Hey there fellas hows it goin

anyways my problem has allways been that i look young, im 18 years old, a funny guy, and ive been told im handsome, but i get told i look 16!? doesnt put me down or anything, but it doesnt help my game either!! how many ways is there 2 get around this?...i can hardly grow a beard yet or anything like that, i guess when i dress up properlly it helps.

in the end, my confidence is still high, but thats 1 area that bothers me? any1 know any lines or anything like that i could come up with, cause when older women (20 + in my case) ask about it, i dont really have any cockey or funny ways 2 respond?

cheers fellas

hows your inner game?

inner game is good, not the best, but again theres allways room for improvment, im pritty new to the PUA concepts and that so offcourse still learning, but my only major flaw (i think) is how young i look, cause i allways get commented on it

Oh, stop talking to yourself with that silly external locus of control!

In both of your posts above this one, you have said things that demonstrate a desperation for external validation.

One thing that I really like to promote in the art of pickup is something I like to call Authentic Consistency. Ultimately, the answer to any question you may have is NOT going to be another "line." It's going to be an expression of your authentic self, providing that you've got Inner Game.

I was at One Eyed Jack's for 80s night one night (a bar/club here in New Orleans) and I was gaming this cougar on the dancefloor. She asked I old I was (I'm 18 as well) and I said, "take a wild wild guess (that's a Mehow line, by the way)." She thought I was 25. Now, I may have used a so-called "line," but after she guessed, I said "Nope. I'm 18! I got nothing to hide." She didn't even believe me at first because normally an 18 year old wouldn't be so shameless about his age, right?

Well, in my mind, I have nothing to be ashamed of. I'm not going to apologize for being 18 years old, whether it be verbally, physically, or just by my general attitude and perspective. That's fucking ridiculous. I'm damn well proud of being 18 right now and I'm going to be damn well proud of being 35 when I'm 35.

Because I was being authentic and expressing my core confidence, NONE OF THE ATTRACTION DIED. IT ONLY WENT UP.

When you've got Inner Game and Core Confidence, Authentic Consistency will guide you with all the answers you'll ever need. It's basically like this:
1. IF you ask yourself, "What should I do now?"
2. THEN ask yourself, "What would be the most honest expression of who I am proud of right now?"
3. Do that.

chief999, that totally makes sence, i aswell love being 18! but looking 16 is my problem lol, reading your theory about Authentic consistency makes alot of sence to, ill deff apply it to myself

thanks mate!

Your Inner Game can guide you to be proud of looking like however you look as well.

Guys, looking a certain age is not a problem. Ill tell u my technique for dealing with it.

ME: How old r u?
HB: 21....
ME: OMG, thats so cute....u r like my little sister....etc etc\


Basicly, u make fun of them about their age before they can do it to you. Works great.

They cant make fun of u once u do it to them.

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LOL! thats a good1 kinoescalator, im usin it , but i went out 2night, and age thing did not come up, except once when this HB8 said "WOW u must have a good fake id" where as i replyed "OMG! UR ACTUALLY 18!! I thought u got lost and decided to look for ur parents in here??" worked great cause she looked young to LOL!! woo..im loving it and IOIs all around

chief..u where right, show that u dont care, brag about ur age and looks, and no1 else well notice

love this place

cheers guys!


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