wants you, then next time you guys are alone and you feel like she wants you again then go for it and start kissing and touching...these dates are fucking you both up just skip past them to the good part that you both want.