In general, appearance is our first attraction to the opposite sex. Although it is not advisable to judge people by appearance, this is undeniably the first impression when we are looking for a partner. This is why we like the girl who is always young and beautiful. Even with the current sex dolls
, having the appearance of an everlasting youth is the greatest attraction. On the contrary, no one will fall in love with Casimodo at first sight. A bell tower geek who accepts all the ugliness, truth, goodness and beauty of God.
But after the two people started to contact, the proportion of the attractiveness of each other's appearance would be reduced, and other personal traits began to become important. Then, besides appearance, what other aspects can be your attraction?
Evolutionary psychologist Jeffrey Miller believes that human intelligence is a long-term evolutionary evolution, so smart people tend to be more attractive. There are even reports that many artists and poets have twice as many sexual partners as ordinary people. It is because our ancestors have chosen smarter and more interesting partners to have accumulated achievements in music, language, art, history, etc., so smart and creative are important attractions.
In fact, it is more attractive than goodness. Scientifically, this is also an indicator of gene excellence. Perhaps the good character of the fairy tale will always give us a naive first impression. Those who have the ability to help others are those who are stronger in mind and body, and more attractive to the opposite sex.
In addition, fear and anxiety can also produce and improve a person's sexual attraction. This is also the famous suspension bridge effect. In addition to this, vasopressin is also at work. This substance exists in the reward mechanism of our brain. When we are sexually active, we will secrete vasopressin and stimulate the reward center of the brain to form a good memory for lovers. Love and sex have many kinds of chemical reactions that you unexpectedly.