Ok guys I took the advice and changed my nick to something way better. I think I'll go back and try to open sets again thx to what people are saying here.

I tried some day game today (Sunday). But I ran into a probelm I havn't considered before. I saw girls I liked but they were like a street or so away all the time. I tried to get close to them to open but they were just walking away. I can't run after them because that would cause alarm. So I tried trailing them trying to catch up without looking like a stalker. I find it difficult to get near them without having to walk really fast which would also seem weird. If they notice youve been behind them for like 2 streets+ they seriously gonna think your a stalker.
Then they will eventually go into a clothing store or a small coffee shop, which I don't think I would dare try yet and they going to be more worried if they think you followed them into a shop too.

I'm really frustrated I didnt open at all because I couldnt get near them without seeming weird. Then I had one who popped into a coffee shop when I was almost close enough to open.

Can someone tell me the best way to do it? I think the sooner I open the less stalking/ followng I have to do the less weirdIwouldcome acrosss.

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

Ok I feel stupid but now that I'm up for opening again I gots AA. I have no AA if its someone im not interested in but if I really like a girl the AA kicks in.

So yeah um my title is kinda misleading. (what was I thinking) slaps self) ok I wanted to clear that up I soundedtoo much like I was boasting.

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

Hell. Just whistle at them. Get their attention and you can just walk right up to them... without seemingly stalker tendancies.

A lot of ppl get AA with a HB9/10, but not a HB5/6. I never really understand that. When I see a HB9/10, I would approach just cuz its gonna be more of a challenge. It's more fun. Maybe I'm just sadistic that way.

Mystery also mentioned it (or probably was Lovedrop). They say if you said something terrible in front of a beggar, you don't give a shit, but if you said the same thing in front of your boss, you would really worry about what your boss thinks of you. Its a survival instinct acc. to them. So maybe that's why ppl have AA with the HB9/10?

Ah, but you cant exactly compare the two, because you dont know the begger, but the boss you're likely to see several times aweek.

we vaule some peoples opinion more than others, for different reasons.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

So maybe ppl that have AA with HB9/10 value their opinions more than HB5/6 because they think the rejection is going to way more harsh.

It weird how we subconciously assign a value to peoples opinions depending on how we percieve them. Why do we find a HB10's opinion say more important then a HB6's?.

Neither hasn't demonstrated any HV at this point but were just going by appearances.

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Now looking back at all we've had...
we let so many dreams just slip through our hands...
Why must we wait so long before we see
How sad the answers to those questions can be?

Being that us males are judgmental base on the visual aspect of things, HB9/10 just by being a 9 or 10, demonstrated a higher replication value in our minds than a HB5/6.

As I said, I approach a HB9/10 just because its a challenge to me. I have friends that have AA because of this but I tried everything and I can't break them out of this mindset. Any suggestions would be welcome.