In The Game, Neil Strauss talks about how the idea of the game is to win, and that you only win by leaving the game.
Neil left the game in a relationship, others left while seeking spiritual enlightenment.
Please do not assume I'm in any relationship or that I'm going to become a monk!!! I'm not!
The reason for my departure is time constraints, no time for the forum. But more importantly, the surprising way some people on the forum acted. There was very little positivity from many of the members (which may have changed. I hope it has) There was much more negativity and an unwillingness to help in many post replies, not just my own.
The above does not apply to everyone! There are some amazing people on this forum! To those of you that answered my questions genuinely, thank you. To those of you that just mocked my curiosity/naivety/lack of understanding, or took it for insecurity, I wish you the best anyway.
I'm not a psychologist and will never pretend to be. However, one thing seems clear, quite a few people seem like they would rather just knock other people and put them down, instead of help them grow. For me, that's really not cool.
For those who agree with my view on the negativity, ignore their posts and replies, or just get a job that takes up loads of your time haha.
For those of you that are negative, it's ok to be that way. I'm just not keen on that sort of attitude. As long as that negativity isn't damaging your life, friends lives, or any relationships, then it's all good.
I wish you all the best with your Sarging, FB's and Relationships.
Take care and God bless.
p.s. If you post on here very regularly, you're probably not out meeting enough women. So if anyone posts too regularly you can assume they are a keyboard jockey or a super rich playboy!
p.p.s. Rich guys living the playboy lifestyle probably would not have time to post on this forum
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