I walk into this club...dry just a shit ton of guys and 2 ugly girls. i walk over to this other area of the bar with karaoke, hb9.5 working the karaoke area, she was singing. room full of chodes perving on her. i was paying no attention to her. i looked through the booklet and i picked a few songs. i wave at her to come on over, she comes. i tell her we're singing this song. i bust on her for not knowing a lot of these classic songs. we finally pick one. [shit tons of kino, claw touching, close face to face right from the get go, playful high fives, joking at her inhibility to spell my name [i ask her if she needs help spelling her's and i spell out the name of the song for her etc]]. we sing the song, she comes over to hug me. while still hugging i bust on her for not singing loud enough.

i tell her you know what, we'll pick another song. i better hear you singing this time. she sits down next to me, i point out a bunch more classical songs [that everyone knows ex: billy joel]]. i keep busting on her. she tells me to find one, she walks off for some work thing. i go to the sign up sheet and put down a song and write down my name and girl who doesn't sing down as performers. when it's our turn, she says next its "my name" and "girl who does not sing." She then complements me saying that i look like a famous person that many girls find hot. she tells me its a good thing. the entire crowd is drunk as hell. we sing the song. she comes and hugs me again, asks me if i heard her sing this time. i acknowledge her. then i pull her over towards the end of the stage. i ask her how long she's been working there. she tells me how cool i am and stuff. she goes in to kiss me. i stick my finger between us and say "wait, first buy me a drink" [i'm underaged.] she says that she can't. i tell her it will be our secret and whatnot. she says "never have i had anybody ask me to buy them a drink...and you're underage." I go in to kiss her hoping she'll buy one for me after that. she says "don't try to kiss me, or i'll have to kick you out [not really angrily just saying it with a normal tone]." I'm like fine, it's okay. nice meeting you. a few minutes later security makes me leave saying i can't ask someone to buy me a drink.

[maybe she told security?]

Oh well, i left


Pros: I had fun, i showed up a lot of those chodes in the audience. i was completely sober and i gamed this girl. she really liked me. she was enjoying my time. my approach anxiety is non existant. i used to have this a lot. and now i feel like doing whatever the hell i want. unfortunately it doesn't translate well into day game for me. had the best girl int he club all over me, the rest of them were ugly and fat. Also worked on talking to her, where my first sarge involved like no talking and dance floor game, this had much more. still believe i could talk to her a lot more.

Cons: maybe i pushed it a little to far and asked for a little too much. should have just taken what was given to me. i didn't close

I wasn't sure if that whole "i'll have to ask you to leave if you kiss me thing" was a shit test [to see if i still had the balls to kiss or] or a threat. but whatever

i had a blast

Note: By busting, i mean playfully teasing. none of that neg stuff

@Rasta-Im friggin' puzzled at where this went wrong!!

The vibes were so nice,you played it 100% right,the girl was definitely attracted??

Im lost.

This is puzzling.

Anyway,good social vibing.

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If a girl wants to kiss you, FUCKING KISS HER.

You don't have to continue "busting on her." Flirt, be fun, be sexual, but it's push-pull, not "fuck off"

You basically rejected her for trying it on with you.

Next time, kiss her, and just be the first to break the kiss. You can smile cheekily and say something like "that's all you get...for now" if you want.

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its cool if you ask a girl to buy you a drink after you''ve just met. If done correctly you appear "as a guy who isn't trying to buy her" But if she's about to kiss you and you ask for a drink, you appear more "a guy who is with me for a drink"=needy+cheap.

Peace

looked her up on facebook turns out she's married??

maybe she was just acting so that you could spend more in the club(you said she worked there right?)

Ok then its just a fake IOIs, except I don't get why she went for a kiss...(or maybe she's separated/unsatisfied with her husband) anyways- stand out of this.

well she doesn't have her husband's last name so i'm not sure about the marriage thing..but she was kind of blowing off a lot of the other guys who approached her [many just went to give her a drink or something though]. i actually wanted to meet/get to know her

sounds like you totally had her under your spell and she didn't know how to handle it.

remember, many (most) HB9.5's don't have dudes gaming on them, they actually have dudes stumbling and bumbling and acting like total rejects just because they are attactive.

she was threatened by your gaming skills and was on the fence. she took the opportunity to jump ship because she knew she was going to end up with her legs pointing at the ceiling and you banging her senseless till the wee hours of the morning.

that's what this was. she saw an out, because she realized it was heading toward physical intimacy, and she took it.

sucks man.

How old was she? A lot of young girls (under 25) convey statuses on fb saying that they are "married" to another girl that is their best friend or something similar. I asked them about it, they dont know why they do it. I guess it stops random, creepy guys adding them...

Oh and I agree with blondguy, you pretty much slapped her in the face by not kissing her (not literally obviousely, but figuratively).

she was 22

why would she jump ship if she saw it going towards physical intimacy?

because she was afraid of the gerth.

at least that is what i call it.

like you said, she worked there, so she probably wasn't setting out to meet someone or hook up. not like the other people there.

you caught her off guard, and you hit it off big time, but she WAS working, and as long as you did everything perfect (as you did) you had her hook, line, and sinker under your spell. but the second, you made a mistake (not even a mistake, just something she could use, aka- asking for a drink). she probably thought "wow, this is kind of intense, i have an "out" now) and use it.

she decided against dick that night. sucks. she probably went home and spanked it thinking about you though.

She didnt jump ship when she saw it going towards physical intimacy, she initiated that. Its because you turned her down that she probably snapped back to reality and though "wait, what am I doing? I just met this guy, and I am at work after all". Remember women are really emotional so you had her under your spell until you turned her down and she literally got cold that very second. She probably started overthinking it, maybe though you were using her somehow etc. etc.