alright idk if im LJBF zone... this girl i went to school with a few years ago and i met up after a long time, we where never freinds but i knew a guy she dated... IDK whats happening, i honestly was playing my cards trying to just F close her... but did i get LJBF'zed

heres the abridged version of the story..
back to my place to chill once, are second time we hung out we just chilled at my place and watched a movie cuddled and flirted a lot.. she said she wanted to talk about some stuff and starts talking about this guy she does not like that is into her alot and shes stress about it .... then we talk and after the night i get this.. from txted

haha
dude ur nice
thank u
for listening to me bitch

AM i fucking LJBF'd wdf i didnt even listen i tried to blow off her talking to much about her problems..

idk though she is so flirty with me and so touchy and the eye contact is amazing but wdf idk. can a girl talk with you and say your nice and still be interested.. because honestly fuck it if im ljbf shes a hB7 at best i just wanted a fuck..

bump?

sounds like you're slowly but surely being LJBF'd.. with all this flirting and eye contact etc you mention how come you haven't made your move yet?

Maybe you havn't established interest in her? Remember even though originally its not good to show interest unless you are using DIRECT aproaching then at some point or another you have to establish the fact that you are interested in her you could start by negging her for having a mouth like a sailor or something to that degree then make a pun about her mouth is alot sexier/useful than a sailors whatever man just establish some interest in her SOMEHOW then you will find out if you are going in the direction of LJBF and correct your problems.

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you could be getting LJBF'd but if you said she was flirting and all touchy feely, then think of it this way.

she may have sent you that text to requalify herself. like she felt bad that she was talking about her problems to you and doesnt want to come off as a whiny bitch. like "sorry i was bitching, thats not the real me just to let you know" does that sound possible?

just another take on the subject

thats actually a really good explanation, she did say a FEW times that she hopes i dont think shes a whinny bitch.


oh and what is a rapport break?

ps, lol i do think shes a whinny bitch..

I don't think you're doomed yet. IMO you should have made your move when you were cuddling and stuff, just said don't worry about it and in a lull go for it. But since you didn't make a move when it was available, you're probably beginning to be LJBFed, but you still have a chance. Just make the move at the next possible/realistic time.

sounds like you have the same problems i have.
All these master PUA's (at least it seems like) have girls chase them. I can't get girls to obviously chase me. So its hard to make a move, because you don't want to confuse over friendlyness of a girl with attraction.

Anyways, you are going in the LBJF zone. It happens a lot, girls are attracted to guys at first, but they just don't make the move fast enough. Remember being fun and exciting isn't enough. the final step if conveying interest in her, and letting her know.