I messged this HB 10 or even an 11 on POF with this. (she's like 5 ft)... Wow, you're practically a midgit. I'd squish you like a little buggy, then I'd call you my squishy.

This was her response:

"first of all its midgEt.... and no I am not.
youre practially an amazon and I could care less to read your profile because its obviously a joke."

So what went wrong with the negs? Is midget too harsh a word maybe? lol. I'd think an HB of that calibar would have been able to stomach that neg. Is her response a shit test? I doubt it, she seems genuinly insulted, but is it possible?

Usually I get no response whatsoever from the really hot ones, so it at least envoked a response and an emotion.

Don't take my word for granted but I think she really got offended because maybe she got teased by her height in her early childhood? Could be possible.

Usually girls don't like it when we tease them with their height specially if they know they're small

Just putting my 2 cents,

J

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Never neg anybody on things they cannot change about themselves. Height, weight and other traits that the woman may or may not have are not appropriate to joke about.

Tone it down just a little bit

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hey im a 5ft 2 female and if a guy is like....youre so small haha but its cute or whatever im ok

If a guy is like...youre so small youre obviously going to be weak and cant look after yourself (which your neg implied) i would not be happy.

Im pretty good with negs, i can take all sorts of negs and give right back but i HATE it when men imply that i lack in quality.

Your neg was too aggressive in my opinion.

I think adam lyons said in some video: 'always try and add quality to people'

I have talked to tall women directly about this, in fact I have used it as an opener. "Would you be offended if I called you gargantuan". I've gotten mixed responses with it, some laugh, some blow me off. I think it has less to do with the neg and more to do with the insecurity of the female herself, so it's hit and miss when you go for physical attributes like that. It's best to go for things like what they are wearing or personality stuff.

My favorite is usually make fun of something they are wearing, for instance if they have big earrings on I'll say "Why didn't you wear the big earrings tonight?".

But also don't get all hung up on it, some girls just have a bad attitude and you can't think twice about it, just move on to the next.

In situations like yours where the women is kind of a little moody, I like to just ramp it an extra notch, so for instance my response to that message would be. "Don't worry my profile wont take you long to read, its shorter then you "...lol

Rebel

Beautiful response!

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You can neg about them, you just have to know how to deliver them and when to.

^I wouldn't say that's the smartest move to make . . . It's a very risky game and there are so many better options.

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That is true.

Don't use neg online.
The way you use neg is you say it then keep talking and dont let the HB has a chance to comment on the neg. It's also very important to do it with an innocent playful body language.
You can not do those stuffs online.
Also even she's a 10, there is a reason she's on there, and her self-esteem is pretty low already. No need for a neg.

This is a valid point too. You never know if you properly delivered the neg or not and at the same time; you don't know how she felt about it. Her 'lols' and other responses may not describe nearly how she felt when any negs were thrown at her. Joking around and being funny is a different thing though.

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You shoulda said "Ooohh your feisty too I like that I'm tired of girls being fake nice to me, finally someone who has some balls to speak their mind. Your like a cute little chua chua, I bet I can redirect that all energy you have to something else more pleasurable"

F-Close...

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I won't assume that her self esteem is low. I have met 10's from online that where on there because they where simply fed up with the bar/club scene and just wanted to explore another venue to meet guys.