Wuz up. Im dating a girl right now and i just got a simple question. If any of yall have ever cooked for your girlfriend or date when did you decide that she had earn enough value to you that you would cook for her. Im going to cook for my date on her birthday after we go out and stuff. Just wanted to know if this is to early.

I think just make sure that she's getting you to cook as a treat, not something willing to do everyday (but in a indirect way, obviously).
Thats my take anyway

Uhhhh, never? Fuck that.

Well, it depends.

But on the other hand I did this for a GF's birthday once and it worked wonderfully, the girl was eating out of my hand, literally. I'm sure the situation was different because she was my GF though. I don't think it could be a bad thing, but you don't want to be submissive or at the same time uncaring.

I love to cook and I've been told I'm a great cook by pretty much anyone that has ever eaten a meal I've cooked for them, so I use it as a DHV, as well as a way to pull to my house and set things on my playing field.

Get them to grab utensils for you, or food from the pantry. You can get them helping you with cutting up an onion or making the salad, but only if you aren't picky, or they're a good cook too (personally if I'm cooking, I'm cooking and they don't touch the food or they're fuck my methods up). Heck you can even get them to do the dishes because you cooked, just not on their birthday.

The key is that you're not doing it for them entirely. I wouldn't even do it as a birthday present unless you like to cook, because then you are supplicating to them. I cook because I love to cook and if I didn't, then I'd order pizza and tell them, "Look I cooked you dinner for you birthday!"

I'll bring them over to my house and cook dinner on a Day 2 and it works great, because I enjoy cooking and I'm not doing it to impress her. I'd rather have her over at my place where I can relax and show her my art collection, watch some movies and get her in bed and eat something I like, rather than eat out and have something that costs a lot more, then have to try to pull her back to my place after. That's me. It works cause it IS me.

If you hate cooking, then don't cook for her ever unless you lost a bet. I'm dead serious.

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Tru i feel the same way about cooking. I love to cook and everyone who has eaten my food has told me that im a good cook. So why not do something that im good at and were both talking about getting into a relationship. So its not a girl that i just met and only know her for like a few weeks.

Cooking is definitely a good skill to possess, and no time is too early. I would do it the very next day after meeting someone.

Food is one of the best ways to a woman's heart, and I agree with Rye, its also great because now you are at your place where it is much easier to isolate her and start building things up, compared to a restaurant where you can only do so much.

I somewhat agree to not cook if you don't want to, because she'll probably ask you to do it again and again. On the other hand, if you really don't like it, you might want to start trying it out a little and see if you can get to liking it...even if you only know a few simple dishes. Its just such a great date to cook for a woman, probably better than almost anything else besides some crazy trip that would cost you thousands of dollars.

Rye Lee, I completely agree with you and its what I've been doing even before I joined the community

One of my favorite things is to make crepes for desert as when you make crepes you actually have to flip them.. Its really easy to "throw-flip" crepes on a pan, learn it.. and when you have the girl wih you, show her and then make her try.. you'll end up standing behind her holding her hands and helping her do it

Great way to show DHV (you can cook, show your fun (you make cooking fun) and to get some kino as a bonus

Ps. Crepes are honestly really simple to make and the throw-flipping them is also very easy, no jedi-cooking skills required

Why does she have to be special? If you're worried about whether she is worth you cooking for her, then you're not cooking for yourself and that was my point. If you enjoy cooking and it's something you like to share with people, then it's a great first date thing, or third, who cares? It's just when you want to do it.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

LOL! Oh holy shit. When do you cook for her? When you want to! Stop overanalyzing this.

My eyes have open. That made me wake up and relize im pussy whip all of a sudden. I need to get back and continue to game as usuall. Thanks much appreciated.