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PostPosted: Mon Oct 02, 2017 7:13 am 
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It's possible, Neo.

BTW, is anyone else disconcerted that the OP has a device/program to bypass being blocked?

Why would someone need that....
It’s just called *67 dude, you will show up as “no caller ID” on her phone and many people will answer anyway.

People have been using *67 ever since manufactures began introducing handset based number blocking. Guys and girls who feel unjustly blocked have been using that ever since.

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A shy guy who lives a good distance away, who she had to be the sexually aggressive party with...yeah thats game over and no second chance.
You don’t know her dude!! And you weren’t there!! For all of the instances I elaborated on where she initiated subjects and touching, there were countless other instances where I would reach over and put my hands on her, grab her, feel her up, pull her closer to me, initiate make outs, and spout enough dirty talk and adult subjects to make any girl blush.

If I came off as anything that night, it certainly wasn’t “the shy guy”

You weren’t there. You have no clue.

Now go jerk off in traffic.

I don’t come into your bedroom and give you advice on how to blow your boyfriend.

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A shy guy who lives a good distance away, who she had to be the sexually aggressive party with...yeah thats game over and no second chance.
You don’t know her dude!! And you weren’t there!! For all of the instances I elaborated on where she initiated subjects and touching, there were countless other instances where I would reach over and put my hands on her, grab her, feel her up, pull her closer to me, initiate make outs, and spout enough dirty talk and adult subjects to make any girl blush.

If I came off as anything that night, it certainly wasn’t “the shy guy”

You weren’t there.
There it is. You've pinpointed why the "Sorry, No Go" happened. Worked her up into a frenzy and then a let down. I know that you told her that you were saying that you were going to stay at a hotel because you were too drunk, but that's not what she was really hearing. She was hearing your excuse for the two of you to stay at a hotel. If you were talking dirty to her, making out, and feeling her up she was going into the room for you to put it in. Instead you talked.
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“You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m just looking for a guy who’s not as talkative.”

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People have been using *67 ever since manufactures began introducing handset based number blocking. Guys and girls who feel unjustly blocked have been using that ever since.

this has to be a troll account. The guy's energy and writing style seems familiar....

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People have been using *67 ever since manufactures began introducing handset based number blocking. Guys and girls who feel unjustly blocked have been using that ever since.

this has to be a troll account. The guy's energy and writing style seems familiar....
I precede you on this forum, and span about three generations of technique. I got into pick up when “The Game” was current material and “natural game” didn’t exist or was severely dismissed by others as “going back to being a chod”

You were just angry that I tarnished your credibility a tad because you give the same negative insulting cookie-cutter advice to almost everyone who’s been ditched.

I’m certainly not a troll.

I’ve gotten laid tons, I have had tons of success, but it has all taken **effort**. It was never easy, and this was only achieved after several months of learning. Then pop culture changes and the girls change, and here I am back at the forums needing advice because the old ways no longer work.

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A shy guy who lives a good distance away, who she had to be the sexually aggressive party with...yeah thats game over and no second chance.
You don’t know her dude!! And you weren’t there!! For all of the instances I elaborated on where she initiated subjects and touching, there were countless other instances where I would reach over and put my hands on her, grab her, feel her up, pull her closer to me, initiate make outs, and spout enough dirty talk and adult subjects to make any girl blush.

If I came off as anything that night, it certainly wasn’t “the shy guy”

You weren’t there.
There it is. You've pinpointed why the "Sorry, No Go" happened. Worked her up into a frenzy and then a let down. I know that you told her that you were saying that you were going to stay at a hotel because you were too drunk, but that's not what she was really hearing. She was hearing your excuse for the two of you to stay at a hotel. If you were talking dirty to her, making out, and feeling her up she was going into the room for you to put it in. Instead you talked.
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“You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m just looking for a guy who’s not as talkative.”
Now this I can go with. This is highly likely. The lesson for this thread is if you get a girl all hot and lusty on a date, you better be ready to close the deal that night. It’s kind of sexist when you think of it because men can’t not-feel-like-having sex, but women get to dangle it like the carrot in front of us as though we’re numbsculls with a cock and two balls for a brain and that’s all we want??

If you’re going out on a date with a girl, I guess, and you think something might lead to sex even that night, even if it’s a new girl, you better be ready to put it in that night and not make excuses or drink too much.

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 02, 2017 8:06 am 
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Now this I can go with. This is highly likely. The lesson for this thread is if you get a girl all hot and lusty on a date, you better be ready to close the deal that night. It’s kind of sexist when you think of it because men can’t not-feel-like-having sex, but women get to dangle it like the carrot in front of us as though we’re numbsculls with a cock and two balls for a brain and that’s all we want??

