Ok guys stoopid question here... but how the fuk do i stop from getting gamed? Lemme explain this girl i used 2 hook up with starts textin me outta no where and she quickly starts tellin me she misses me i should come visit her n im like wtf. becuz we stopped talking months ago and it ended kinda badly and i swore 2 nvr become close to her again so i avoid the situation cuz i jus wasn sure what her deal wuz. but she didn give up evryday she would text me for 2 weeks so finally i got comfertable with her again and i put my guard down. last weekend i finally go hang out with her and we hook up on friday and saturday. Needless 2 say i wuz stoked. but ever since we haven talkied and when i saw her this weekend at a friends house she completely ignored me? so whats the deal cuz its obvious i got played.. how do i aviod this cuz as u can tell ima newbie

You started jumping through her hoops. Maybe because you eventually hooked up with her again, she looked at you as no longer a challenge and got bored with you. Whenever she or any other girl tries to get you to jump through a hoop, flip it around on her and get her to jump through your hoops first that way she can feel like there's a challenge.

Chapter 24. The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.