So recently I got back together with my ex. We have had sex twice before. Right now I think she just doesn't want to rush anything and may think that all I want is sex (which isn't entirely true). Since getting back together and having seen her about 3 times since, the most that I've got was some kissing (with tongue) and feeling up (under the bra, her ass, and over her pants her pussy).

I think a big problem is that I don't have a place to take her to. If I could just invite her in to my room or anywhere with a bed I think I could convince her, but as it is the only available locations for sex are her van that I can get her to bring next time we go out or I'd be willing to get a room for a night.

I think the van is the best prospect since it will it to be more spontaneous and I can catch her by surprise.

I just need to be able to flip her horniness switch on. Suggestions?

Thanks.

Basically, is there a way to get a girl in to the backseat without seeming like a sleaze? Not that I mind being sleazy, but I'm just curious if there's a better way then "come on, let's go in the back".