Hello everyone, i hope u could give me some proper advice here:
so i have been having this super hot girlfriend for a little over a month, now she suddenly tells me she thinks we have too much sex, now for how she reacts in bed and how i judge my performance from how she is responding to me in bed it looks like she really likes me in bed, but somehow she wants less sex even tho i know she loves sex. Is there any way for this to change make her want sex more? or is it just a thing that is unchangeable because she decided it already. Hope u can give me some advices. Thanks!

I am guessing you are young... I'm going to say she is 16 or so. This is ether a ruse, or anti slut deference. If this is the case she has no weight and you have no worries. First, she likes sex just as much as you, and her friends probably are calling her a slut because she is getting some. Second, she might think that you have stopped working for sex, if this is the case you need to keep taking her out, keep being spontaneous, and don't just sit around watch movies and fuck, BAD FORM! Lastly she might be worried a bout getting preggo! In that case, address her concern, talk about options and show that you are responsible. You handle all this shit, she will fuck you all you want!!!

How old is she?

Maybe she's feeling sore? Some girls do you know. Personally try to make less a deal as possible, with women, the more fuel you give, the bigger the flame becomes.

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I would ask her what the issue is thats turning her off from sex.

If she doesn't give an answer that makes sense... do what she least expects: DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HER AT ALL. For like a week or so.

Then go back to your normal sex routine. If this issue comes up again.. tell her you "want less commitment". Gah..

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there are several causes for her behavior. im just gona list so u can see which one might apply

1. shes too young
2. feels dirty, ie. friends calling her up on it
3. scared of pregancy
4. deep morals within her that go against a lot of sex
5. sex is becomming more of a chore, rather than something she earned from YOU
6. sex is TOO predictable and repetitive with you
7. her sex drive is low
8. she is not as excited to have sex with you as much as before (get bedroom skills)
9. attraction spark is low
10. all of the above

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We definantly didn't loose the spark, and she is allways very turned on to me, i might think she will have a hard time to deny me even tho she said it but, i will try out the 1 week thing and some of the other methods you suggested, thank you very much

my advice is if shes says less sex be like "o okay sure" girls often put up rings and want us men to jump over them to prove how much we love them eventually she will realize that you do like her more then she thought and she will be more willing to bend to your rules ..

***note never seem enthusiastic when your now having less sex otherwise she may develop dominant personality because she will feel like she can control your urges something i myself am not attracted to and had to cut off from a girl i was hooking up with because of it**

anyways let me know how it turns out good luck

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i think what she might be saying is you guys spending too much time only having sex and more importantly not spending enuf time doing 'other stuff' out of the bedroom

in other words she has enjoyed all the sex, but now she wants more from the relationship

ask her what else she wants to do, then i think when you have done enuf of that, she will be happy to have just as much sex with you if not more

and btw nothing is unchangable just cos we have decided it, women always reserve the rights to change our mind as often as we like

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rather then have sex with her try teasing her that'll drive her crazy

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