My fello PUA's and PUA wannabys, this last weekend was the first time I have honestly just let go. Dropped the conscience, self doubt, and just said fuck it... the result was one for the record books.

I am a personal trainner, and in my line of work I meet a lot of attractive female clients. One of whom we'll call Alicia. Now I have been trying to get at this HB9 since she first stepped foot in my gym (as where all the rest of the AFC's who lift there). this has been 4 months in the making and it was crash and burn everytime. Then a week ago I ran into her in the mall, and I imagined her as a fat, ugly, pimple-faced girl, and myself as Zues! She said" Oh hi, how are you?" My response was, "Oh hey, hold on a second." While I walked pass her to start up a conversation with a very ugly chick I knew.

Eventually I came back and asked, "Okay, so what where you saying?" She looked completely dumbfounded. I could imagine what was going through her head. "What the hell? Why doesn't he want me?" Then she says, "I was just asking what you've been doing." At which point I responded in a very vague and uninterested tone while simotaniously checking my text messages, "I have been doing awesome! I've been having the time of my life. But I have to get going, I hope to talk to you again." At which point I began a false take away, five steps later I turned around and said, "Hey if you'd like to come out with me and my crew, you're welcome to join." She tried had to hold back a smile at which point she grabs my phone and puts her number in it. WHAT?!!!! I've been trying to get her number for months!! And she has a BF! A day later I text her a little message saying my crew and I would be going out that weekend. I didn't invite her, just let her know.

The next night she calls, "Hey, I had a really bad day. I just needed someone to talk to and you seem to listen so well." I respond with, "No what you need is a drink, and to forget the problem." She says, "You're right, I need to drink." "I have alchohol" "I have a car" " Come on over!" I tell her.

She arives 20 Minutes later. I began with an opener I came up with about how most girls have low self-esteem because they where stricken with the curse of beauty. Line after line, drink after drink, neg after neg. I even convinced her to give me a lap dance! Which led to the bedroom which led to LMR. I used Style's Passionate Relationship bit and it worked like a charm! Without a doubt, the best sex of my life! I felt like an unstopable Pick-Up-Machine. The God of bullshit! And nothing has left me fealing more rewarded or confident!

Good story! Nice job man...some of it seemed kind of mean , but as you said you were trying to get at her for awhile so it wasn't like you were being a dick off the bat, but showing that you can be both interested in her or not give two shits. I'm going to do this to the girls that i've caught myself being AFC with and give them something else to consider in my character.

QUestion..i've read about people saying that they will lessen their opinion of an HB only to rid themselves of anxiety and see them as someone less threatening and more below/equal to them. I thought about this...but i wasn't sure which to do. Should i look at everyone being ugly...or everyone being beautiful?

It feels that if i were to look at everyone/everything as beautiful..then i'll have a more desirable aura about me because everyone wants/likes someone who makes them feel like they are full of worth. WHat do you guys think?

where can i find this Passionate Relationship bit? just curious, would like to give it a read

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Okay, I have always tryed to keep a positive mindset when trying to pick up chicks. And I have often times commented on how beautiful they are. But, this blows there heads up and makes you the same as every other guy that has tryed to get at them. I honestly felt a rush of not power, but understanding of the steps nessesary to get this chicks #. That day, conveying that she was undersirable and convincing myself of the same made me more confident;able to keep eye contact, and generally DHV. To everyone out there doubting the power of visualazation, and inner belief that she is not worth anything, I implore you to give it a chance.

The "Passionate Relationship Bit"- This is a line a read about in The Game. I honestly never thought I would have to use it, or that it would work, however the response was overwelming. At the last moment her Anti-Slut defence came on and she looks at me and says, "I don't think I can do this." Now had she looked away and said that, I might have believed it slightly, but the fact that she kept eye contact let me know that she was a ploy to see my reaction. I responded by placing my hand on the side of her face, looking her dead in the eye, and in a soft and sincere voice I said, " Listen, every passionate relationship I ever had, began passionately." This assured her that I may want a relationship, or that it was at least on my mind. And BOOM!!! Like a leach she was on me!

