i want to ask this girl to prom whos been showing a lot of interest in me for a while.

i dont know if i should go for something really creative like nonverbally. or talk to her in person and use some type of pua material. I want it to be memorable. i think it should be.

the only thing i dont like about this is we have only hung out once. but weve been talking for a long time so i think she knows me well enough to say yes. what do you guys think?

any cool ideas that wont embarass me or shut me down???? thanks

1. unless you are an annoying prick that nobody likes, she will not say no so don't worry about her saying no-- [keep in mind that sometimes girls want to say no but dont... which leads me into #2]

2. try to make sure that she does not desperately want some other guy to ask her [this is probably the most annoying part about prom]-- you probably already know what her situation is, who she would consider going with-- make sure that she thinks she will have fun with you at prom-- be friendly, smile, be c&f.. joke around with her-- in other words, it should never cross her mind to say no to you

3. Make sure she doesn't already have a date-- if you really can't find out, don't sweat it

4. MOST IMPORTANTLY!! DO NOT WAIT TOO LONG BEFORE ASKING HER!! There is always a guy looking for a date-- he will ask her if you don't first!

Alright-- ideas for asking her:
1. Be blunt "Hey, can I talk to you for a sec? [Yeah sure...] We both know prom is coming up, and I was wondering if you'd like to go with me. [Yes I'd love to]"-- seriously, this is the easiest one, and it will work unless she already has a date-- remember that PROM should be memorable... its just a bonus if the way you ask her out is memorable..
2. Be funny-- I'm actually POd that i didnt think of this earlier cuz i woulda used it... assuming u have her number.... call her/txt her when she's waiting for a ride, just hanging after school or somethin like that, and ask her to prom over the phone-- walk towards her [from behind-- out of nowhere etc].. right as you finish the question. she should see you right when she's about to respond-- and presto YESto [yeah that rhyme was lame]

i never get to see her n person in school. its very random timing so i cant plan on a time to ask her in person.

i think it would be way cool to do something creative because nobody at my school does that. dont girls really like that stuff??? but i do want to act soon cuz its only a month away.

i really dont think another guy has asked her and i dont know if i should even ask if she already has a date or ask her friend if she does just to be safe and not embarass myself?

i dont even really care that we have barely hung out, cuz i think we'll hang out a lot more if she says yes to prom.

Be huge. Be dramatic. Be fearless. She only gets to go to the prom once, so you'll have to make sure your invite stands out from everyone else's. Wear a chicken suit. I hear chicks dig those.

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does anybody have any great ideas??? something really creative and cute?? somebody's gotta have a better idea then the chicken suit! haha, srry man i cant get a hold of one of those anytime soon.

Here's the thing, man. It doesn't matter what you do to ask her to prom. What matters is that you ask her to prom with confidence, communicate with clarity, and that you're huge in your delivery. The chicken-suit thing was a joke. Mostly. I sorta wanted to see you embarrassed to death while wearing a chicken suit.

Make it a huge build-up. Get her excited for the question. "There's something I've been wanting to ask you for a while, now. I'm about to put my heart on a platter, blah blah blah." Make it huge. Make it an event. But don't send a banner across the football field that says "K473, \/\/1|| Y0U g0 2 pr0m w/ m3?" Make it about a personal delivery, not a gimmick.

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dude just ask her straight out man the next time you see her in person. That should work man.

yo, im me when u get a chance

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ok.. you might need to know her sorta well before you do this

you might need the help of her friends to cordinate this..


do you have a sports car? it would make it even better if you drove fast


heres what you do... make a big ass sign.. that says her name.. "will you go to prom with me yadaya" make it 20 feet long. Have your buddys set it up before hand.. so that they are both on one side of the street holding onto it on each sides... so the rest is in the street


after school one day get her to drive with you somewhere.. to meet up with her friends or whatever (this is where you get her friends to help you)

then drive to the neiborhood where your buddys have the sign up and drive around the corner to the sign.. she will see it and say "what the fuck!? aw yes ill go!"

and then haul ass threw the sign!!!! like a bad ass!!!! and hug her/ kiss her if u can.


baller.. straight baller.. watch topgun before hand and act like maverick..

like a said a sports car will help alot in this situation.. girls love adventure so going fast in a car like your a bad ass totally gets a girl going


alright hope this helps on ideas.. let me know if you use this idea

Okay, kinda on the spot thinking here but could be cool.

Get a black light and some highlighter's or glowing pens like that that and write "Prom?" on a bathroom mirror. Then scribble around with non-glowing pen so that the writing is disguised. Get her in there turn the blacklight on and you've got her in a dark room and asked her out. 2 birds 1 stone.

You could also use glow in the dark paint or something.

What's the theme? That could help with ideas.

Yo dude my friend did htis and it worked sooo well. Go to a Build a Bear workshop. When you are making the bear record your voice asking for her to go to the prom with you. Jus tgive her the bear and it'll work so well man

Chickens aren't cute, dress up as a rabbit, she will get wet in her panties over your costume.

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Here is how I did it with my girlfriend.

I made a lifesize stencil of myself holding a sign, then wrote a poem and made a stencil of that. Then I sprayed it on a wall in a park and put he poem on the sign I was holding. Then at the bottom I made 2 boxes one with the word no and the other with the word yes.

The next day, I gave her a present. Inside the box was a can of spraypaint and said yeah, you might be needing that later. Later that night, I took her to dinner then we walked through the park. I told her to bring the can...