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Well tonight was the third...and wow did it suck. i actually went back tot he place that kicked me out the other day, and boy was i paranoid as fuck. i had a god awful night that ended up pretty funny.
I approached my first set, a 2 set. I put my hands around the girls ask them whey they're dancing there and i was going to pull them to the dance floor. they say that the dance floor was too crowded, blah blah. the girl on the left said she had a boyfriend . i make a joke about it, my target laughed saying it was funny. target's friend tells her to dance with me. i look at her with a somewhat "come on" face. the two of them are staring at one another [one clearly trying to say to go with me, and target saying she doesn't]. girl was telling me she was paranoid of dancing on stage in front of everyone. i ask her if she's self conscious, she says yes. blah blah. eventually friend goes off finds some random dude and tells me that that's her boyfriend. i knew it was some random guy and his crew [full of tools]. i left because i didn't care enough she really wasn't very attractive. I laughed it off
Went to a quieter area approached a group of 2 guys 3 girls. more of a friendlier set than a pick up one. just small talk, the people weren't really from the area. again people impressed by my education. these were like 33ish people. i recommended some other areas to go [places i can't go to because i'm 18]. easy interaction. joking about sports and whatnot.
However, after that first blowoff i started getting AA. I started looking around and laughing at how many guidos there were. I caught my eye on this one hot girl and her friend. but she was dancing with some dude. after he left [yeah that was pretty chode of me], i approached them for dancing and started to dance with them. some guy and girl approach the set. the girl says her friend is really cool, blah blah. i amog him, saying "what's up dude, how are ya. these are my girls blah blah." of course that first guy dancing with the hot girl shows up..they're dating or something, other girl also disappears.
Approach another set immediately, 3 ugly girls...blown off. honestly i could just think what the fuck after this one. i go in i ask for their names, they just look at me. i say "let's try this again. Hi my name is____" what's your name. They told me their names. they all walked away right after. these were like hb3,4,5. i've hooked up with 8/9/10s in high school/college, but when i go out i get blown off by these girls wtf.
Anyway i continue, i grab the arm of one girl as she walks away. she pushes me. i'm like what the hell. she says she's looking for her boyfriend, not caring about me. boyfriend shows up, big tall black dude. i just left.
I approach girl standing alone. this interaction ends up well. she's laughing she's enjoying my time. i tell her to dance with me, she had to find her friends. i said "let's go find them." her friends apparently appeared behind me and she went up and hugged them. she told me to wait there she was going to come back and dance with me like she promised. i didn't bother waiting
Approached mixed set 2 girls 1 guy. start talking to girls a bit. i think my value spiked when they found out what college i went to. guy kind of brings me into the group afterwards. the hot girl on the left was opening up to me joking around to me, but then had to go to the bathroom. the other girl went with her as did the guy. i didn't bother following.
Approached another 2 set. asked the girl if she watched a certain show because she looked like a certain character in it. of course neither she or her friend watch it even through it's a big show. i bust them on it. approach was clearly failing, so i left.
Approached a 2 set. ask for their names, mention how girls don't have accents which was suprising. a little bit of joking around, girls impressed by where i go to school [this worked 2/2] but i don't want to rely on that. i completely blanked in my head. girls left
approached two girls dancing. it was a chain grind guy,girl,girl,girl. i approach girls 2 and 3 on line. i was targeting girl 2 mainly. i want to pull them out to dance. some random guy comes up to me and tells me how their lesbians a few seconds after the girls told me they were. [Well girls 1 and 3 were lesbian for each other]. obviously a lie. i tell them to make out in front of me. they say no shows. i say, it's not a show it's love why don't you do it. they refuse. some other guy enters the set, girl tells him their lesbian. i mention to make out agani, they dont. oh well
Approach bartender, she's hot. i ask her why there were so many guidos there. ask her how her night was. told her i can't really buy a drink, not old enough yet, and left.
Approached a three set. i tell the girls to come dance with me. two guys come in and try to take them from me, i tell them i'm with them, and i send them off away. i grab the girls by their hands try to pull them over. they wouldn't come. two of the girls, the ones i were interested in said they were lesbians [second time this happened]. i tell them to kiss..they do. i applaud them. tell them to do it again. they tell me how it's not a "show" or something. they start dancing, i leave.
approach another set. there was a group with 2 guys 5 girls, i think. i saw two girls in the set approached them tried to get them to dance with me, they refused. she said she would only dance if she was on the dance floor [elevated] and i was on the ground. i thought fuck that. i jumped tried to convince her to dance with me, then one of the guys tells me, she doesn't want to dance blah blah, she said no blah blah. anyway i didn't want t stir trouble because i got kicked out from the same place just 3 days earlier.
I see this group of two girls standing. they were kind of dancing off the dance floor. i tell them to come dance. the girl was like i have a drink. i tell them they can dance while drinking. i try to pull them in. she's like i'm fine where i am blah. they look away, i end up leaving
approach another girl after some guy like punches her in the shoulder lightly. i ask what's up with that, she blew me off and left.
left the club after that...what a night
16 approaches
2 good interactions
1 alright interaction [she of course went to the bathroom]
but it's pretty much all blowouts, no closes or anything, i only danced with 1 set of girls.
Wow...
anyway afterwards i go to grab a taxi to get back. as it's moving a little bit, the driver asks if the people standing next to the cab were with me, i say no. girl jumps in anyway, and some random dude jumps in. i'm thinking what the hell. i tell driver to take me to my campus. girl says ok i'm going with you, guy says ok i'm going too. girl forces him out. all i'm thinking is what the hell is going on. girl was telling me how she hooked up with a bunch of guys in my dorm when she went to my college blah blah. the girl was hammered drunk. we get kicked out of the cab, have to board a new one. this was just weird. girl says she was hungry, i bring up some food place, brings up nostalgia for her, she wants to go there. we get there, all of the sudden she says to go to her house. girl lost her credit card, i tell the driver to just take me to my dorm. girl keeps saying otherwise. she gets dropped off, i go home.
that was really messed up
what a weird night. that last thing was ridiculous..
looking back i'm surprised i did so many approaches, i was choding around like crazy after that first rejection, didn't approach again for a while
Pros: not really much to say. i got over the approach anxiety thing. it was my first time sarging a crowed with so many people i got over the AA. i'm so much better in a lighter SPAM. Weird as hell, nice story to have. espeically the last one. my willingness to get better at this grew when i saw other guys succeeding with girls that blew me off. i know i'm better than them in nearly every category.
Cons: I couldn't do shit tonight. i wasn't very good at opening larger sets. i wasn't sure how to get through the lesbian shit test. i just couldn't get things going, girls were blowing me off left and right. I wasn't in state at all, not in the mood at all
funny thing i noticed. my first two nights sarging were great, i was masturbating nightly during those days, however i took a night off and went out with a pretty much full load. i sucked
Realized the bigger sets were screweing me over a lot, i should have made it clear who my target was to the group and just isolated her and talked. problem was i wasn't sure if i would have been able to do that with a two set
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