There's no law saying you can't be the one dangling the carrot. You just chose to take the passive, feminine role on the date.

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If you’re going out on a date with a girl, I guess, and you think something might lead to sex even that night, even if it’s a new girl, you better be ready to put it in that night and not make excuses or drink too much.


What about not blowing up their phone the next day like a nutcase? Where does this play into it?

Even if you'd had sex with the woman, I wonder if you would've still lost your shit the next day when she didn't text back right away.

The fact that you felt "unjustly blocked" and used a technique to bypass that is creepy.

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Now this I can go with. This is highly likely. The lesson for this thread is if you get a girl all hot and lusty on a date, you better be ready to close the deal that night. It’s kind of sexist when you think of it because men can’t not-feel-like-having sex, but women get to dangle it like the carrot in front of us as though we’re numbsculls with a cock and two balls for a brain and that’s all we want??

There's no law saying you can't be the one dangling the carrot. You just chose to take the passive, feminine role on the date.

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If you’re going out on a date with a girl, I guess, and you think something might lead to sex even that night, even if it’s a new girl, you better be ready to put it in that night and not make excuses or drink too much.


What about not blowing up their phone the next day like a nutcase? Where does this play into it?

Even if you'd had sex with the woman, I wonder if you would've still lost your shit the next day when she didn't text back right away.

The fact that you felt "unjustly blocked" and used a technique to bypass that is creepy.
Wait a minute. Aren’t you the one who always contends that if you “fuck her good” flaking won’t be an issue, and she’ll be calling you for more…?… On quite a few threads to quite a few different guys actually?!!

You’ve also been asked for and have not provided any kind of write up on what this “magic fucking“ that gets girls to not flake, would entail. To date, to my understanding, you haven’t provided such material, although you profess that that’s the key.

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That's part of it. And it's not magic, lol.

The fact you refuse to accept your wacky phone behavior the next day means your doomed to repeat it.

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That's part of it. And it's not magic, lol.

The fact you refuse to accept your wacky phone behavior the next day means your doomed to repeat it.

Of course I did, but mentioned it was way improved over previous times:

“That was an improvement though. You have to admit, after her text that she “didn’t see the fit“, not following up with “WHAT??!! F YOOOOOUUUU!!!!” but simply letting it go at that point, is certainly an improvement.”

Others on this post have stated that they didn’t feel that I lost my shit this particular time, and that they would tell me if I did. Sure, I sought some reasons/answers in a pretty proactive way, but didn’t come near “blowing up her phone“

Looks like you’re alone on this one.

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A shy guy who lives a good distance away, who she had to be the sexually aggressive party with...yeah thats game over and no second chance.
You don’t know her dude!! And you weren’t there!! For all of the instances I elaborated on where she initiated subjects and touching, there were countless other instances where I would reach over and put my hands on her, grab her, feel her up, pull her closer to me, initiate make outs, and spout enough dirty talk and adult subjects to make any girl blush.

If I came off as anything that night, it certainly wasn’t “the shy guy”

You weren’t there. You have no clue.

Now go jerk off in traffic.

I don’t come into your bedroom and give you advice on how to blow your boyfriend.

You're so unstable. You're a grown man please get on some kinda medication. Your outbursts over me giving my straight opinion... I fear if a chick would say she's no longer interested in person... Would you just snap like you're doing online? If you left details out...are you leaving out unhinged behavior that occurred that night? I assumed you were giving an accurate play by play so don't act like anyone here is supposed to read you say a girl is making advances and you're backing away then think you were making moves.

You wrote a lengthy story and presented it like you didn't do those things. Anyways I still stand by my opinion.. That in the room she wasn't being pleasured. If she really was enjoying the fingering she would have finished. Not left. Have no idea why you'd feel the need to go crazy over that but I'm just being honest. If she really is liking what you do she isn't going to stop you. Simple.

You were a creep after the date and I dunno about how creepy you were during and in the hotel room. Whatever the case a chick hitting the block button means whatever you did she didn't want you contacting her again and closed the door on you. Chick didn't just lose interest... She BLOCKED you... So all the bs moaning and sexy talk.. Yeah I'd guess she got to the hotel and wasn't pleasured. If you want to believe that chicks get pleasured and stop mid pleasure just because you can't penetrate then I don't know what to tell you. Seriously seek help because I don't think a person this unstable should be left alone with a woman.


