Here’s a tough situation. If you want to share your ethical opinion, please do, but I rather want and need advice.

I am interested in this girl from work (I will reference to her as HB). Known her for 2 years now and was always flirting with her via the phone (we work in different locations and have to call a lot). I work with her maybe once every two months, but lately I have been working in the other location more often, so I saw her more frequently. I quit this job due to things I have to go on exchange for school and my last day at the job is in two weeks.
She has a boyfriend since about two months and after I heard that, I wanted her. I don’t know, it just this feeling that if I don’t at least k-close her I failed (one-it is?). I don’t have to bother about other women, I’ve had plenty of them the last few months (so please don’t comment with “go fuck 10 other girls”).

I have asked her out once (when she already had a relation) and she agreed to go out with me (as co-workers). We’re both rather busy and did not find the time for the date yet. However, this Sunday there is a sort of fashion day in the city, starting with a show and after that a party. I’m going there with HB and two other female co-workers.
These co-workers are two obstacles. Of course her boyfriend is also a big obstacle.
Co-worker1: works with and is a good friend of HB. Is a very friendly person, but I think if I would make a move at HB, she will jump in between us. I have known Co-worker1 for 3 years or so.
Co-worker2: has worked with HB a couple of times. Is not a good friend of HB and I believe co-worker1 doesn’t like her a lot. Co-worker2 is, despite the fact that she also has a boyfriend, interested in me and I think she will follow me the whole day as bee’s on honey.
Boyfriend: I have learned enough and already used some of the straw man technique, I think I can handle the boyfriend issue (still advice is always welcome).

I think the following things will happen: We are having a good time at the show, enjoying ourselves etc. But when we go to the party I think Co-worker2 will ask to much of my attention and since she cannot get along very well with Co-worker1, she will be on my ass the whole time resulting in me not able to spend enough time with HB.

How can I get and how would you guys get around these obstacles?

My best advice would be to go out and fuck 10 other chicks.


But since you don't want to hear that I'll reword it - lead an interesting life, get out and do fun things with fun people and approach and engage every female you find attractive, most will blow you out but a certain percentage with take you up on it.


But since you want specific advice for your specific situation here it is. Flirt with her, talk with her, be nice and sociable with your other coworkers and her boyfriend. Then when you muster up the courage, isolate her somehow and proposition her.

She will either say yes or no. If she says yes, take it as far as she will allow.

If she says no, go on about your business and go out and fuck 10 other chicks.

Yeah I'd agree. You'll just have to isolate her and tell her str8. You're 50/50 and if it doesn't go your way, just go out and find 10 other chicks.

Also, It'd be a good idea to have her see you run tons of game so you get the jealousy factor going in your favor.

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El Lobo