If you smoke weed, if you drink regularly then youre shit out of luck already.

I understand I don't have a penis, but I have dated alot of guys that have them. Plus, being a nurse helps.

Always masturbate and finish prior to when you know you are going to have sex atleast 1-2 hours before foreplay. Train your "member" that right before you are about to orgasm, just stop. Do not move! you can stay inside her or just pull out and just be still.

Another technique that is ideal is to right before you orgasm, you squeeze the tip. Another idea, without losing the mood, if you are about to orgasm and you stop like you are supposed to. Still do something. For example, go down on her, kiss her body, whisper naughty things in her ear, whatever.....you get the idea. Just don't pump your member anymore til the sensation is gone...then by all means, continue.

Oh and guys, if you change up positions often then you and your partner are more likely to orgasm at the same time. Depending on your partner, please be on the same page!!!!!!!!

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lol i just hold it in like i have to pee but im not near a toliet.

I have been working really hard to work up my stamina to like the 45 minute to hour mark for sex, have you guys ever noticed that when you jerk it to porn you can't last as long as when your not, I can last way longer when i am actually having sex then when i am looking at porn. have any of you guys had this phenomenon?

Yep. It seems quite normal, is not the same rythmn at all, when having sex there are many (enjoyanble) things that don't let you focus your attention only in you genitals

Ever wonder why they marketed warming lubricant?

There is a logical reason why you wouldn't get the same effect from jerking off to porn to the extreme of actually having sex. You don't have the emotion you would with a partner, the "natural" warming sensation, and the SPAM as well. Thats why it is always better with a partner or partners.

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hi everyone this is my first post!
Hey sep i was watching the old lady sex show on Tv along time ago and she had a caller with the same problem and she said take yourself up to the point of ejaculation and a bit over, you can do this while trying to hold it. But after you let a little bit out and stop for a second it literally takes forever to get your self to get back to the point of ejaculation and your dick stays hard. ive tried it whacking a few times and it works!! It could be really hard to do if your mid fuck and you are trying to hide it from her. Mabey someone esle has tips on distracting her while you wait a sec, but from my experience it works.

Kegel excercises are what everyone keeps talking about with the stopping and starting of peeing and working your pubic muscles. I'd like to give a shout out to "Sex Lady Sue" aka Sue Johanson!

A trick that my buddy told me and that he says works great for him whenever he is gonna bust a load too soon, is to pull out and then just SMACK IT. That's right! Smack your dick to the side with a solid hit and it doesn't hurt much, cause you don't have many pain receptor nerves in your dick (which is why getting it pierced hurts less than many other places) and you're just smacking it open palmed, but it takes you right back to square one and you can go for another 5 minutes or whatever you got to.

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With respect to the previous two posts:

Feelsonumb: how much ejaculate you let off does not matter AS LONG as you do not "let go" mentally and give in to the orgasm. Of course the longer you let go, the harder it will be to stop and control your mental state. But the trade off is the longer you let go, the longer you go on without having to repeat.

Rye Lee: Yeah, that's the porn star move right there.

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I just don't get it....none of us ever did that when I worked in the industry... It must just be a Hollywood move and they don't teach it to us small timers.

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Lol!

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well i have 2 solutions to help on this topic. I use to be in the same boat.

1. Learn to keep your attention on something else. Try not focusing on her moans or how good it feels. Personally I do the Tongue Trick. Stick your tongue to the roof of your mouth and keep it there. Sounds dumb right? Well you will be amazed how much of your attention will go to keeping it there instead of on the sex, which will make you last so much longer.

2. Train your dick to last along time. When you jerk it, take your time. See if you can last an extra minute each time. If your about to blow your load then stop! Wait a couple seconds till the feeling goes away, and continue. Once you do this for a good period of time your nerves kinda retrain themselves to not lose it... so to speak.