Well Ive fallen for this very cute asian girl I walked up to one day at school. It has been a few weeks now, and I know she has feeling for me. IOIs all the time! She says I have beautiful eye, I am sexy, She even said she wishes she was single on our first time meeting up outside of school!

One day I just told her that I am flirting with her.Well I said it in a cocky and funny way, and thats when she really started throwing IOIs at me. Then she would mention her Bf from time to time, only saying bad things about him. What I did wrong is that I didn't do the anti Bf techniques right or whatever you call it. I did no future projections, and I called her Bf out. I even told her she should be single, and get with me- I know its wrong.

So now I am starting to fall for her. I know she likes me but she has been with her Bf for a year, and a half, I understand if she is having security issues, but now I am noticing her IOIs are becoming less and less. I ask her to go to a race with me tomorrow, and she said why me? I said why not. She then said," I just met you, haha I'm kidding." I asked,"is it because of your bf?" She laughed and said maybe. I then told her," if your gonna make this awkward then don't go." Of course she said no she won't. So then she said," I'll let you know later today." Then we hugged and went our separate ways.

Now I am starting to think she is just trying to play me, and be a tease. I don't know what. I met her almost a month ago, and I know her parents are very strict, and her relationship isn't going well with her Bf.

My problem is, is that I am falling for this chick, and somewhat getting annoyed. I am thinking about just calling her out, and telling her whats up with her, and how I feel. In a manly, and non needy way of course. Just letting her know I won't put up with silly, and immature games.OR I am just going to try and keep her as a friend, and get rid of my emotions toward her. It will be a bit tough, but if I just meet some new women, and do my own thing I will.

What do you guys think?

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I am so confused. Once again the paradox of "falling in love" collides in a story of "pick up artistry".

Are you trying to pick this girl up? Or capture a wife for Pete's sake? You said you are "falling for her". You barely know this girl! What kind of PUA "falls" that fast? I just don't get it.

So, you want her to be immoral and dishonest and cheat on her boyfriend with you ... becauuuuuuuuuseeeee ... that is the type of girl you want to ... fall for?

Am I the only one that is confused about this?

I could see if you wanted to bang her like a notch on your belt, but you are talking about love, and you want this woman you love to be a cheater and a liar.

How well do you suppose a relationship started on that basis will go? I mean really...

A real man never tells his feelings to a girl, he shows them. And you show them by asking her out, kissing her on the cheek, etc. You don't need to confess shit. All you gotta do is be fun and focus on the main goal. Let's say you end up kissing her and she says she can't do it because of her bf. Pull her back in and kiss again with a smile. Keep doing that unless she backs up away from you and says it in a serious tone.

Now when she said bad things about her bf you should of said, "I feel him." Saying it in a seductive way over your shoulder with a raised eyebrow and a smile. In other words.."I know he's bad..because of YOU hahaha."

Whatever you do, don't call her out. That's something losers do when they can't come up with any other options. Calling her out will prove to her that you've lost control of the situation, and that you care about it enough to get mad. At the end of the day, she doesn't give a shit about you, or what you "feel." If you were to lay out the terms of your "friendship" for her, as if she cared about it at all, you would be disappointed with the results, trust me.

Here's a better idea: move on to someone else. Find yourself another cute Asian, and go from there.

lol I started reading this thread because I thought the title was "i've fallen for a girl, but she's a man"

That would be interesting.

But in all seriousness, I think some valid points were already made through the previous replies.

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cool dude: STOP!

This girl was giving you ioi's,..but had a BF for a year and a half.
SHE IS PLAYING YOU. GIRLS DO THIS ALL THE TIME!!!
THEY WANT TO KNOW THAT THEY "STILL GOT IT"

DO NOT "call her out, and tell her whats up with her, and how you feel."
DO NOT!
DO NOT!
DO NOT!

Cool dude, you are in the danger zone.
YOU ARE IN THE DANGER ZONE.

Your are going to end up with a broken heart.
YOU MUST CUT THIS GIRL OFF NOW!

DO NOT "keep her as a friend"

This girl is looking for attention, if you cut her off, she may go back to giving you ioi's. In that case, make her DHV and send her IOD's. That's the only chance you got,...if any.

Anyway,..find an other girl.

cool dude, I'm sure you a good guy. If you want to be a PUA, take your heart out of the equation.

Good luck man!
I know you'll be ok!

Scientific

yea hey guys thank for the replies! You all have some experience in this type of situation I guess. I never have, so I was gonna see what works. Ya know experiment!
I already started ignoring her, and I will iod for a bit.

A real question I should ask myself is if I really want to be a pua anymore. I have been one on and off for 2 years. I got good, then I stopped became waaay to analytical which I found out is a stage in being a pua. My heart came into the occasion, maybe cause she is asain. Damn I have a soft spot for them!

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i dont agree with this.. i found a girl that had bf problems, she was giving me ioi's and stuff i asked her to come with me somewhere knowing she had a bf but never mentioned the bf so she doesnt build up guilt.. eventually she fucked me, and we are now dating 5 months and we are in a very happy relationship together