Hi I am 22 year old male. I workout everyday in my apartments gym for the last 2 months. It is almost always empty but today a girl came in while I was on my cell phone. She went over to the treadmill and started running. Once I got off my phone she told me a joke about almost falling off when it started. The conversation went on for about 20-30 minutes and she asked were I worked and talked about herself alot. She mentioned she had not eaten and was going to go find some food and left after about 20-30 minutes. Now does any of this mean anything? Should I have asked if she wanted to go get something to eat? Knowing I might see her again should I ask next time? I am totally lost when it comes to girls so any help would be good. Also I could not tell how old she was but I would guess 20-25, would it be weird if she was 25 while I am only 22? I am very inexperienced and have no idea what to do. Also she never mentioned anything about a boyfriend if that matters. Did I do the right thing? I am really looking for complete guidance here. If I missed mentioning something please ask I will tell you whatever I can recall. This girl was amazing and I actually listened to everything she said which I don't do for pretty much anyone. Also she was hot which really helps and I have no idea why she even started talking to me because I have never even talked to a girl like this.

she was defiantly telling you that she wanted you to ask. next time she says something to you like that just be like

Girl:I havent eaten anything all day im hungry
You: Good cause your coming to lunch with me

You think? Damn I was afraid I missed that, I don't think I would be able to say something as confident as that but what about "I haven't eaten yet either did you want to come to Octane (Restaurant attached to apartment) with me to grab a bite?". I didn't blow it or anything did I? She laughed at everything I said and told me alot about her and I asked good questions about her although I don't know how I did because I sure wasn't thinking about it. But ya I hope if she works out again in the next day to 2 weeks I get another chance to ask her. The gym here is like the size of a 1 bedroom apartment and we were the only people in it. Also she said she usually reads a book but didn't today even though I saw that she brought it. I really hope I didn't screw it up because I can't get this thing out of my head. Basically everything she said I liked.

Nah you didnt totally blow it just try not to sound too eager when you do ask.
Ask as confident as you can doesnt have to be those words exactly.

Thats good to hear, hopefully I see her again and don't screw it up and she doesn't have a boyfriend. She didn't mention one the entire time, does that mean she probably doesn't have one? She told me about how her and her friends from work go to the bar when there out, would that suggest she is looking for a guy? I lost on all that. Should I wait for her to mention something? Did anyone else have an opinion about this? Any girls/guys got a different view? I just wanna make sure I am reading this right so the more opinions the better.

I'd say that, if anything, you did good by not offering to go out with her right away. Maybe she thought you were busy. Maybe she thought you weren't that interested in her. These things may make her want to try a little harder next time she sees you. You didn't come off as needy at all. You had the opportunity to hang out with a hot chick, and it appeared to her as if that was no big deal to you, so you just went on with doing your own thing.

You did good, and you didn't even mean to. That's what you call 'being natural'. Next time you see her, just play it cool and take it from there. Don't focus on how you're going to 'get her', just focus on keeping your cool.

Thanks, I think that's what I will do is just try and act like I did last time, by the time I thought about asking her out she was gone, I will try to keep it at the back of my head and just listen to what she has to say next time I see her.

Well she wasn't there tonight, I guess I will just keep going till I see her again, hope I didn't miss my chance.

Boy this fucking hits hard to read. I did miss my chance, btw. This was 5 years ago, I'm 27 now and have had 1 GF since that day, I've kissed 4 girls total since that day, I've only ever slept with 2 girls, none when I posted this originally. It's clear that my life when it comes to women has gone nowhere since I was like 14. I'm working on this now but it sure shows me I should pull the trigger more.

You have lost control of your thoughts by overanalyzing. This only clouds your judgment.

Next time you see her, ask her questions and listen to her replies.