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A shy guy who lives a good distance away, who she had to be the sexually aggressive party with...yeah thats game over and no second chance.
You don’t know her dude!! And you weren’t there!! For all of the instances I elaborated on where she initiated subjects and touching, there were countless other instances where I would reach over and put my hands on her, grab her, feel her up, pull her closer to me, initiate make outs, and spout enough dirty talk and adult subjects to make any girl blush.

If I came off as anything that night, it certainly wasn’t “the shy guy”

You weren’t there. You have no clue.

Now go jerk off in traffic.

I don’t come into your bedroom and give you advice on how to blow your boyfriend.

You're so unstable. You're a grown man please get on some kinda medication. Your outbursts over me giving my straight opinion... I fear if a chick would say she's no longer interested in person... Would you just snap like you're doing online? If you left details out...are you leaving out unhinged behavior that occurred that night? I assumed you were giving an accurate play by play so don't act like anyone here is supposed to read you say a girl is making advances and you're backing away then think you were making moves.

You wrote a lengthy story and presented it like you didn't do those things. Anyways I still stand by my opinion.. That in the room she wasn't being pleasured. If she really was enjoying the fingering she would have finished. Not left. Have no idea why you'd feel the need to go crazy over that but I'm just being honest. If she really is liking what you do she isn't going to stop you. Simple.

You were a creep after the date and I dunno about how creepy you were during and in the hotel room. Whatever the case a chick hitting the block button means whatever you did she didn't want you contacting her again and closed the door on you. Chick didn't just lose interest... She BLOCKED you... So all the bs moaning and sexy talk.. Yeah I'd guess she got to the hotel and wasn't pleasured. If you want to believe that chicks get pleasured and stop mid pleasure just because you can't penetrate then I don't know what to tell you. Seriously seek help because I don't think a person this unstable should be left alone with a woman.
You’re a jerk-off who is peddling something as fact, which was what pissed me off. You’re just like an Arch with your armchair psychologist practices. Don’t tell me you give one-size-fits-all insulting advice too!

And by the way, on the “she just wasn’t pleasured” point, women will “fuck ‘em and leave ‘em” all the time with guys, even if she’s been orgasming.

And that block button being the litmus test that you think it is.....that’s what girls do now dude. They take the easy way out. I have a lot of friends who get way more action than I do and they’ll commonly wake up to having been blocked by a girl they’d been fucking for weeks.

Girls take the easy way out, and they just block now. Girls get into months-long relationships now....**RELATIONSHIPS**, and end it by saying “yeah I’ll call you Wednesday”, then blocking the guy, and disappearing for good.

About the block button being so heavy, I might’ve given you some credence if this were 1995 and the woman had been smacked around by the guy, but today, that block button is used, overused.

I was doing well on the date. Your “all this sexy talk” comment demonstrates to me that you must be a cynical permavirgin who wouldn’t know affection if it bit him in the ass.

JackZero was the one on the money on this thread. I simply didn’t close the deal.

Oh my God I’m rolling on the floor gasping for breath in laughter at your lack of a clue!

Thanks for the entertainment!

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Honestly, OP, I had to go back and reread everything and you did write your post from the explanation of the things that she was doing as opposed to the things that you were doing. It was heavy on the her enthusiasm for you and the vital information was being revealed as the thread went on. So my initial thought was that you didn't show her enough interest and at some points you've shown disinterest...but that was only because of what you wrote. So when it got to the point of where sex should have happened, I think neo's interpretation was a fair assessment because everything went your way even when there could have been points on the date when you could have lost her. It was in fact going so well that I was kind of getting jealous and thinking that this must be a really good looking dude if she's still going along with this. Any reasonable person could see that her backing off was related to her not getting what she wanted out of it sexually. I'm not going to say she did or didn't enjoy the fingering but whatever it was it didn't leave her satisfied. If any guy says that all women are satisfied with him then they're lying, so there's no shame in it. Disappointment because you can't redeem yourself maybe, but no shame.

So take responses for what they are...just a guy giving his opinion. If you need to correct facts then correct them.

On a lighter note...I just have to point out my favorite part of your post. I laughed when I first read it and I laughed when I reread it.
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And that block button being the litmus test that you think it is.....that’s what girls do now dude.

No, that's what girls do to unhinged chodes.
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They take the easy way out. I have a lot of friends who get way more action than I do and they’ll commonly wake up to having been blocked by a girl they’d been fucking for weeks.
Means they sucked in bed, or were emotionally-uncentered.

women don't block playful, fun, dominant males who are good in bed. They love them.

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