okay here it goes.

two weeks ago, i was on my way to a badminton game when i saw this HB9 on a bus. i decided to sarge her. Opened. did a couple of negs . did a qualifier ("you just lucky in the gene pool..."). found out shes french and is studying here in singapore for a few more months.

then i did my own routine which made her teach me how to say f*** in her own language (i even let her record it on my phone). we were laughing and generally having a great time and actually missed our stop.
i got a number close. she asked for my number which is definitely an IOI.

And then my sticking point!!!
txt game and phone game.

waited for a couple of days before sending her a message. we exchanged messages for a day then after that im pretty sure that i started to sound "needy". totally messed it up. i was even sending her mesages that meant nothing. Totally AFC!!

starting to calibrate that part of my game.

my question is;
can i still recover from totally messing up my txt and phone game big time? still intersted in this HB.

did you ever call her?

no.

i already messed up my text game so the thing that went to my mind is it would only make things worse. sorry guys, totally AFC here. lol.

LOlx.. not bad, you sarge an ang moh Girl..

yeah, ang moh (foreigners) are my type of women i want to sarge here in singapore.

im basicaly also a foreigner here (im a filipino thats works as an architect here) so it gives us a commonality which if really good for rapport building and it gives us something to talk about.

any PUA willing to help me with my Question here?

need avice here fellows..

Depending on what you said and how many texts you sent, you might be fine. I personally would call her up and say that you are going to some where and that she should join you. That helps with the non-needyness.

However if you were a complete douche and saying things like, I just got my hair cut or like I got a new poster omg. I <3 U!!!! lol...

Chances are you are probablly fine though. Just ask her to go with you to like a coffee shop or bar or something. Just make sure it sounds like you are going there anyway.

hey guys, i think i messed up my txt game also. this hb and were exchanging twice a day. on sun. she send, "maybe we could do coffee." i waited un til tues to reply. " u should cook us a nce dinner. (made a request) lol." later that nite she replied w/ "y can't u cook 4 me?"
20 mins later i reply w/" haha babe, if anything i'll bring the dessert, and a cool movie." she then replied the next morning "sounds good, wen u free?" i waiteg till that evening to sen d a reply in class. "saturday nite, u should get some tips on cooking, lol. unless u know how. i ssat ok?"

and that's where it ended. what do guys make of this? should i wait for a responese or call her up to check on the plans? help.

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Triple R.

Twitch- Can you be more specific? If you still have it, provide a log of the text exchanges. Maybe you didn't fuck up as bad as you think.

Triple R- Call her and confirm that it is on, imply that you have other options to entertain you that evening.

i already erased the messages that i sent to her but to be more specific on the things i did wrong;

sent her text messages out of no where like;

-"hey, what's up?" and it was already 10pm.
-"how was your trip? we should hang out sometime"
-"what does [french word] mean?

anyway;
i already know i fucked this up. and there's no way i could do something about it.

tried to call her. no answer. sorry guys.

time to sarge more women, calibrate and hone my game.

Those texts are boring and scream AFC. Send a text about something you two talked about that would bring her back to those moments laughing. (same goes with any situation) Send a random (but funny joke) out.

Examples:

How many men does it take to open a beer?
None. It should be opened by the time she brings it to the couch.

Hey, I'm planning on hitting up Y spot with some friends on X day, since you were so cool, you need to come hang out with us!

Yeah, it's not good, but I wouldn't say irreparable. Give it a few days and hit her with some better shit.