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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:11 am 
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This girl showed strong interest in me in the beggining and found me very attractive but I was a little too playful and negged too much (she is a hb9 but has low self esteem- i come to find out later). She started showing less interest in me after she called me out on it. She said she could not read me and I was hard to figure out. She also said I turned everything into a joke.

Anyhow, we remained in contact and our talks are mostly flirty but she would get off the phone quite quickly. She would text me every now and then and tell me she missed me.
Now here's the deal- last week she texted me and i meant to text my ex girlfriend but it accidentally went to her. She called me out on it and I was in a really pissed off mood (issues with my ex) and I told this girl to fuck off. I said some mean things to her. She called me later on and I appologized for what I did.

I felt genuinely bad for what I did so I texted her a few days later and said a lot of nice things about her. I became a little AFC, i'll admit. No text back from her.

Given what happened, if she does contact me again, how can I make things better? I know sme might say to move on, and I am talking to other girls, but this girl is a potential and I just want to know what I can do to make her attracted to me again given what has happened so far?


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This girl showed strong interest in me in the beggining and found me very attractive but I was a little too playful and negged too much (she is a hb9 but has low self esteem- i come to find out later). She started showing less interest in me after she called me out on it. She said she could not read me and I was hard to figure out. She also said I turned everything into a joke.

Anyhow, we remained in contact and our talks are mostly flirty but she would get off the phone quite quickly. She would text me every now and then and tell me she missed me.
Now here's the deal- last week she texted me and i meant to text my ex girlfriend but it accidentally went to her. She called me out on it and I was in a really pissed off mood (issues with my ex) and I told this girl to fuck off. I said some mean things to her. She called me later on and I appologized for what I did.

I felt genuinely bad for what I did so I texted her a few days later and said a lot of nice things about her. I became a little AFC, i'll admit. No text back from her.

Given what happened, if she does contact me again, how can I make things better? I know sme might say to move on, and I am talking to other girls, but this girl is a potential and I just want to know what I can do to make her attracted to me again given what has happened so far?
yo you cant be one guy and then be a whole different guy the next day lol

wait it out at least a week and then invite her to some place

ask her genuinely and don't bs or make it all into a joke

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 4:26 am 
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Thats the thing. I think she thinks I am fake, especially because I was all playfull and negging before and now i'm more "real". And I don't know how to fix this and come across as real and emote.

But shouldn't it be her turn to contact me? I said sorry twice and said a lot of nice things about her (which I am not sure if she believes me). She has not texted me, but I might catch her on messenger sometime. Do I approach her again or her turn to approach me? The fact that I said some shitty things to her is messing up my perception of how to handle this.

So far I have blocked her online in an attempt to freeze out since I texted her being all nice and saying sweet things to her to make up for my fuck up. Now sure if it's the right thing though lol.


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PostPosted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 3:42 pm 
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bump :D


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Have you slept with her yet? You are putting way too much thought and effort into this. Women are an abundance.


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