She actually didnt mention a BF, she mentioned she went camping with her friend, and her FRIEND's BF. and just her. She never said anything about her having a BF.

As an update. I went to talk to the girl, she had some kinda horrible week excuses, one being that her phone was shut off.

So we then planned to meet up the next day (last sunday) i didnt ask for her number though as she had just mentioned that it was shut off, i thought it would seem like i didnt listen at all.

So then sunday rolls around and she calls me to tell me that she has a color coming in 15 minutes before we our scheduled meeting time, so she would not be able to make it. She then suggests another time? I then tell her im having alittle get together at my house. and invite her, she says she will call me that monday. Monday goes by and no call. What am i to do now? Im thinking about just putting myself out there by saying something like "Hey look, you seem like an interesting and fun girl, and i would like to get to know you some more. If your interested, then cool, if not its no big deal." Do you think this would be ok? or should i just drop it?

I'm new to this, but I think you failed a shit test to the extreme.

She said "I have something to do, can't meet up", which was shit test in which you failed by saying "well come to my party" showing that you need her, and she is no longer feeling as if you are the prize.

You should've went with something like "I was just about to call you and reschedule...my little sister caught (ENTER AILMENT) and I have to take her to the doctor" which would be a DHV.

I don't know...I'm a newb...that just seems like how you should've done it.

yea to be honest, I dont think it was a shit test, if you know hair dressers, they make their money on colors, which is what she had coming in. I dont believe everything women do is with some malicious intent. Sometimes I just honestly think they have things going on. I believe that is one of the key problems with our community. Thinking like this kinda makes you resent women in a way, for all the games they play, and all the games we THINK they play.

The way i figure, is that this girl probably was/is genuinely interested in me, but maybe she had a BF or something she is currently seeing. I had a similar situation, with a girl i hooked up with. She acted kinda disconnected alot, was hard to get in touch with and such. I thought she was a flake, when all along she had a BF. Once I found this out things went much much smoother.