hey im new to this so i dont know if im postin in the right area. but, here's my scenario.

i saw this girl on facebook and she was having her birthday at a club. so, i got myself and a buddy out to that club on her birthday. funny thing was that she totally changed her look (went from blonde streaks to really dark) and so i didnt see her the whole night and it was such a tiny club. but, her email is listed on her facebook.

so, im planning to write her an email and making up a lie that one of her friend's gave me her email address at the club. so, this is what i have so far; id appreciate any feedback:

hey i doubt that u remember me from saturday night b/c we didnt even speak to one another-- okay, that just sounded plain weird... but, one of ur friends gave me ur email addy. we were talking about u while u were on the dance floor .. u know wat, i think this is going to be a really really strange email b/c i dont even know u -----but im just going to keep writing it, even tho i prolly shouldnt-- but im cool like dat so wat the heck

anyways, i didnt get a chance to approach u b/c u were dancin the night away and i wasnt goin to be a guido and run up on the dance floor, although in hindsight i prolly should have!

anyways, back to that convo me and ur friend were havin-- we were actually talking about how u resembled AUDREY HEPBURN. i hope u know who that is or else u can always google her name. well, she's this old school actress (she was in breakfast at tiffany's, roman holiday etc.) shes known for being elegant, classy, charismatic and very compassionate (remember those unicef donation boxes during halloween-- that was all her) i have most of her movies on dvd (i usually dont tell people that b/c its kinda gay)

ohh ur friend also told me that it was ur birthday--so happy bday i guess .. but, that must mean ur a pisces just like me. btw, my bday is nxet week. ill be in arizona but i really wanted to stay here and go snowboarding. oh well, i cant complain b/c life is great. dont u agree? we have nothing to complain about.

so, me and my friend had to leave century club for plush and u were still dancin away so i just asked ur friend for ur email addy and i dont even know if i wrote the address correctly when she gave it to me so this might not even get sent to u, which means taht im talkin to myself. so, with that realization i better end this email. i know its all over the place and prolly doesnt make much sense but ima leave it like that

i hope i get a reply --but if i dont, thats cool too and completely understood! haha

take care!

#1 way too long...

#2 after reading that she'll think you are a stalker... this is a natural way to feel when you like a girl but you can't convey this to her...

girls are skeptical of guys.. you have to come in under the radar... that's why you have the 3 second rule..... too much attention without approaching will just creep her out

instead of writing this email, next time you see her somewhere approach her within 3 seconds with a killer smile and use an opener.

OH, MY, LIFE! Thats snydey. Firsty, in you msg you're babbling, secondly, keep it short and to the point, thirdly, thats gonna freak her the fuck out.
I suggest you do some reading, actually do alot of reading, check david deangelo's stuff available for free on the net.
Try this 'i hope you did'nt get too drunk the other night, did you had a good birthday..
.....anyway speak to you soon bye'.

This will get you a better response.
And dont say you got it from her friend, you got it from her.

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I don't know where to begin.

How about... NO.

This doesn't SOUND stalkerish.. this IS stalkerish. You need help.

Instead of stalking people over the Internet, how about you just go out and try and meet some people?

- Dex

hey Sir Chuck E. Don't feel ashamed at all. We all wrote something like that so you are not messed up.. This is something we all do... just keep at it and keep asking.... tell us how it goes and don't give up .... cause you can be good at this...

Dude, I'm sorry.. but I have never stalked anyone off the Internet to real life places.

That's downright creepy.

- Dex

yo dex, cut the guy sum slack, his askin for help here not redecule, and yes i do agree, it is a bit werid that u followed this girl 2 the club, but thats not where here to discuss,

btw, while reading ur post i didnt really understand ur question, what was it again?