I should throw in that right before she left, I throw the codiment routine on her by putting my bracelet on her wrist. She called today and said, " I was just looking at your bracelet and was thinking about you." We have plans to get togethor again tonight.[/u]

That is amazing bro! You got me pumped up! I do have one question for ya, don't take this the wrong way, but as a personal trainer, why the low self confidence? You probably have the ability to be a body double for those Spartans of 300!

Same reason HB10's have low self esteem *shrugs* I am answering for him just because there is no real reason for lack of self confidence and low self esteem it just happens and people take the way they feel about themselves differently some harder than others

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Congratz man I am glad things are starting to look up for you I am no body builder I am kind of a bigger guy but I have an immense amount of knowledge and charm to make up for it and just because my confidence level is so high it gives me the ability to pick up almost any woman I desire and you should feel no differently.

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He is right on the money. I have the ability to get sliced up and cut, but when I don't have a fight to prep for I put on a bit of weight. But cut or not, I still have an athletic build. The reason for my insucurity is really that I have a real fear of failure. I've trained in MMA for four years, so I can handle anybody that comes my way. But women on the other hand, seem to be that enigma that I can never fully understand. Ask me to break a mans arm, I'll show you how, ask me how to get cut, here's the way, but ask me how to disarm a woman in a bookstore or at the mall... I'm clueless. I am a very visual learner, nd unless I can see the righ way to do something, I never can get it right. But I have been able to build on the foundation f last Friday, and my confidence has jumped up significantly.

What style is MMA? I'm pretty interested in taking up some sort of fighting. As for the pick up, great work! I always felt that if you could turn off (or attempt to) your attraction for someone it would make things so much easier!

MMA = american style lol

MMA = Mixed Martial arts

One of the deadliest and most difficult to study I use to study tae kwon do and bak ja kwon and I enjoyed them both if you are just starting out to the martial arts area try something like tae kwon do, judo or karate.

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Hope you weren't not-quite-lying when you said you were interested in a relationship.

Awesome job man.

Yes, truly inspiring post. I forgot about the "Passionate Lovers" line, thats the shit.

You say you imagine her as an ugly or undesirable girl to strengthen your confidence. I do something similar, but I imagine that im making love to the girl Im talking to. Now, I dont get too deep into that thought as to not become distracted. It works well for me. If you are already in bed with her all your anxiety and unsureness are behind you right? Look at it this way, it doesnt matter how attractive she is until your in the position to make love to her.

plaaaayyyyya

Okay, just to catch things up. After my night with this HB, she felt guilty and went crawling back to her BF, however last night I got a knock on my door and there she was. Twelve at night, and there she stands. She invited herself in only to tell me that she has made a mistake by ever going back to him. And that our night togethor sparked something she has never felt before. Do ya'll here this ?!!! I used game, openers, bf destroyers, DHV, ect. and in one night changed everything in her life. She proceeds to tell me that she left her BF, and that she wants to "hang out", her words. So I took her to a local club that I have sarged at a couple of times, only to see my very recent ex-fiance! Now this is the chick responsible for breaking every piece of my heart, and leading me to learn the game. So naturally, I used the game on her. I took my HB to the dance floor, in plain site of my ex. We grinded, we dipped, we tore it up! Everytime she would look my way, I would sink my toungue into this HBs mouth. Paybacks a bitch! I gave her the gift of missing me. I occupied her thoughts, I made her jealous, and in turn, left her wanting. The HB and I left to go back to my place. On the way back, 10 min. after leaving the club, my ex texts me "Ur not how I thought u were". I have to admit, it pulled on my heart a bit but I said, " it, caveman it". I took the HB back to my place and we proceeded to have the hottest ever!!! While in the middle of my orgaasmic pleasure, my phone rings, guess who? Then 1 min later again, then again. Soon I turned the phone off, and continued to my problems away. Today, I woke up a new man. I went straight to the mall and sarged every HB7 and up I saw... I am now holding 4 new numbers! Man I feel invincible!!!

lol, u see how women are? damn them sometimes