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PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 5:34 am 
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Ok guys so I need some LMR help in my situation. If I try the "get up unfazed and do something else," then she knows automatically that I'm withdrawing my attention. And she doesn't respond well to it. Instead of following me like a needy puppy, she will accept my actions and silently get pissed inside. She's the VERY stubborn type. So what kinda strategy should I use with this girl?

P.S. Can someone explain the "You've hijacked my brain" tactic to me? (I've heard ABOUT it, but don't actually know it.) And would it work?

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 10:52 am 
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Ok guys so I need some LMR help in my situation. If I try the "get up unfazed and do something else," then she knows automatically that I'm withdrawing my attention. And she doesn't respond well to it. Instead of following me like a needy puppy, she will accept my actions and silently get pissed inside. She's the VERY stubborn type. So what kinda strategy should I use with this girl?

P.S. Can someone explain the "You've hijacked my brain" tactic to me? (I've heard ABOUT it, but don't actually know it.) And would it work?

Thanks in advance guys!
C'mon guys, I have a hard time believing that stubborn girls are THAT rare. Gimmie some feedback, thanks.


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I had a girl like that, she had some issues about sex, the LMR would appear i would do like you did, and she wouldnt respond. Only did sex after some dates after the girl knew I was into her and things went naturally,this girl was very defensive. It will help you. But is your girl virgin maybe?

The Hijack routine: You call her or tell her that you dream about her all night , and you tell a line like you have hijacked my brain, who do you think you are to enter in my live and in my dreams without my permission. something along the line dont remember thoo.


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maybe rather than stubborn she just isnt a needy puppy and is astute and sees through your ploy, maybe she is acting 'unfazed' in response or maybe she just is 'unfazed' and just too cool for you
it might help to know more: are you in a relationship with her already? how long for? for what reason are you doing the unfazed walkaway thing, what has she done to prompt that, what are you attempting to achieve with it?

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Get her horny.


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You're probably pushing for sex and then acting visibly pouty or frustrated or annoyed when she doesn't "give" it to you.

You may find my posts in these threads helpful.

Kino Escalation using Push-Pull and Freeze-outs for LMR
sleeping-with-girls-but-not-sex-vp40799 ... ht=#407998

Being Alpha, Making Sex her Reward, and the Points Game
re-facebook-and-your-girlfriend-vp40931 ... ht=#409316

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 5:27 am 
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maybe rather than stubborn she just isnt a needy puppy and is astute and sees through your ploy, maybe she is acting 'unfazed' in response or maybe she just is 'unfazed' and just too cool for you
it might help to know more: are you in a relationship with her already? how long for? for what reason are you doing the unfazed walkaway thing, what has she done to prompt that, what are you attempting to achieve with it?
I'm in a relationship with her (for a month now), so no worries with the "too cool for me" thing. She really is a stubborn girl though. And there's 2 possible extremes to go about dealing with the LMR. If I act like I'm totally cool with her resistance, it gets her in the habit of thinking it's OK to do that to me = I get walked on. And on the other extreme, if I act totally pissed that she did that, she'll think that she has the power to affect me = I still get walked on. So I saw the "unfazed" option as the best bet. A balance in between the two. But THAT didn't even work.


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Get her horny.
Yeah trust me, I'm really good at that. But even if she's SUPER horny, her mind is obviously still working too much.


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You're probably pushing for sex and then acting visibly pouty or frustrated or annoyed when she doesn't "give" it to you.

You may find my posts in these threads helpful.

Kino Escalation using Push-Pull and Freeze-outs for LMR
sleeping-with-girls-but-not-sex-vp40799 ... ht=#407998

Being Alpha, Making Sex her Reward, and the Points Game
re-facebook-and-your-girlfriend-vp40931 ... ht=#409316
Very nice points you make. I like the push and pull idea! I'm totally gonna use that now. And actually I used to play the points game with some ex's, but I forgot all about it! Lol I guess I gotta keep up on my PUA practice, or I'll lose it.


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