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 Post subject: Did I f*ck up?
PostPosted: Sat Oct 21, 2017 6:44 pm 
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Okay this is gonna be a long thread but anyway...

I'm 21 and she is 20 both freshman in college and here is the situation. There is this girl from my class that I super like and from the first day I that I saw her I noticed that she was glancing at me. She is friend with this other female friend and whenever we were having a conversation she was glancing at me but never had we had a real conversation, I tried talking to her few times and every time I do so she seems really shy, however when we were talking on facebook we were both confident. We did that few times and every time it was the same on facebook we would talk in confidence and in person awkward. At some point I considered that she is not interested but then happened that right after that I asked her out to train together, it was one message after another on FB she replied only to one of the messages and then at the end of the day she wrote me that she didn't notice the message about meeting up and she agreed, which means that she was going though the facebook chat... anyway during the weekend I wrote her again about meeting up and turned out that she was busy, she said that she was working so we considered texting each other(not every day) and,,, I decided to get straight to the point and get flirty with her and everything was going just perfect we even agreed on meeting up for homework and stuff but,, here is the point that I think I messed up, both of us were texting until 4 am and I didn't wanted neither to miss classes or to look like and a**hole because I offered sitting next to each other in class, so we did,,, but it went awkward, the beginning was Okay, she came in REALLY good mood and started talking but then class started and we stopped,,, not even texting, neither me or her were listening, she was on some her girly web pages. Then till the end of the day we acted like nothing happened,,, unless we were talking 1 on 1.

Anyway I though I totally fucked up after that but afterwards she continued texting first,,, forgot to mention that she was also texting me first asking "How am I" and things like that.

So do you guys think I should continue trying or I'm f*cked? Ask if you have more question regardless my situation. :)


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 Post subject: Re: Did I f*ck up?
PostPosted: Tue Oct 24, 2017 7:14 pm 
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Okay this is gonna be a long thread but anyway...
Sure is.

You're not escalating enough. or quickly enough.

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 Post subject: Re: Did I f*ck up?
PostPosted: Wed Oct 25, 2017 7:12 pm 
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What do you mean by "You're not escalating enough"?


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 Post subject: Re: Did I f*ck up?
PostPosted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 3:28 pm 
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What do you mean by "You're not escalating enough"?
Google Vin Dicarlo escalation ladder in PDF

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 Post subject: Re: Did I f*ck up?
PostPosted: Thu Oct 26, 2017 6:00 pm 
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If you're not getting any signs that you shouldn't go forward why wouldn't?

Also, where the hell is this thing going bro? You guys are both old enough, this sounds like some middle school stuff. You have to be the leader though. You have the lead the conversations, you have to flirt, and you have to escalate. If she's naturally shy is only because you're not succeeding in making her feel more comfortable opening up. If you don't have the skills to that this is the time to learn. Make bigger moves other wise this will fizzle out before it gets started. Ask her out, touch, walk her to her next class or her car or the bus after class. Hug her before she leaves. Get this thing flowing bro. And get it flowing asap.

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