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PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 5:05 am 
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it's different somewhat, is it not?

I mean I can apply some stuff and it helps, but it's different. i've gotten to know quite a few girls by just asking stupid questions I already knew the answer to just establish some small talk. and eventually actual conversations, then it's good. so there's about 20 girls I've gotten to know first semester just from this. I just started learning this stuff a few weeks ago. I've just become more outgoing like I used to in junior high, tenth now. I just am not afraid to talk to girls anymore, even the hot/popular ones. if anything they're the easiest to talk to cause they are more talkative and aren't usually too bright. I've been told I'm attractive, but I'm just average looking, won't stand out in a crowd, but I'm cool with that. most girls turn out to be pretty chill and easy to talk to. I think some develop crshes on me just because I chat tem up regularly; but most girls I just talk to to practice getting over AA. any advice? thanks!


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Well, I say ask one or some of them out. Since you have about twenty to choose from you shouldn't be in danger of getting obsessed about one of them or anything. I am absolutely certain atleast one you ask out will accept, more if you're not a bad or average looking dude (and if you're "average", more than one will). I was in a situation similiar to yours late last year, except there were around ten girls instead of twenty. Needless to say I thought I had to really get to know and befriend them first or some crap like that, didn't even try to escalate or do kino etc. and what do you know, eventually they all started doing that whole "I'm going to talk and answer in sentences that consist of three words at maximum" thing. In retrospective it's really interesting to wonder what the hell I was thinking, but I suggest you try avoiding the same outcome. Just ask one out, if she doesn't accept, big deal, on to the next one. Like I said the amount of options you have here should be a gift from god in this situation. You're already past the approaching part which is probably the hardest and assuming you haven't developed strong emotional bonds with any of them yet, you should do just fine if you face rejection.


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guys I am in so much need of some general advice! I've overloaded myself with reading and videos. so basically my problem is putting it all together. so, being in high school I think it might be different, at least with girls' attitudes about dating. all I've been getting good at it is talking small talk to girls I hadn't looked at all semester. it's in the class so I'm not sure how to escalte or find a good time to friendly touch. is that good for sexual tension? and also, is there any subtle shit that girls do when they like you but won't be very obvious about it? before I even got into PU, I talked to a girl for about half an hour after school and even got a number close. I want to be able to do that on a regular basis. what should I do to make PUA work on high school?

so besides links to overload me with info, I kinda need a brief skim of it all. thanks!


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:30 am 
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Sorry man as far as i know, highschool girls are different. I don't know what you're supposed to do in order to pick up/attract them.


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thanks it's all good man.

guys, I just read about the trust test and some other stuff like that, and I think that's genius. esepcially for high school girls. I wanna start field testing at school immediately. would it be a good idea to do trust test in school? any other good gambits?

I'm getting better with neg and stuff too. thanks you for these forums!


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Yup do the "cube gambit" it's pretty good


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what exactly is this gambit? I searched it but can't find what it is


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The reason that PUA isnt advised for Highschoolers, is that it is developed for the actual pickup scenario, 21+.

Most highschoolers who try it become PUA creeps. PUA creeps, meaning they analyze everything and every-one around them in terms of the game, and this certainly isnt a good thing. They approach a few woman with canned openers, and from experience, this does not work well. It can and sometimes does have the opposite effect that the person wished, they become more socially awkward and distant form the thing they are trying to accomplish: social acceptance, and high value.

Highschool is about building social circles and value. The more social value the better. EX: The "Hottest Guy" at school, the "best athlete" at school, whats stopping you from being "The Most Fun Guy To Be Around" at school? Yourself.
Im not going to outline how to become the man at school, because its in you, and you need to find it yourself.

Although some general guidelines are; Be cocky and funny, dont overcomplicate things, be social, dont be immature, and remember when your having fun and having a good energy, people around you are attracted to that.

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The reason that PUA isnt advised for Highschoolers, is that it is developed for the actual pickup scenario, 21+.

Most highschoolers who try it become PUA creeps. PUA creeps, meaning they analyze everything and every-one around them in terms of the game, and this certainly isnt a good thing. They approach a few woman with canned openers, and from experience, this does not work well. It can and sometimes does have the opposite effect that the person wished, they become more socially awkward and distant form the thing they are trying to accomplish: social acceptance, and high value.

Highschool is about building social circles and value. The more social value the better. EX: The "Hottest Guy" at school, the "best athlete" at school, whats stopping you from being "The Most Fun Guy To Be Around" at school? Yourself.
Im not going to outline how to become the man at school, because its in you, and you need to find it yourself.

Although some general guidelines are; Be cocky and funny, dont overcomplicate things, be social, dont be immature, and remember when your having fun and having a good energy, people around you are attracted to that.

Parties > WoW.

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this makes perfect sense. guys like that do well with the ladies. they just act confident aka cocky sob's. but it works. what I've learned and applied is that I should be cockier and not so shy. I also just talk to girls like they are the ugly chicks I have always been able to talk to. and it's working! I naturally have a decent sense of humor which has helped me expand my social circle each year (I always become pretty good friends with at least twenty people every year, after moving to my high school just two years ago). I'm getting good at making girls laugh, but it's hard to tell what's funny cuz quite a few laugh at most things I say (in a good way). what I'm workin on is keeping my stance more alpha and maintaining eye contact with women. when I used to think girls were looking at me, I would just keep looking down, but now I'm more confident and look back. but I'm scared as shit to smile. I know it's dumb, but I don't wanna be creepy. any advice?

overall though, I think I can transfer some of the PUA stuff to high school and make it work. thanks for the help guys!


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High schooler here. Senior. I like silent's post he is definitely 100% correct. Social status and your friends matter a lot in high school. A girl (imo) will think of what her friends will think if shes with you. You want to make that a pleasant thought. I also just discovered this site recently. lol i was very introverted until this senior year came by. But its really good that you're doing the whole body language/ eye contact thing. As much as people say it doesn't matter, you have to be a "cool" kid. People liking you helps, people respecting you, even better. If you are friends with the guys who get girls, then you will also get girls.

You can't really run routines and use lines found on this site so much in high school. It is going to have to be a lot of natural/inner game. I have been learning a lot from this site, as well as my acquaintance (who I am lucky to know, sort of) an alpha-male-to-the-extreme natural who literally every girl has a story with him. So look at the "alphas" in your school and see what they are doing, because whatever it is, it is getting them girls.

Go out of your school however, like a mall or something, then you can apply more of this material. I currently don't have a phone (lol), but once I do I will spit game at a lot more girls and post field reports (and these will be done in school), and I am going to the mall next week with my friend with the soul purpose of getting numbers (about which I will also post).

It is also going to be a little more difficult for you because you are a sophomore (right?). I always see the girls being taken by older guys (not a problem anymore for me cuz im a senior hehe). Go for freshmen. Seriously you will find it to be a lot easier.


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yes sir I'm a sophomore and I've got a good friend who has always had this natural alpha outlook so he should help me out some. and yes, I've noticed the freshman girls I talk to are a lot flirtier. I don't think they are sluts (many are) lol. luckily, next year I'll be taking three electives, all of which will mostly be younger than me. not sure why, but I always think younger girls are easier to talk to. I'm just getting better at being confident and talking to girls. this website has definitely helped me a lot.

I'm just not totally sure how to ask girls out once I've gotten to know them. like how long to wait and stuff. I've also never even kissed a chick. have grinded and stuff at dances, but that's it.


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girls always like older guys aka: freshman flirting with sophomores etc etc. its probably easiest to go after younger chicks in hs just my 5 cents


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this well help all you underagers (dont worry im one too i helped create half of this high school shit)

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