Hey everyone I'm new to the forum and I just had an experience last night that made me want to get some professional advice. So I'm in club last night at a table with four other guys and a girlfriend of ours. Me and the girl start looking at this hotty at the bar peacocking with a flower in her hair, and start laughing about how everyguy is trying to hit on her and she's not having anything to do with it. So flower girl sees me looking at her and gives me a look back. She looked away first and then tried to re-initiate the eye contact in between the guys coming up to her. Finally I gave her a little nod like to come over and she seemed shocked in a "he's calling me over?" kind of way, so a bit offended yet intrigued. Then she yells across the space if you want to talk to me you have to come over here. I decided not to because we were all leaving in a few minutes anyway and I didn't want to run over and be one of all those other guys. So what would you guys have done in my shoes?

Dude, you messed up! You should have gone over and talked to her. I mean you are not one of ''those'' guys because you have something that they don't have, a good Game. They might know some pickup lines or whatever, but she was interested in you and blew all those other guys away. There will be another time though! You only learn from mistakes!

I agree, you actually did everything right. You should just have come up to her and said; me and my friends will be leaving in a few minutes (so she knows you won't hang around all night) but would you like to come/ would you like to meet me some other time. then phone close.

yeah ok i'm not going to let that one happen again. thanks a lot guys

you kept it cool.
Should have spoken to her though
but
whose to say you wont see her again