Theres this girl whos a virgin, and shes attracted to me. I like her abit too but not interested in a LTR. I want to make it plain and simple for her that im only interested for a night stand/fuck buddy. Seeing shes a virgin, I ask you guys for help as I don't want a emotional attachment to happen and we all know that will only end in tears. Yeah I can make her laugh etc and its obvious shes into me but how can I explain I just want the nookie?

Cheers guys

If you do it before you get laid, I assure you 0% success rate of taking her V card.

That is why you should always do it when shes the most emotional. Like after bed. I know it'll be hard but if you want to fuk her at all, this is the best time.

When you two are in bed after a hard steamy fuk session (lol) just talk real to her. Soften the blow. Don't verbally say that you just want to fuk her all day and use her as a fuk buddy. NO hell NO. Just say something in the lines of "Look (insert name), I REALLY REALLY like you and all but I don't think that I'm ready for an exclusive relationship at the moment... I really hope this doesn't get in the way of us because I really enjoy you being apart of my life". Something like this shows that a. you don't want a relationship, and b. it leaves room in the future incase you really do want a relationship and shows you aren't just throwing her away or using her. She will understand and you will continue to fuk her. Simple man.

The only "downside" to this is she might still feel like she has a chance with you so she might like you afterwards and try to win you over. But simple, if she ever brings out the relationship topic anytime your not having sex, just say "Look let's talk about this later okay baby?". And then you can bring it up after sex and basically tell her that it won't happen (in a good way).

Remember, you have to give her INCREDIBLE sex for this to happen and for her to stay loyal to you. Think about it, if the sex isn't good and she knows she has very little chance of getting in a relationship, she can easily move on and fuk other guys etcetc.

So become good at sex. REALLY fucking good. Give her continuous multiple orgasms back to back. That will make her fall in love with you and sex with any other guy will not be the same anymore.

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Yes, all great advice.

My speech is usually along the lines of "I really like you and I really enjoy the time we spend together, but I think you should know that I'm not really looking for an exclusive relationship right now. I'm open to commitment in the future if we get to know each other better and become more serious, but that's not where I am right now. I want to tell you this in case you want to leave now because you feel you might get hurt in the future, but if you're cool with us seeing each other when we do, and not caring what they other does when we're apart, then that's great and we can keep having more great times together "

The two areas guys often fall down on are the bits before and after the sex. If you want to get a girl to cum, forget learning 250 advanced positions, just work on your foreplay instead. I learned this the hard way because a girl I'd been in an MLTR with told me that my foreplay was so bad that she was never in the right emotional state when we had sex, which meant she couldn't relax and feel everything properly and she had actually faked every time we'd been together! That absolutely shattered my self-confidence for a while, but it made me really want to learn and work on that aspect. If you slowly build her up over 20-30 minutes before penetration, touching all the non-sexual parts first, lightly, dirty talking and telling her all the stuff you're GOING to do to her, how hot she is, how amazing her skin feels, how you can't wait to be inside her, then believe me once you start she'll already be ready to blow!

Secondly is the after sex cuddling is such a golden opportunity that guys miss out on. In that moment after sex when you're laying there spooning or whatever, you can ask her ANYTHING and she'll be completely 100% honest with you. You can actually work on your game by asking her if she remembers what you first said to her, how you guys met, what initially attracted you to her, when she had the inkling of when she felt like sex was gonna happen, and you'd be surprised how detailed she will remember these things! This is a great time to have the relationship talk, as shinigaml said, and also a great time to ask her about her fantasies, likes, what she wants, so that you can give it to her even better next time!

Finally, for your specific situation, if she's a virgin the first time will probably be a bit painful for her and you're going to have to take things even slower at first. She will also be absolutely shit at sex, won't know how to suck your dick very well, and will likely lie there like a dead fish. You will probably want to teach her some stuff and watch porn with her to get her better at it over time.

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Hey I dont mean to de-rail this thread. But

Is there something Im missing here? I have looked into this stuff before (granted not a whole lot) and I cant find definitive instructions on how to achieve this.. Any chance of a link, or the name of a technique?

Thanks

The first part is doing foreplay correctly, which I talked about above.

Secondly is good technique going down on her, you want to give her a clitoral orgasm first before you penetrate if possible. Don't go for the clit straight away, kiss her inner thighs first and around the area, then the outer lips, and then around the inner lips and start gently and slowly around the clit as it starts to get filled with blood and she gets wet. Use a range of motions (circles, up and down, side to side) and see how she reacts - some girls will have one side that is more sensitive. Once you find what works, noticing how her body reacts and how she breathes or moans, build up to a certain pace, not too fast, and HOLD IT. When you feel like she's getting towards cumming (and this is true for penetration too) DO NOT change the motion or the pace (a lot of guys get excited when they hear her moaning louder and speed up) otherwise she'll lose it and you have to start again and she can get frustrated.

Next is using one or two fingers to stimulate her g-spot, which is just a touch past her pubic bone on the front wall of her pussy. You want to stimulate this using a "come hither" motion, slowly and gently at first. The g-spot feels like a spot with a different texture than the rest of the vaginal wall, and as you stimulate it, blood will circulate to that area and it begin to swell and it will get bigger and harder. At this point you can increase pressure and speed, up to a point, until she cums. If done right many women will squirt from this. MAKE SURE YOUR FINGERNAILS ARE CUT AND SMOOTH.

Once the clit and g-spot are stimulated like that, penetration should be able to give her as many orgasms as you have the stamina for. Good positions are ones in which the angle of the penis is such that it is hitting that upper wall. For example, doggystyle with the angle pointed downwards (one of women's favourites), her on top leaning backwards, the lotus, and missionary with a pillow under her and you leaning backwards thrusting upwards.

You can also stimulate the underside of the vaginal wall i.e. the wall between the anus and vagina, using the same come hither technique except a bit further in and with your hand the other way obviously. If this stimulation feels good to her, then anal sex, which hits the same spot from the other side, can give her an orgasm too.

Finally the deep spot can be stimulated in the same way although penetration is easier than reaching your fingers that far back. Be careful to not go so deep you hit her cervix as this is painful!

However, these techniques will not work if you fail to build her up into the right sexual state first. If the emotion is there for her, she will cum a lot lot easier.

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if you just want sex wud you not be better being with someone who will be good at sex, since she is a virgin i just cant see the point? is it that you cant actually get anyone who has had sex already to fuck you?
i think that is is extremely likely that 'an emotional attachment will happen' and you will upset her if you tell her this whether before or after
surely you can find a better target for your desires, it just seems cruel and pointless to me
why dont you be man enuf to just leave this one alone?

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