I'm Dietrich, from Brazil, and I'm on a long-distance relationship with a Croatian girl.
I met her 6 months ago, while travelling to her country. In fact, I was travelling for picking up girls and fucking as much as I could. During the trip, I kissed five girls and fucked two. But I fell in love with the last girl. After my returning to home, we began to talk every day on camera and we started to refer each other as boyfriend/girlfriend at the second week. But we have two problems (besides the long distance and the 12-years age difference):
-I respect her totally, and I have not cheated on her in these 6 months. But she was going out in the first month and I'm not sure she has been loyal to me in at least two situations. I don't know what exactly happened, but I know there was a day she lied to me to hide she was out in a club with her friend and three travellers.
-She has liked Instagram pics from a Spanish guy she may have met one month before me. When I asked her if she knew someone from Spain, she said she didn't. In the same day, she stopped following him on Instagram. I know she wants to hide something about it. Actually, she said she has fucked only three guys in her life (me and 2 ex-boyfriends), but I'm not sure at all.
If there were not these two problems, I would say I have a perfect relationship. We love each other very much, and I'm about to visit her. She is not going to clubs in the night anymore, but only hanging out sometimes with a girl to coffee bars. I think, she has respected me as boyfriend after the first month. So, my doubts are: how can I talk to her and discover the truth about what she did in the first month? Is possible to forgive a possible cheating done at the that situation (long distance, first month, no talk about boundaries)? How do I deal with her past (I wanna know the truth and everything, because it can change what I think about her as a person to live together)?
Hey Dietrich.i'm from Bangladesh & we love so much football your country style samba . I can give you some suggestion 1- Now you contact face book , whats'up any social media? if you'r not please do it. 2- Are you already explain or your true love how much you him? if you'r not please try it social media for understand & try to explain past story & discuss again date past place.