Hi,

Having read and experimented with both methods has been interesting, but I think now I am not sure what the hell to do.

ADAM AFC advocates natural game in which you should have conversation topics but you are allowed to ask normal AFC questions when you are initiating conversation.

Then you Break Rapport to get our of the friend zone and I have found that the best way for the chick to have a clue that you are sending a initial no friend zone message is by making the Rapport Break sexual..."you are sexy when..." or whatever C&F or smart ass innuendo....while Mystery/Mehow approach does not directly flirt until much later in the process...

Also, ADAM AFC and SINN say to start with COMFORT 1st attract after....while MYSTERY/MEHOW say ATTRACION 1st, COMFORT later

So now in field, this has confused me and I never remember the stages in field. Can anyone relate to this confusion?


ADAM AFC is:

OPEN
COMFORT
BREAK RAPPORT
ATTRACT
QUALIFY
ESCALATE
SEDUCE

MYSTERY is:

OPEN
DISQUALIFY
ATTRACT
COMFORT
QUALIFY
SEDUCE

You need to ditch both and do the leek method. Forget about negs and breaking rapport. All you need to do is talk over your shoulder and integrate what i call grabbing in your game.

Don't worry about it.

Just focus on opening, getting into a normal conversation, flirting / taking the piss out of them a bit, and as long as they stick around for 5-10 minutes they probably are DTF and you just need to escalate.

Don't overthink it, just HAVE FUN and DON'T BE A PUSSY!

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whats a DTF?

what is taking the piss out of them?

DTF = Down to fuck

Listen, there are more ways than one to pick up chicks.

Don't be confused over what Mystery says as opposed to Adam Lyons or any other guru out there.

Focus on what works. For you.

Take a method and try it out. Identify yourself first. Which method is more likely to suit you . . . Adam Lyons or Mystery? Or anybody else? Which one expresses YOU the most?

Then go out and try it. And start changing/calibrating it to the way if works for YOU and YOU alone.

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I think that whichever method or combination of methods, as a newb I have to be more aware of the structure or steps...which maps out the game plan......

For example, 30 minutes ago, I just did a number close at the mall, and I started with Attraction and she asked my name mid conversation and though in the beginning of the conversation she mentioned her boyfriend at the end of it she volunteered her business card without me asking.

I think Attraction is harder to pull off in the beginning but more powerful if you can do it

If you start with Comfort aka normal, you are taking the longer route.....

your thoughts?

Lol gave you her business card did she. Yeah and i went down to quick fit and was gaming a girl and she gave me her website!