Friday - April 11, 2008

Women Beware!
Women beware: Men are on the prowl! Some guys win your heart and dupe you for thousands of dollars, while other men learn the slick techniques of pick-up artists so they can get you in the sack! Go inside a classroom where single men are being taught The Mystery Method -- a step-by-step technique on how to meet, attract and date beautiful women. The instructors say their method teaches guys to be more confident. When the students hit the bars, will The Mystery Method help them land a lady? What do the women think of their techniques? Then, meet Ross Jeffries, the self-proclaimed "Father of Seduction." He says he’s taught thousands of men to seduce women through language. Now he fears that he’s created monsters, because many of his followers are seducing woman through deception, and he says that’s exactly what The Mystery Method is all about. A heated debate ensues between Ross and the creators of The Mystery Method, Nick and Scott. Is Ross’ technique actually as benign as he claims? And, Victoria says she fell in love for the first time with a guy whom who she thought was the perfect man, until he she says he ended up scamming her out of $100,000. Did Victoria miss the warning signs? How can she pick up the pieces of her broken heart and move on? If you’re a lady looking for love but don't want to find heartache, you won’t want to miss this show!

A heated debate ensues between Ross and the creators of The Mystery Method, Nick and Scott.

I would rather PUA be generally percieved as a joke or money hole ploy than a predatory evil method of selfish sex hungry dominance.

And WTF is this they cant even get their fucking facts straight:
Who in the fuck is Nick and Scott?

"Ross warns that the seduction scene has a dark side. "There are people in this community who are teaching methods and tactics that I think women should definitely be aware of. There are people who are teaching some very sick, twisted stuff," he says. "I do feel sort of like Dr. Frankenstein. I’ve given birth to monsters. There are 10,000 bastard children of mine running around. I sort of feel a responsibility to clean it up. I would like to put them out of business if I could. Had I not started this, they wouldn’t have been around."

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“I don’t think there’s anything wrong with men learning to be more attractive, getting women into bed,” he says. “What disturbs me is that the other schools that have cropped up rely a lot on of invalidation, on making women doubt their own attractiveness, on techniques that make women uncertain whether they’re being complimented or insulted. They’re digging into people’s lowest emotions: their fears, their insecurities, and I don’t think that’s a valid way to attract someone.”

“You said both men and women want to have sex. Is that the objective of your technique?” Dr. Phil asks.

“The objective is to give men choice so that they can create attraction at will,” he says. "If you cannot create that attraction, you're not going to get a one-night stand, you're not going to get a relationship, you're not going to get married either. You're going to hear, 'Let's just be friends.'"

“What you’re hearing from the other guys is not the entire truth. What you heard up here made it seem like it was all sweetness and light, but there’s a lot of stuff they’re doing that’s actually really kind of nasty,” Ross says, explaining, “One of the things they rely on doing is flipping women back and forth between feeling like they’re being approved of and feeling like they’re being criticized. They do something called push-pull, where they’ll give the women a little attention, and then they’ll pull it away, so she doubts whether they’re attracted to her or not. They use a lot of invalidation, the theory being that if you invalidate a woman, she’ll have sex with you to prove her attractiveness.” He adds that they use canned routines, and when they ask for a woman's opinion, they really don’t care. "There's a lot of deception."

Who in the fuck is Nick and Scott?

Savoy and Don. There part of the MM group.