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PostPosted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 3:50 pm 
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Would really appreciate some advice on how to handle this situation

Met girl on Bumble. Asked for her number, she said she is more comfortable talking on Bumble. No number. Weird?

Invite her to eat. She wants to pay so I let her. Weird?

End up going to a bar after. Ask her to come over. We have sex. She also said I don't have to wear a condom since she is on birth control. Red flag? Obviously wore a condom

Cuddled for a little bit after. Probably a bad idea?

She leaves at 4am and says she will text me when she gets home. No text. Next day no text.

What do I do? Should I text her? Or do I just wait?

For what it is worth. I like the girl and wouldn't mind seeing her again


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 5:16 pm 
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wait three days to see if she texts first simple

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 15, 2019 10:19 pm 
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And if she doesn't?


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 16, 2019 10:44 pm 
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And if she doesn't?
you can initiate contact but don't act surprised she hasn't messaged have something cool to say

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2019 2:48 am 
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I'll wait a week. I don't think there is much difference waiting 5 or 7 days. Say something cool?
So I shouldn't immediately ask her out again, like for coffee


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 17, 2019 1:44 pm 
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Spike first then ask her to something 2nd or 3rd text

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 18, 2019 8:45 pm 
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I was thinking of sending her this: This is a super casual and chill text to say I had fun with you, and I'd like to see you again 😘

But I guess I can spike first, to see if she even responds

Why shouldn't I wait until she texts me?

We are still matched on Bumble and after she left my place, she said she would let me know when she gets home


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 18, 2019 10:17 pm 
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I was thinking of sending her this: This is a super casual and chill text to say I had fun with you, and I'd like to see you again 😘

But I guess I can spike first, to see if she even responds

Why shouldn't I wait until she texts me?

We are still matched on Bumble and after she left my place, she said she would let me know when she gets home


try hard and it's like saying don't think of a pink elephant
just text something normal but a bit cheeky

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 19, 2019 7:46 pm 
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Something normal but a bit cheeky

So tease her a little bit


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2019 8:03 am 
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Sent her: What's up. Have you listened to the album yet?

I gave her an album recommendation and she saved it on Youtube

I texted her two days, so I guess it's over. Move on. My question is why doesn't she just unmatch me from Bumble?


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2019 12:34 pm 
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My question is why doesn't she just unmatch me from Bumble?
possible she hasn't even been on bumble for days but yeah girls don't feel the need to remove old matches soemtimes just leave them there

I think a big problem is you don't feel like she would want to hang out with you again and that comes through on everything you do
I don't know how to fix that except volume of experience
once you see yourself being very fun all the time you'll finally get to the point where you feel like why wouldn't they wanna hang out with me (not why would they)
practice practice practice practice

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2019 10:08 pm 
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The reason I feel like she wouldn't want to hang out again is because she didn't text me after we hooked up. Another reason is maybe all she wanted was a ONS

But I spoke too soon, she responded at 1:30am Thursday. She said: Its good, i enjoyed it

I'm thinking of waiting 3 days to respond then ask her out and see what happens

Thoughts?


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 22, 2019 11:22 am 
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I wouldn't wait three days now, she has responded. Tell her about something interesting that has been going on in your life to re-establish rapport, then when she answers say what night you're free and ask her to join you to something.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 25, 2019 5:48 pm 
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I asked her: How do you feel about dark, mysterious bars with dangerous amounts of rum?

She answered: Sounds like a good time

Then I told her the bar and asked her what her schedule looked like. Texted her on Saturday. no response yet

Nothing else for me to do but wait, I guess, If she wants to see me she will make an effort


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 29, 2019 4:42 am 
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Had a date set up for the night. She cancelled and said she found someone to go steady with. This is highly unlikely. Guess she just needed sex that one night. I responded with: No worries, it was a pleasure, have fun.


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