Okay I need help closing this girl I have been talking to for a while. Shes an easy 9, completely gorgeous and loaded. So here's the situation. We've been talking for a couple months and hang out every now and then. When we hang out we go to the bar and get hammered. We usually leave there around 4 AM and I can always get myself back to her place. I end up sleeping in her bed with her but still haven't been able to pull off as much as a kiss. Now this has happened on 5 or 6 separate occasions. Most recently we got back to her place and she put on some music and lit up the room with candles. She was throwing me all the signals but it seemed like she was jumpy, everytime she sat down and i was thinking of making a move she jumped up to change the song or get a drink or something. I mean i figure obviously since we hang out and conversate so well and she has no problem with me sleeping in her bed she wants me to make a move but I just haven't found the opportunity yet. At the same time I don't want her to get bored or think I'm never gonna make my move. It's driving me absolutely nuts and I need some opinions from the experts. What is your opinion on the situation, and if anybody has any good moves I can pull to go in for the kiss I would appreciate it a lot. I feel like once i get the first kiss out of the way I'll be set.

Thanks again guys.

I get the feeling you're missing one very important thing, kino escalation.
You need to slowly build the kino so when it comes time for kiss it wont seem awkward because she will already be comfortable with your touch.

In my experience a girl letting you sleep in her bed with or without her is a big IOI.

From what you wrote she must like you, so use kino, be flirtatous and playful, sexual tension (which it sounds like you already have but not in a good way) and escalate towards the kiss.

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Thanks for the reply. I'm fairly new to this stuff but I've been reading up on the stuff you said. I realized I haven't been touching her in the right ways and maybe that's making her uncomfortable. From what I gathered I'm gonna go with some high fives, upper arm grabbing, small of the back touching and maybe even a thumb war haha (I actually couldn't believe that was a pickup technique, it seemed so stupid to me). I'm meeting up with her again on Friday night and it will probably be the same routine, back to her place. I don't want to fuck this up. I figured her letting me sleep in the bed was an IOI and this has been going on for quite some time (couple months) so she must like me because any other girl would have thought I was a pussy that wouldn't make his move and tossed me to the side. I didn't really follow what you were saying about not having sexual tension in a good way. But anyway I wanna be ready for Friday Night. I read up on one technique where you tell her to close her eyes then grab her left hand and brush her face with your right hand. Then you whisper to open her eyes and ask her if she thought you were going to kiss her. You make eye contact at all times and if she says yes you go in for the kiss, if she says maybe then you say I want your eyes to be open when I kiss you and make your move and if she says no you back off. Let me know if you think this is a good technique for a k-close because I know that once that first kiss is out of the way I'll be able to nail her that night.

Thanks again guys.